College of Idaho Women's and Men's Center

This is really important to me.  I just got out of an abusive relationship and I hope that no one ever has to feel like I did.

This needs to get spread a good bit more. 

See, guys. This is how you do it. Notice the words “Not all men are like that” are never spoken.

My therapist gave me an awesome idea and it has been working so far. She told me to freeze a whole fresh fruit like an orange and then whenever you feel like hurting yourself, press the fruit as hard as you need to against whatever you want to hurt. I told my household it was for a muscle massage technique I read online.

Rape isn’t about uncontrollable sexual desire. You only have to listen in on a Call of Duty game to see that. When that kid crows, “I raped you!”, he’s not calling the other guy sexy; he’s saying he defeated him, dominated him, humiliated him. That’s what rape is about, and that should scare you.

this is the most important thing that I have reblogged for a long time.

This ad series is literally doing everything right

WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND?!?!

I’m reblogging this because we’ve had messages in the past related to this topic (e.g. “does it count as rape if you’re married?”) All of you ladies (and a few gentlemen who follow as well) need to know this stuff!