I graduated college today and then saw a post that reminded me of my abusive ex. And I wanted to come on here to process that but you know what, nvm. Not letting myself think about it any more today

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I graduated college today and then saw a post that reminded me of my abusive ex. And I wanted to come on here to process that but you know what, nvm. Not letting myself think about it any more today

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above all else a trans woman is a person. above all else a trans women is a woman who goes to the same grocery store as you and buys fruits in the same grocery cart as you and goes home and eats her dinner the same as you. above all else a trans woman is a woman who dresses like you do and talks the same way you do. above all else a trans woman is a woman who wants to be cared about the same way you want to be cared about and a trans woman is a woman who makes friends the same way you make friends. above all else you should care about trans women because they are people. treat her as such.
btw since this is getting notes i want to remind everyone that the way to treat trans people, especially trans women and transfeminine people, is to embrace them as your equals. you cannot help people by separating them from yourself. the way to treat trans women is not to say "i just can't be normal about them, they're all so attractive!". don't do that. don't measure trans women by their attractiveness. don't stereotype them. just recognize them as your neighbors. trans women are people who work at convenience stores and do their laundry at the laundromat and brighten up when they wear clothes they like and sing along to the music they love.
above everything else they are just normal people and you need to remember that. you need to fight for them and listen to them and appreciate them for who they are because they are people. and they deserve to have wonderful average lives just the same as you. ok
fyi things like insulin, hearing aids, wheelchairs, glasses costing money at all is a form of structural ableism
disabled people should not have to pay to live their lives like everyone else. and in the case of insulin, disabled people should not have to pay to Not Fucking Die
Everyone benefits from disabled people living their lives. Disabled people deserve to live, billionaires don’t deserve more yachts
Hey why is writing such a difficult hobby/passion to have!!

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so many leftists have never thought about disability beyond "the ADA is good i guess!". seeing people use language like "brain damaged." "governor hot wheels." protests not being accessible. community gatherings above stairs, in spaces that can't accommodate power chairs, with no language access. i've missed so many #realleftistsonly events because they weren't accessible. and when i see leftists regurgitating the ideas they've seen and heard online and in real life without critically questioning *why* this is believed or *why* they're using this language, they lose so much of their credibility. you aren't a #realleftist if you spread ableist language and ideas without thinking about it.
You are not a product. You are a person. This means that regardless of whatever they did to you, you are not damaged goods. You are still whole, worthy and enough as you are.
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They should invent a not being exhausted
they should invent activities for sleepy people with no energy
It is not a moral obligation for disabled people to try to be cured, or even want to be. Bodily autonomy means the autonomy to make that choice. A hypothetical future where every disabled person is "cured" is a future where disabled people are stripped of their bodily autonomy, because there will ALWAYS be people who don't want that.
Many people's disabilities are completely ingrained into how their entire body is structured, or how their mind works, or how they experience the world around them. A lot of people don't want that, and they don't have to want that. Disabled people aren't obligated to want to be abled. An ideal future is accessible, not free from disabled people.
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I think what some people don't get when they're saying that you need to forgive in order to let go and move on is that.. for some of us... Not forgiving is what gives us peace and allows us to move on.
Not forgiving and admitting I didn't forgive him was like a breath of fresh air. I felt lighter. I felt able to move on. Trying to forgive because I was "supposed" to actually kept me stuck in it. Not forgiving was me saying that what he did was wrong, and I didn't deserve it. It was me realizing I wasn't at fault and to blame. Not forgiving was healing to me.
It's so valid if you forgive and it helped you, but others are equally as valid if they realize forgiveness wasn't for them.
I want to be clear that it's valid if forgiveness was what helped you heal. I don't think you're wrong. I just think it's wrong to assume that everyone has the same needs when healing. We're all different and what works for some doesn't necessarily work for everyone.