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you can trade one partner for another, one friend for another, one city for another, and still you have the same internal work to do. That’s what you are left with, yourself, the work, and the way it all connects to everything and everyone you have ever encountered.

there is no outcome, only eternal unfolding

“Only the disciplined ones in life are free. If you are undisciplined, you are a slave to your moods and your passions.” - Eliud Kipchoge

Work on yourself in silence, don't expect to be revered by others for your improvements. Improve for yourself only and don't involve yourself in messy interpersonal situations. Be above all the mediocrity, toxicity, and chaos around you. You don't owe a reaction or complicity to the people around you.

You live for you , not for others. And those who judge you, are usually jealous of you . They don't want to see you happy so they try anything to bring you down. Focus on yourself, not on others.

As a rule of thumb Don’t assume you mean anything special to a person if they don’t show you and very confirm that’s how they feel. Don’t put on your detective hat and try to figure out if x means y and that leads to z. Because if a person cares for you, they will make it known. And you deserve a person that makes it known how much you mean to them