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Being queer and a Christian is often very difficult. I experience alienation from both sides. Often these two parts of myself feel impossible to reconcile. But, I want to share something beautiful that my priest does that nearly makes me weep every time. The Orthodox Church is not known for its inclusivity or progressiveness. It is ancient and its gears turn slowly. During Holy Communion, those who are not confirmed members of the Church may come forward for a blessing. The blessing is done by gender.
"The servant of God [Name] is blessed..." for men,
"The handmaid of God [Name] is blessed..." for women.
The first time I went up for a blessing, I was hesitant. My gender is no secret and I do not try to hide my queerness. Which blessing would I receive? With sadness, I concluded the priest would do what was simplest and default to my assigned gender.
I stood before him and bowed my head, arms crossed over my (noticeably growing) chest. He raised the golden chalice over my head and lovingly said:
"The beloved of God Quinn is blessed, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, Amen "
He has done this ever since and with this simple action, preaches one of the main, if oft forgotten pillars of Orthodoxy: It does not matter who you are, what pronouns you use, what colour your hair is, what clothes you wear, what mistakes you've made, what trials you have overcome, where you came from or where you are. You are beloved of God just as you are. You are created in the Image of God and are a sacred vessel of beauty, and there is a place for you here.
This is true inclusivity. Not the white liberal veneer placed on so many churches where the cishet, boomer congregation pats themselves on the back for the rainbow flag outside while actively misgendering the trans person sitting in the pew. My priest has not given any big speeches talking about how everyone is loved here. He doesn't have to. His genuine kindness and that of my fellow parishioners are the only sermon marginalised people need to hear. In these moments, the two parts of myself become one and I truly believe that the God I love delights in me.
not so erroneous errors
When I was young I thought that oral sex referred to kissing.Â
Wives, their men, their menâs papers
First one from Second Sex, Beauvoir
https://archive.org/details/secondsex0000beau_b3k4/page/498/mode/2up?view=theater
Second one from Long Loneliness, Dorothy Day
https://archive.org/details/longlonelinessth00dayd/page/120/mode/2up?view=theater

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âMedieval women were officially denied most of the public forms of education (song schools, grammar schools, and universities) available to males, yet paradoxically, there was a vocabulary for women performing advanced intellectual work: in Latin, for instance: auctrix (female author), scriptrix (a female scribe), magistra (a female teacher), and, though ideational, even doctrix (the female equivalent of doctor, the universityâs top rank) and apostola (female apostle). In fact, women were the first educators of both boys and girls in the home, a role codified even in scholastic theology by writers like Thomas Aquinas and Henry of Ghent as a womanâs right to teach âsound doctrineâ to the young (cf. Titus 2:1â8 or Proverbs 4:3â4). For Aquinas, this private sermo was appropriate to women, as successive theologians agreed, including even the teaching of nuns (secreto in claustro). Canon law granted the right of abbesses to teach, but not to teach men (ne doceat viros; nam mulieres potest abbatissa), a position that was effectively challenged over the centuries by Hildegard of Bingen and others.
Theologians perennially debated pro and contra as to whether women could preach publicly, the contra arguments repeated ubiquitously by modern scholars, but the pro arguments more rarely, so worth mentioning here: the traditionally accepted circumstances under which women could teach theology, for instance, are summed up by Henry of Ghent in his questio, âUtrum mulier possit esse doctor seu doctrix huius scientiae.â Repeating the standard biblical evidence that God called women as prophets to teach publicly (docere publice) or lead the Hebrew people he named four in particular: Miriam, Deborah, Huldah, and Anna â the very four, we should note, invoked in a prayer for the ordination of women in the early church. Women, like anyone who has a special gift of knowledge (1 Peter 4:10), he says, are obliged to minister or lead (debent administrare), adding that Mary Magdalene and Martha taught just as disciples (publice sicut Apostoli). These women, of course, first delivered the news of the Resurrection to the disciples themselves, an act that engendered the medieval term apostola (translated âapostolesseâ in Caxtonâs English), applied not only to the biblical women, but to revered women figures such as Catherine of Siena. Theologians alsocited in their âproâ arguments women missionaries even St. Paul had recognized, building, albeit grudgingly, a case for womenâs teaching under defined circumstances, i.e., when there is need (a shortage of labourers in the vineyard) or when there are too many corrupt or degenerate males (ironically termed âeffeminatiâ).
Fortunately for medieval women, there was never a shortage of male clerical corruption. So the loophole authorizing women to teach âby a special graceâ (ex speciali gratia) persisted, and a surprising number of women took advantage of it to preach, teach, write, and minister in a variety of ways â in the present volume alone: Agnes of Harcourt, Catherine of Siena, Colette de Corbie, Mechthild of Magdeburg, and Mary Ward. Especially at times of stress and crisis for the church, such women emerged: Hildegard of Bingenâs preaching tours took place during the twelfth-century period of heresy and schism; the turbulent years of the late thirteenth century for the papacy and for beguines gave rise to the works of Mechthild of Magdeburg, Marguerite Porete, and the anonymous author of âEckhart and the Lay Womanâ.â
Kerby-Fulton Kathryn, âTaking early women intellectuals and leaders seriouslyâ, in: Women intellectual and leaders in the Middle Ages
An observation on the Jesuits of Berkeley
Many of my student colleagues here (those of whom are scholastics preparing to be ordained priests) are happy closing tricky arguments about sex, gender, the preisthood, feminism, trans stuff, etc with the clincher âGender is fluid these days.â I should clarify. The American Jesuits find this right and just fine. But what do they mean?
I doubt they mean gender is fluid as in âall gender is an expression of being gender fluid,â which is a particular (and contested) identity. Not a fact about all human persons, at least not on most accounts of it.
Do they simply mean that gender (which I guess we now take to mean the performative stuff, a la Judith Butler, that we do with and that goes on top of our bodies) does not get determined into a particular type by our biology? And should not be determined by our upbringing?
Do they understand the difference between gender and sex? Do they have good theories for why they affirm/reject a difference?
THis post is not informative. Generally, it is complaintive. Sorry!Â
Mary OF Magdala (which is just the name of a fishing village and appended to her name because Mary was such a common name for Jewish women when she was born)
How are "conversion of Mary" paintings SO damn iconic (get it? fine, it's only a partial pun. these typical scenes were not usually icons)? It's not just strange because it's an example of classic ManBullshit to hyperfixate on a woman's "sexual sins" but because she was never a prostitute to begin with. I gather that she was too wealthy on her own for the "real" apostles and Gospel writers to not be jealous/suspicious of her past. In non-canonical Gospels, Paul is often depicted as envious of Mary because Christ loved her better and she understood more than Paul.
Go ahead, check my facts on Wiki, which, btw, is generally reliable. For a real source see Elizabeth Schussler Fiorenza's In Memory of Her, Chapter 2.
Also, consider this take on her exorcism from the WikiMind:
"The Gospelsâ writers normally relish giving dramatic descriptions of Jesus's public exorcisms, with the possessed person wailing, thrashing, and tearing his or her clothes in front of a crowd.[41]Â By contrast, that Mary's exorcism receives little attention may indicate that either Jesus performed it privately or that the recorders did not perceive it as particularly dramatic."
It implicitly names Jesus as the exorciser; not sure why I never felt I could claim that conclusively before. Who else woulda done it pre-descent of the Holy Spirit? No else had the gifts!
This quote argues that the exorcism was a quiet affair (elsewhere in the article is posits the number 7, attributed as the amount of exorcisms needed, as signifying what 7 usually signifies--completeness-- or a signifying an immense amount of psychological trauma before Mary's encounter with Christ.
Virginia Woolf
How come we focus so much on her death? Thatâs pretty gynocidal and morbid of us. Letâs root out that mulberry tree and stop being tail chasing caterpillars.Â
Word Haggard Too Haggard to Support Its Own History; Merriam-Webster Elimantes Gynocentric Past
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Definition of haggard
(Entry 1 of 2)
1of a hawk : not tamed2a: wild in appearanceb: having a worn or
emaciated
appearance :
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haggard faces looked up sadly from out of the strawâ W. M. Thackeray
haggard
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Definition of haggard (Entry 2 of 2)
1: an adult hawk caught wild2obsolete : an
intractable
person
First Known Use of haggard
Adjective
circa 1566, in the meaning defined at sense 1
Noun
1567, in the meaning defined at sense 1
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Adjective and Noun
Middle French hagard
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Compare ^ to what Mary Daly dis-covers about haggard when she wrote her generational Gyn/Ecology in the 70s. (page 14, 1990 reprint by Beacon Press, Boston)

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Selected Quotes from Simone de Beauvoirâs The Second Sex
Taken from the Borde and Malovany-Chevallier translation (2010)
â[I]t must not be concluded that her ovaries condemn her to living on her knees eternallyâ (763).
â[I]t must be repeated again that within the human collectivity nothing is naturalâ (761).
On the Independent Woman... âThe fact is that the traditional woman is a mystified consciousness and an instrument of mystificationâ (746).
On the Woman in Love... âShe abandons herself first to love to save herself; but the paradox of idolatrous love is that in order to save herself, she ends up totally disavowing herself.â (691).Â
âWhat makes relationships valuable is their truthfulness.â (585).
On The Mother... âIn one sense the mystery of the incarnation is repeated in each woman; every child who is born is a god who becomes human.â (540).
On the girlâs childhood.... â...she realizes that it is not women but men who are the masters of the world. It is thsi revelation--far more than the discovery of the penis--that imperiously modifies her consciousness of herself.â (301).
âWhen personalities seek to reach each other without surrendering themselves... their attempt is doomed to failure.â (230).
âClearly man wants womanâs enslavement when fantasizing about himself as benefactor, liberator, or redeemer. ...what he demands in his heart of hearts is that this struggle remain a game for him, while for woman it involves her very destinyâ (201).
âIt is not womenâs inferiority that has determined their historical significance: it is their historical insignificance that has doomed them to inferiority.â (151).
âThe female more than the male is prey to the speciesâ (Biological Data).Â
A Place Removed
Summer, when she first came to town.
They were both fish out of water-
Awkward and away from home
She only a week removed
But he had been lost for 5 years
Neither of them belonged here but
They seemed to fit together.
Inexplicably, his square peg
Matched her round hole perfectly
But their peg board quickly filled
âCosmic coincidencesâ
Taking over their lives was too
Much to handle so they did their
Best to ignore the
- exotic birds they had hung around their necks
-Words they had tattooed themselves in
-Emptiness of  sounds they claimed as their own
Pushing on, they questioned
The system but never themselves.
Blamed bureaucracy
Cursed the cosmos and lady luck,
It was easier then
They were confused but they acted
Well and pretended the truth