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the concept of a ‘gold star’ is all about assigning some kind of moral purity to having not fucked someone in particular.

By pretending this is a thing worth giving a shit about, these people hope to make incredibly sexy people (bisexual and transgender and also you specifically reading this) feel like they can’t participate in the lesbian community because they aren’t pure of twat or whatever.

I will never assume someone who asks about this is asking in good faith. I will tell them to fuck off. They are exclusionists, they are doing an evil thing and they are wrong. Period.

**Maybe you should reblog this because I'm actually worried that most people don't know.

READ THE EPI PEN INSTRUCTIONS TOO!

-Don't cover the back end (blue) of the Epi Pen with your thumb.

pretending to gag at asian food

pretending to be weirded out by asian customs and cultures

excusing cultural appropriation (often through ignoring the stories of asians who have been mocked for wearing their ethnic dress while praising a white person for doing so)

not trying to learn how to pronounce an asian person’s ethnic name correctly, or asking, “can i call you by something else?”

adopting an asian name for the ~aesthetic~

using the words “oriental” and “exotic” to describe asian people, particular asian women

ignoring the experiences and stories of south, southeast, and central asians

making sweeping assumptions about asian countries (including their political, historical and cultural landscape)

treating the entire asian community as a monolith and ignoring the fact that the experiences of asian nationals are remarkably different from the asian diaspora/migrant community

15+ daily since I joined Tumblr and this morning while I was sitting beside my son trying to ease his pain I deleted each one I got while sitting in the hospital; what might have been his death bed because it took this long to look at them again and not shatter into pieces