★Before you attack me or any other witches for doing hexes, jinxes, or curses, remember that not all witches follow threefold law and not all witches follow the "harm none" motto. I'm a chaos witch, and I'll do whatever i damn well please (within reason), no offence★
★IF YOU'RE A BABY WITCH OR JUST GETTING BACK INTO YOUR PRACTICE, OR OTHERWISE HAVEN'T DONE WITCHCRAFT RECENTLY OR DONT KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING, DO NOT PERFORM JINXES, HEXES, OR CURSES! IT CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS TO THE INEXPERIENCED WITCH!!★
Purple candle (or white, if you don't have purple) for nightmares and illusion
Lavender buds or fresh lavender for depression and lack of sleep
Rosemary to taint their dreams and cloud their vision
Mint for visions, nightmares, and paranoia
A numerology number of your choice (we used the number 6 for this spell to cause unwanted attention, to take away love, and to devoid them of passion) ((optional))
Lavender essential oil for anxiety, delusions, and fear
Patchouli essential oil for unwanted attention and to make them push their loved ones away
A wand that you use for other spell work, or a separate one ((optional))
Crystals that you usually use for astral or dream work to cause lack of mental clarity, confusions, clouded vision, and illusions ((optional))
If you work with runes, create a bind rune to protect yourself, or add a rune to your spell
A tool to carve into your candle
A taglock from this person to burn or embed in the wax (their name on paper or a picture of them could work)
Cleanse your space however you normally do so, then cleanse all of your tools and items.
★Cast a circle ((OPTIONAL)) however your normally do so. If you don't know how, there's plenty of sources. This is how I did mine;
Take your cleansed wand or what's remaining of your cleansing bundle thingy or incense stick
Draw a circle around your space with it and say/chant: "Winds of the North, South, East, and West. Aid me on this vengeful quest. Help me cast this spell with ease. And put this scum onto his knees."
You could also cast your bindrune at this time.
From there, take your purple candle and dress it with your essential oils and herbs, then carve your chosen number into the candle wax. Place the chosen crystals near the candle and meditate over all of it, concentrating on the outcome of your spell. Pour all of your hatred and anger towards this person into this spell, really taking the time to manifest this person's misery. Once you feel as though you've meditated and manifested enough, you may light the candle and say/chant/sing this, or your own, incantation;
"For all you've done to me (or whoever you're doing this spell for)
I turn back on you three times three
The horror and evil you see in your dreams
And the depression, paranoia, and anxiety,
Are sent to teach you, boy
That those around you are NOT your toy
To use and abuse like they're nothing to you.
Do it again and you'll suffer my wrath.
This is my will, so mote it be."
If you come up with something more fitting for your situation, or that maybe just sounds better than this one, feel free to use it!
Once you're finished with the incantation, i recommend that you sit with the candle and let it burn all the way down. Once it's finished burning, you may release the circle or the bindrunes.
I also recommend that you cleanse your space again, seeing as how you'll probably get angry during your spellcasting. You don't want that energy lingering around!
★A special thank you my lovely Queen Persephone for sticking around through my hex casting and even watching over the candle when I hadn't put it out properly before running downstairs to make my family dinner 🥺 she's such a queen and we love and stan her★