D.S

a part of me dies every time a grown woman in my life uses the terms "girl math" or "girl dinner" or what fucking ever like i don't care if it's silly or ironic because there are people out there who do not see it as silly or ironic and use it to embolden their misogynistic beliefs and you should not have to demean yourself because of a dumb online trend when you are a smart capable talented complex human being can you please treat your mind and body with the love they deserve

if you feel a pull towards something — something vast, something unknown, something that whispers, something that calls over and over — you have to go to it. if there is no known path to it, make one. in this time it seems that all paths are laid out, all options exist and you can get the exact directions to the place you want to go. but this isn’t true. your path, your destination, that whisper is for you. you are not trying to go where others are, are you? but instead to a life that is yours? follow the pull. live in invention.