creating my empire.

1. Choose to act, or to do what you should you. Don’t wait until you feel that you are in the right mood.

2. Decide to keep on going, and to finish what you’ve started. Don’t allow yourself to give up when you’re only part way through.

3. Be honest with yourself and call yourself on the excuses. They’re often just a cover for not wanting to do something.

4. Plan ahead and break large goals down into smaller, short-term goals – and put these on a calendar, and tick them off each day.

5. Remind yourself how great you’ll feel when later you’ve achieved and reached the goals you set yourself, and have that better life.

6. Also, distinguish what’s important and will matter down the road, from what is temporary – or seems worthwhile in the moment.

7. Try not to be distracted by the things that eat up time - like gaming, watching movies or just hanging out with friends.

1. Damsel in distress: put on a sweet and innocent act, you can never lose by acting naive. Shed a few tears if it helps. Say please. Most of the time when we say please we either say it rushed or grudgingly. But have you noticed how children say please? They stretch it out, pout. You can never say no to them. Clasp your hands together for a humorous affect to lighten the mood. Kneel down on the floor next to him, make your eyes big, touch his thigh, then ask and say please at the end. Experiment, see what works for you depending on your niche (whether you’re cute/ playful, bossy, mysterious.etc). 

2. Make him think the idea was him: But it’s difficult because you have to be clever and act shy and modest about it. Even if he knows he didn’t come up with the idea, act like he did. The fact that you’re giving in and letting him think he won is the best way to get things.

3. Give him something he loves: People love surprises no matter how much they say they don’t. You don’t need to buy him a LV bag, just a small inexpensive gift, send him food or a picture, text when he’s at work before you meet up that night.

4. Ask really nicely. Similar to saying please^. We hate asking for things, or at least I do. Tell him how important it is to you, promise to make it up to him afterwards.

5. Butter him up. Don’t make it look too obvious so start in the morning so that at night when you ask he can’t get mad.

6. Kiss him! A long kiss and when he’s still recovering ask.

Remember only open mouths get fed. Men can’t read minds and will only know what you expect when you TELL them (or ask)

5 star vacations

5 star dining

5 star everything

1. Visibility Is The Key

The secret is to go to right places and be in the right social circles And to avoid men that you see that don’t have a good life perspective to offer.

No matter how gorgeous or attractive you are, if you are not in a right environment, all your efforts ain’t worth a dime.

Even the most beautiful woman will be forgotten if nobody can see her. If you don’t let your surrounding notice you, then your night failed. 

Always stand somewhere where everyone can see you, and where you can flirt. not to hide in the dark. Let yourself be noticed! Always keep your visibility, woman! 

I learned how important it is to be in a strategic position in the club – always somewhere in the center, or next to the bar where everyone was coming to take a drink.

When offered a drink, always say thank you, smile, and raise a glass in his direction, even if he is on the other side of the club. Look him straight in the eye, and let him feel your power

If someone seems strange, pushy or aggressive, say no to the next drink he sends and ignore him completely. He’ll get the message

A real lady never leaves the party last – she leaves it among first, letting everybody think she has better things to do. 

2. Select your Targets

Don’t give your phone number to any guy, just collect all of their business cards, names and phone numbers. 

Say: “I am sorry, I do not often meet men in clubs, so if you don’t mind, I would rather take your number and give you a call these days”.

If you go out with every cute guy that asks you out, you would waste your life on endless dating.

You have to be smart, and do a pre- selection at home. First google them at home, and then decide who you will call. 

It also makes you more desirable and unreachable, when no one gets your number, but it is you who is choosing!

Check his background, possessions, and then if he is worth it, meet him.

Always pretend you’re clueless about him, he mustn’t ever realize you where scanning him.

When a guy doesn’t want to say clearly what he does for a living, he is either nobody, or a liar, or a criminal. Anyhow, remove him. Only play safe.  

Until MM doesn’t buy you something, he is fake. EVERY MM IS FAKE UNTIL HE PROVES THE OPPOSITE 

3. Maintain a good Reputation

Feel free to date several men parallel until you chose the one you like. Usually you will have either 5 admirers or zero. That’s how these things roll in life 

But be Quiet About Your Game. Always be a bit reserved about your interactions with men with your friends. Not too many people should ever know much about your love life, because people love to talk. 

No man wants to date, as in a serious relationship, a girl he find promiscuous. To buy her stuff even less likely. 

Even if you dated and slept with hundreds of men, men will always be men, so never be honest about it. 

Crazy stories from college, threesomes and sex in public are details you are sharing with your girlfriends, never with your boyfriend. 

Who knows how many good relationships I destroyed with my wish to be over-interesting… 

Present first the best things about yourself, leave the trash for later.

In order to make MM (man of means) want to invest in you, you have to seem as an unreachable “not-everyone-can-date- me” kind a girl. 

Therefore, try to date men in different states and cities. If all your partners are from the same place, the stories will inevitably come.

Ex MMs have a great part in your reputation, so never neglect them, always stay friendly with them.

This way they will just spread the word about me being a nice, modest person, with real feelings. MMs talk between themselves, trust me. 

So save yourself, and treat them all nicely. At least they should think so. 

I learned you have always to play nice, cause you never know who knows who and who is connected to who.

Delay Sex - Don’t be too easy

Why on Earth would he spend his money and time on you, if he realizes you would sleep with him straight away?

If you sleep with him immediately he will not have any reason to invest anything in you, since you already gave it up before he even had to try. 

He kissed me and proposed to have a second wine at his place. I kissed him back and said I would rather see him some other time (so here I was giving him a positive signal), than to rush into things (here I am a good girl).

On their second date, Mr. Congressman offered her to take her to a weekend in L.A. She refused, because she knew it was a strictly sex invitation. 

When a MM invites you to a trip only after few days of dating, know it is usually a booty call, and he will probably ditch you afterwards. 

She said no to him, and she claims to this day that this refusal was the reason he stayed with her. 

She emphasized to him that she needs first “to get trust into him”.

Say “I do not like to rush into things” and that you would like to get to know him better, because “I really like you”. 

Say you are currently experiencing financial difficulties, and sex just isn’t or you mind. His reaction will tell you everything. 

Teddy is officially selling the company he has been building past 20 years or so…

And I’m here for the occasion, here for the celebration champagne and here for him being extremely stupid with his money 😝

I discovered my power as a woman and used It without any concern for the others.