Hello everyone! After some deliberation I’ve decided to create a system support server. This is because of how difficult it is for me (and many others) to enjoy servers spaces due to huge member counts, gigantic blacklists, and various other issues that myself and other systems have noticed.
Some things to note about this server are that the blacklist is small, and is only for the general chat. There are specific channels for talking about trauma, that can be muted at a server member’s discretion. I feel like not having a space to talk about DID in a trauma sense is ridiculous, and makes it very alter-centric, which is fine for some, but really makes it hard for a lot of people to be able to talk about their struggles.
Some things this server includes:
-Short blacklist and trauma spaces that have no blacklist
-18+ channels for adult bodied systems
-No hyper-specific areas for alter types (e.g. “littles corner” or “persecutor space”) We are focusing more on helping each other through coping with trauma and dissociation. Alters and alter help is okay and encouraged, but we are focusing more on support through coping with DID/OSDD/UDD/etc, not just alter chats.
-Areas to ask for advice, and areas for ranting without advice
-Voice channels for chatting
-Meme channels, hyperfixation channels, syscourse discussion channels, channels to recommend music/TV shows/etc, and art channels.
-suggestion channel for things you want to add.
-No weird or gimmicky themes. This is the most bare-bones server you will ever see in your life. I suck at technology and googled how to do all this just this morning. :)
Requirements for joining:
-This is a mixed-age server, for folks 15 and older. There are separate channels for adults only.
-Must be a traumagenic system
-Must be diagnosed, medically recognized, or self diagnosed with research. If you are questioning being a system, that’s okay too, but armchair diagnosis is not allowed here. No non-systems please, even if you are supportive.
-Must be able to take responsibility for your own triggers. If you get triggered, you need to know to remove yourself from the situation and handle that. Accusing people of triggering you or being generally uncool and controlling over triggers is not allowed. Trigger avoidance is not healthy. That being said, the blacklist is there for general chat, but will have more broad topics such as CSA, SA, physical assault, grooming, etc. Those will require censoring only in general chat. In the trauma channels, the blacklist is not enforced, so things could get heavy. Know when to mute and take a break.
-If you are an adult being creepy to minors I will kill you. That is a threat. /srs
I want to make this a cool place for people to get support and talk with others going through similar things! Let’s not ruin it by being dumb. I am 100% okay with banning people for being assholes. :)
DM me if you want the link. It will be a one-time link that will expire in 7 days. Do not share links. Thank you!! Feel free to reblog to spread the word.
