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it has always been a dream of mine to relax

I always loved how back in the day before cellphones, people were unreachable if they weren’t at home. You can call but I won’t be there to answer. You can leave a message but you don’t know how long it’ll be until I hear it. You don’t know if I’m home, but you will have to make the trip to come to my house and knock on the door, hoping I’ll be there. And if I’m not…you can’t reach me!! Now that everyone has a cellphone the expectation of being reachable 24/7 is so disastrous. And let’s not even get into read receipts. I think one of the worst times of my inner peace is when I had an apple watch and suddenly every text and phone call and notification was on my freaking wrist, even if my phone was giving the illusion of distance by being in my pocket or bag or charging in another room. I stopped using it in 2022 and I’d rather eat a jean jacket with no water than ever be so connected again. “oh you can just turn off notifications!” not the point.

At a certain point in every woman’s life she needs to disappear from the lives of everyone she knows and do her own thing because otherwise she would go crazy

Crazy how if you don’t post your vacations blessings etc on social media people don’t think you have any

if there's one thing I love about studio ghibli films, it's the way they showcase and romanticise the characters' daily routines. from the cooking scenes, to the studying scenes, the scenes of nature, it reminds me to find the joy in my daily routine.

every man who says women have it easier because they can make porn when financially unstable legitimately have to kill themselves I am 100% serious

I just want to let you guys know Cornell's entire library is open access (no permissions required) and there are (shocker) many books...

76,474 books at time of reblog!!!

i like my men dominant but also obedient, you wouldn’t get it

eating disorder culture being normalized will not win in this house if nothing else i need other ppl to know they need to fight this as much as possible yall cannot let this shit happen to you please dont fall for it