Chronicles of the pit

Visi was absolutely lying about being the "peg-er." She might be a little bit of a switch but she 100% subs for Robert.

Robert loves to tease her about this whenever he can ever since the first time they had sex

Robert was super vanilla before meeting Visi and it feels like he's barely keeping up with her freak most days (she thinks he's doing great)

Robert's weirdly good at giving oral and it's become the carrot on a stick he can use to get Visi to do literally anything he wants her to

Visi's a major masochist and generally loves it when Robert's rough with her but at the same time still wants to be praised

Visi loves being tied up to the point she's completely immobile, and Robert discovered as part of his time with Visi that he also really likes having her completely at his mercy

Visi will jump at any opportunity to get Robert off because in her mind he deserves every second of pleasure she gives him because of how good he is to her

Robert loves making Visi cum as many times as he can because he loves watching her brain unravel in real time (and also he likes making her feel good in general)

Robert's lost count of the amount of times Visi's described a kink or session idea to him and he's just gone "you want me to do what to you-?" (he always ends up doing it though because he knows she'll have the time of her life)

Visi loves to joke that she's corrupted Robert because despite starting off vanilla he actually really likes being a dom now and has actually surprised Visi with the ideas he's come up with a couple times

Yes that includes misogyny kinks, yes that includes race play, yes that includes CNC, or any number of other things. As long as they're doing it safely, sanely, and consensually, it is not your goddamn business.

Fyi, I use the word "bi" exclusively in this post for textual simplicity but just know that I really mean, in a general sense, anyone who experiences attraction to more than one gender, be that bisexuality, pansexuality, or any other identities I am not aware of.

Bit of a disclaimer, I am in fact a straight white guy and I'm aware that means I'm coming at this from an outside perspective, but I also really don't care, biphobes can go fuck themselves.

The amount of times I have seen instances of queer people, and in particular queer women, who experience attraction to both sexes face straight up bigotry from their fellow members of the LGBTQ+ community is absolutely fucking disgusting. I genuinely don't understand how the hell so many people can quite simply fail to understand that when someone says they're attracted to more than one gender that does in fact mean they are capable of being attracted to more than one gender. I mean seriously, what do these people think bi people mean when they say they identify the way they do? Do they think that bi people's attraction is purely theoretical?

Bi people who date members of the opposite sex are not "betraying" the LGBTQ+ community, they're being who they fucking are and if anything people who accuse them of such are the ones betraying their community.

In a world where most people's references for BDSM is 50 shades of cult dynamics (yes I watched the film theory video), there is nothing kink needs more than representation of what BDSM actually is.

It's a woman who is the most assertive, no-fucks giving person you've ever seen putting on a collar and begging for pets.

It's a man shitting themselves when they hear the safeword only to find out their boyfriend just wanted them to readjust the ropework cause it was pressing on his stomach in an uncomfortable way.

It's a woman giving her wife a neck massage and profusely apologizing for "going too hard" while their wife keeps assuring them the strained neck was worth it and they did a great job.

It's real people, with real normal lives, having fun and doing everything they can to make it safe (or at least not unreasonably dangerous) for everyone involved.