โ๏ธCosmoses Collectiveโ๏ธ
๐ Age talk
โฐโโค our age matches the last 3# of the year โช in 2004 i was 4 โช in 2016 i was 16 โช in 2XYZ i'd be "XYZ" โฐโโค 18+ only โช under 18's should read this โช punishment is up to two years in state jail and/or a fine of up to $10,000. โช Don't send your favorite artists and friends to jail because you wanna get off to horror-porn and gore โช Your parents will find out. โช We can have our lives ruined because of you kids. โช TLDR: don't send me to jail bc ur an impatient and lustful brat
๐ธMental Health Madness
โฐโโคNarcissism โช Empathy Type: I experience affective empathy without compassion. I deeply feel what others feel but it doesnโt automatically come with the instinct to help. My empathy is experiential and sensory, not relational โช Emotional Mirror: Iโm often described as a highly sensitive and accurate emotional mirror. I resonate with othersโ feelings as if theyโre my own โช Empathic Hunger: My emotional empathy creates an intense internal drive to feel emotions deeply. Any emotional reaction, good or bad, can excite me. I view this as a way to get to know you better. when I'm actively emotional sensation seeking and interacting with you. โชFeeling emotions because of others instead of my own through my brand of empathy is different and can feel addicting to me in a way my own feeling don't satisfy: Anger feels hot and heavy, sorrow thick and quiet, and affection like candy... โช Cognitive Empathy: I use cognitive empathy to understand others intellectually. I can logically recognize pain or distress and choose to respond compassionately even when I donโt feel the urge to โช Motivation: My motivation is self-reflective, not prosocial. I help because I know itโs right or meaningful, not because I feel compelled by emotion to do so โช Transparency: When interacting with me, know that my empathy may appear different. I still care about emotional honesty and genuine expression I just process it through a different lens โช Respect: Please engage with curiosity, not pity or moral judgment. Understanding how my empathy works helps us connect more authentically
โฐโโคBPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) โช Consistency is Key: Please try to be consistent in your words and actions. Sudden changes can be very unsettling for me. โช Clear Communication: Be as clear and straightforward as possible. Ambiguity can cause me anxiety. This includes not leaving relationship labels ambiguous. โช Validation Matters: Validate my feelings, even if you don't fully understand them. It helps me feel heard and understood. โช Boundaries: Help me understand and respect boundaries by gently reminding me of them without making me feel rejected. โช Patience: I may have intense emotional reactions. Patience and calmness can help me regain my balance.
โฐโโคAutism โช Clear Instructions: Provide clear, step-by-step instructions if you need me to do something. โช Literal Language/Tone indicators: Use tone indicators or Avoid sarcasm, idioms, and figurative language if you refuse tone indicators, as I might take things literally. โช Routine: Respect my routines and tell me in advance if there will be changes. โช Sensory Sensitivities: I might be sensitive to lights, sounds, textures, or smells. Please avoid overwhelming environments when possible. โช Social Cues: I might not pick up on social cues. If I seem unaware of something important, please tell me directly and kindly.
โฐโโคTrust Issues โช Honesty: Be honest with me. Even small lies and lies by omissions can damage my trust significantly. โช Transparency: Be open about your intentions and actions. Hidden agendas make me very anxious. โช Reliability: Follow through on your promises. Reliability builds trust over time. โช Respect My Pace: Don't rush me into trusting you. Trust takes time to build, and I need to go at my own pace. โช Safe Space: Create a safe environment where I feel comfortable expressing myself without fear of judgment or betrayal.
โฐโโคSexual Trauma Survivor โช Content Warnings: Please provide content warnings for sexual or triggering topics before discussing them. This allows me to mentally prepare myself or opt out if needed. โช Consent is Key: Respect my boundaries regarding sexual topics and interactions. Don't pressure me into discussing or engaging in anything I'm not comfortable with. โช Mindful Language: Be mindful of the language you use. Avoid the F-slur and R-slur in particular, please. Safe Space: Create a safe and non-judgmental environment where I feel comfortable expressing myself without fear of judgment or re-traumatization. โช Validation: Validate my feelings and experiences related to my trauma. Avoid minimizing or dismissing them, even if you don't fully understand. โช Boundaries: Respect my boundaries around flirting and sexual content. Understand that my behavior (for example: Sexual and flirty jokes) may be a coping mechanism, and I may need support rather than encouragement in this area. โช Supportive Response: If I disclose my trauma or struggles, respond with empathy, support, and validation. Avoid offering unsolicited advice or trying to "fix" me. โช Consistent Support: Be consistent in your support and availability. Knowing I have someone reliable to turn to can provide a sense of safety and stability.
๐พ Polyamorous
โฐโโคLovers (by the tag for them): โช SpoopyMarshmellow โช FoxyThing โช SexAu
๐ฐ๏ธ DemiPansexual
โฐโโค Pansexual โช Attraction to people of any gender or to people regardless of their gender. โฐโโคDemisexual โช Only feel sexual attraction to someone after they've formed a strong emotional bond with them.
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