creciendo a la intemperie de los hechos

sir that is my emotional support snarky tragic male character with parental issues

"trans people who use their natal genitalia during sex are also equally trans to people who dont" and "you should not assume that all trans people want to use their natal genitalia during sex in the way that you expect people with those genitals to or at all because theres a high likelihood that the trans person in question is dysphoric and doesnt do that" are two ideas that can should and do coexist. you can simply ask a trans person how they prefer to have sex/if they want to have sex at all if you're trying to have sex with them btw

Be a teachable individual YOU DO NOT know everything

There’s something to be said for a boss who hates going to work as much as you. Who starts the week by going “Ugh, it’s Monday again. Fuuuckkkk I don’t want to be here!” in the break room. It’s way more motivating than you’d expect.