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it won’t cost you your energy to be authentic

if u think abt it masking is like ultimate ego construction. leave ts be

develop male audacity as a woman i dare you its always sunny here

you owe it to yourself to do all of the things u admire without shame

partly ppl view screentime as the 'safe option' where they can view what other people have created without creating anything of their own because oh no that could create judgement. ur only gonna be building a cycle of jealousy and comparison because its only inspiration if ur on that creative level yourself and believe u can achieve that thing too eventually. maybe u dont think ur good enough because youre not moving authentically enough.

something i realised about life is that if u want to have an epic life u gotta stop waiting for it to turn epic and instead make the things you are already doing that way because thats how its done practically

excessive social media usage is driven by insecurity and ego. of course you’ll be miserable if all you’re doing is just thinking about yourself instead of just doing the steps it takes to get to where u wanna be. and u don’t need strangers permission to do that either

going to the gym did wonders on humbling me cuz u actually gotta accept you’re not at your goal to get to the goal and like instant gratification could absolutely never do that. it kills your ego because to get where you want to be you have to look in the face of who you are and still have the self respect to keep showing up

as long as u realise you won’t get where u wanna get by being on ur phone ur fine

just live at this point youll figure it out along the way lets just go bro

at some point u jus stop giving af about what everyone's doing again cuz why is this even important rn wtf

yes girl the version of you you love in your head is the real you you need to let her come tf out of her shell or you WILL get imposter syndrome do it for you right now

nobody knows the answers to what to do on your journey: let yourself be humbly guided when it’s needed but understand that only you know what’s truly best for you

sometimes u just gotta learn to work through things because you know how good you’ll feel on the other end of the effort

i cannot begin to explain how important it is to learn to be in your space and in your body even when you are doing the monotonous and mundane. you can’t always be in the over predictive analytical girl what are you so scared for

if you keep getting the calling to do something: do it, as in its process you’ll gain something you needed to do to become who you are