(BLVCKD!M0ND$) Annette Mars

ALL 2024.

CLAIMING IT NOW.

IT IS YOURS.

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At some point, enough has to be enough. I get it, you don't ask for much...but that's the problem. I mean, when did you become okay with not asking for more? Why do you allow your needs to go unmet every time?

You're downplaying your power...and everyone can see it, so they give you exactly the bare minimum. Someone as powerful as you will always be met with resistance. It comes with the territory.

There comes a point in time where you have to get real about the people around you and the experiences you've had. YOU set the standard. Forgive yourself for not giving yourself the world, and go out there and walk in your power.

Everything the world has to offer is your birthright...don't let anyone convince you of less just because they don't have the tools to give you what you need. Be willing to walk away from people that treat respecting you and loving you like a challenge. Be willing to close the door regardless of history. No more making excuses.

This is your reality check. This is your wake up call. Close the year on a different note and dedicate the next few weeks to YOU and creating and fine tuning your standards.

You're so close to your dream life...but what's stopping you is waiting for permission from others to live it. Living for others is a gateway to a life of regrets and a first class ticket to resentment. The happiest people live on their own terms, and anyone who can't get down with that, they peacefully say, "Thanks, but no thanks." and love from afar.

This month, this next year...you need to choose yourself. And that's non-negotiable. Now let's walk into our purpose and set The Standard... boundaries, substance, and self preservation. Whoever is unable to adhere to that can get left where we found them. Dollhouse meeting adjourned!

Laser hair removal (Armpits, brazillian, legs)

Breast augmentation

Monthly facials

Dermaplaning

Consistent skincare routine

Get my eyebrow microshading touched up

Emsculpt/Coolsculpting for stomach

Invisalign

Sauna at least 2x a week

Green juices / smoothies

Pilates 3-5x a week

Incline walking 2-4x a week, 10k steps daily

Let’s hope I stick to it so me and my bestfriend was on the phone I was telling her about the law I was like girl you could make $1,000 a hour if you assume it to be true and you persist she thought I was crazy.

So I told her if I manifest 1,000 in 3 days or less without a job with a sugar daddy then she would believe

What I’m going to do is affirm 3,500 a day for 3 days also do 5 minute rants and sleep affirmation tape with my voice this is not my so I should be consuming over 10,000 over the three days (this is not my original idea)

like I have to show her I’m a manifesting queen!!

reminder : I love you if nobody else does <3

It’s been a full year since I began my blog!! A woman siren is the center of her universe while anyone in her radius in her orbit. This post is centered towards sirens.

What is a siren? According to Merriam-Webster, a siren today is a sinister but almost irresistible woman. A siren song, however, may be any appeal that lures a person to act against his or her better judgment.

Synonyms: seductress, vamp, temptress, -stress, Mata Hari, femme fatale, Delilah, Lorelei or (dated) mantrap.

The Siren Allure

A simple definition of allure is to enchant. A mythological siren’s allure is in her voice, a screen siren’s allure is in her vanity, social pull and personality, and lastly, an everyday siren is all of the above. Her power is PSYCHOLOGICAL.

A siren can maintain her allure by walking at her natural pace. Nothing is more typical and human than being in a rush everywhere.

I elongate my body in a world where most people are scrunched up. For my walk, I elongate my stride and partially stand on the balls of my feet, but not to the point of tiptoeing. Check out my pose references Pinterest board!!

I’m aloof when I walk from place to place and only focus if I have to. Most sources say to focus on an object to have a “model stare”, but I feel it isolates people out of your “siren pull” more than being in your own head does. Why are sirens by themselves instead of in groups?

Consider what you are taking from your target. What satiates your hunger?

Sirens come in all dispositions and walks of life. Don’t worry if your circumstances aren’t the same as a historical siren.

What is your weapon of choice? Avoid overwhelming yourself at one time by using too many weapons. Examples of weapons are:

• vanity/pretty privilege as a trap**

• flirting with your womanliness by sticking your chest out & using touch

• your vocals & intelligence

• charisma

• grandeur

Your Pull

Your pull is comparable to a phone signal. If a target strays too far away from you (the tower), their phone will be rendered useless. Of course, your target will always linger nearby because you’re as important as food and water. Be the tower.

My siren’s pull is vanity.

Make your targets’ mouths run dry. Before your nose can process the scent of your fragrance, visualize your confidence and energy as a scepter. Sirens put their confidence and feminine energy on the frontlines such as:

• swinging their hips as they walk

• applying perfume or drawing lipstick on themselves in public

• take up space as they move [like when men manspread]

• showing a little leg or ankle

• practicing their signature poses in public

Dear Princess,

Refrain from using high standard woman mannerisms on low standard men. These men think they can get something for nothing, and they will attempt to take advantage of you if they see you as naive due to your age, job nature or personality.

What you practice on one type of person won’t always apply on the next.

I cannot count how many times I’ve had men try to manipulate me out of what I deserve and guilt trip me for “growing up to be a gold digger.” This goes for other ladies working dusty jobs!

🚨🚨 Please, please don’t allow anyone to negotiate your worth because you’re afraid of hurting everyone else’s feelings except yours! Also, catch yourself if you feel you’re being lead into a dangerous situation! Those mistakes can be fatal!🚨🚨

Let “life lessons” you hear from dusty men go in one ear and out the other. I’ve heard countless stories about “the gold digger” and “the poor man” having his heart broken because she’s soo relentless in taking half of his cardboard box and $5. When they do this, they’re attempting to condition you to go for men like them because they’re smarter than the rich man who’d allow himself to be swindled by a money hungry woman. Those stories are so generic!

Do not sympathize with low standards. If you hear a sentence that begins with “well,” or a sad story, you know your energy will be on a rollercoaster. For ladies that have customer service or retail jobs that cater to people with low standards, any story you hear is a learning lesson on what you don’t want and will never have.

Simply, low standard men aren’t the bullseye I want to hit.

Also, don’t argue over standards online or in person!!

Do not be swayed by money being dangled on a fishing rod. On one hand, someone may be offering you money benevolently while on the other it’s construed as you’ll do anything for money. You ARE NOT desperate for a $20 bill, even $100. Low quality men aren’t your friends, mentor or target.

Do put your self esteem into question. Ask yourself if your self esteem makes you feel if the only things you deserve is $20 and to be a poor man’s fantasy.

Do not seek out compliments. Compliments are not currency. If I hear how nice I look from a low standard person, I am doing something very wrong. I can inflate my ego myself!

Do receive compliments sparingly. Considering your age, compliments can be very flattering and as a result used as a means of control.

Coming out Saturday is “Dressing Like the Paparazzi is Following You,” for ladies who feel their looks of the day aren’t up to par for what they deserve!

Luxury is a feeling!!

1. ᴍᴀꜱᴛᴇʀʙᴀᴛᴇ. give yourself permission to feel pleasure. it release stress from your body.

2. get naked. dance naked. sleep naked. look at you body in the mirror. soak in a bath. moisturize your skin. get a massage.

3. tell people no. if it’s not a hell yes, don’t waste your time. you have free will to do as you please. you are not a slave.

4. have pride in yourself and your achievements. set goals. accept compliments. own your confidence. shine.

5. flirt. it’s fun.

6. do shadow work. at the end of your day, take time to reflect on your mistakes and write down ways to make progress. this helps you understand your fears and guilts. journal. introspection.

7. don’t go along with anything that feels wrong to you. be assertive and don’t be afraid to cut someone off or cause a scene when your boundaries are crossed.

8. work your brain. do puzzles. reads books. learn about seduction. develop a skill. take time to daydream. visually manifest.

9. be daring. wear a sexy outfit or bold makeup look. show cleavage. follow your dreams. break routine. speak your mind. shock the people around you and ignore their judgements.

10. release timidity. stop overly apologizing, stuttering and overthinking. say exactly what you mean. feel exactly how you feel. banish all forms of guilt and shame.

urTOOspoiled Big Sis Series

The main thing I’ve noticed about men is that they ALWAYS date with intention and a play.

This is BOTH from good men and the hobosexuals. They know what they’re doing.

INTENTION: an aim or a plan

PLAY: a report on what is happening in a sports game; plan breakdown

Men NEVER “go with the flow”. They either have ill, self centered (using you as a placeholder/booty call) or mutually beneficial intentions (marriage, FWB etc.).

In addition, they NEVER aimlessly find their way towards their goal. They have a goal and they break down the actions behind the accomplishment.

Sometimes it’s your heart. Sometimes it’s your life insurance plan.

It’s time we, as women, buckle up and have our own agendas lined up.

LAW 4

Always Say Less Than Necessary

I love my ladies but we do indeed pillow talk too much to the men we are dating. We tell them our backstories. We tell them how our exes did us dirty and all they do is sit back and take notes for when it’s their turn to do the same.

ITS TIME WE LIE AND LEAVE OUT INFO.

In addition, stop letting men lead the convo because you’re too intimidated to hold the conversation. It’s your job to get him to spill as much info about himself for you to gather a conclusion about your intentions with him.

LAW 9

Win Through Actions, Never Through Argument

Get it through your thick skull that you’ll never win an argument with a man using your words. Definitely not if you raise your voice.

A lot of women message me stating how they keep “telling” their man how to treat them and I sigh & laugh because I remember when I was that ditzy.

Men are indeed like dogs. You’ll get almost nowhere yelling or repeating yourself to a dog whose insisting on not listening to you (i.e. pulling the leash while you call their name.).

You can let the dog pull you and continue to yell…but where does that get you expect IGNORED and IN DISTRESS?

Put your foot down…and out the door. Just for the love of God stop playing dumb for peen.

LAW 17

Keep Others In Suspended Terror: Cultivate An Air of Unpredictability

“Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to see familiarity in other people’s actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control. Turn the tables. Be deliberately unpredictable.”

It’s one thing to be mysterious but it’s another to add the razzle dazzle of randomness in the mix. You see, you can predict someone being mysterious- being somewhat reserved or private.

Be unpredictable and have a moment where you’re transparent. Everyone shouldn’t have the same (good) impression of you. Some may view you as serious and laid back while others couldn’t imagine you being nothing other than bubbly. Shake shit up.

Closing Thoughts:

Men have created a culture of sharing the secrets of using women to their advantage. They’re not clueless nor uneducated on how to treat you correctly therefore it’s unproductive to attempt to teach them.

They are simply using the strategy their barber, daddy, coach, teammates and Pastor passed along to them since you (most likely) weren’t taught any better. They have a community-a village that molds them, something women do not have in general.