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1. Corporate barbie

Whether you’re devouring an article on investing, or strategy or sipping on vintage champagne in a opulent hotel bar, you remain poised and elegant. Fresh faced and always wearing a unique scent, you have an unbridled radiance. Your wardrobe is vast & filled with cashmere and silk pieces, fitted blazers, loafers, briefcase and statement heels. You’ve always got the perfect outfit for a corporate meeting, a business pitch or a date with a eligible bachelor. You have this innate desire to rule the world

2. Ms Sophisticated

From gallery openings to wealth management seminars. Your knowledge could fill an empty encyclopedia and you are always desperate to learn. You’re a nerd in six inch heels. Everything you do from the established and refined restaurants you dine at to the  clothing you wear, reeks of sophistication. You’re an expert in seductive language and often startle many of your suitors with your vocabulary and your ability to deliver a timely mind fuck.

3. The Bombshell

When you’re not texting your new billionaire potential, you’re at the salon adding some more volume into your locks. You’re likely to be in any luxurious outfit that flatters your curves and feels delightful on your body. Skin. Hair. Makeup. Body. Your passion for looking good supersedes much of the drama in your life. No stranger to attention, you do not think twice about leaving your house in your jaw dropping Hervé Léger dress, coupled with your charisma and confidence.

4. Showstopper of Society

Sparkling on every society event is your talent. It doesn’t matter if you are a small town girl, in this world, you were destined to be whoever you wanted to be. And you have always dreamed of being the IT girl who can charm her way to grand places and make connections with incredible people. From the dazzling lunches, to charity galas to award ceremonies, you have to be there. Your wardrobe is filled with stunningly beautiful robes, gowns, A-line skirts, & sequinned dazzling pieces. Your company is well received & you’re never short of a date.

5. Glamorous hustler

Struggling and hardship has taught you many things. You carry with you a depth of wisdom and versatility that few have. You’re a master at playing roles and manipulating the game. You’re a master when it comes to transforming a dated dress into a gown or looking better than most, on a small budget .You carry with you a gentle humility coupled with a touch of glamour and sophistication. You’ve always known you were a butterfly, delicate, rare & hard to capture. You are everything in one, the glamorous goddess. 

6.  Cosmopolitan Chic

Cribs, trains, cars, villas, mansions, jets, planes, apartments, penthouses  beaches, yachts, cities, resorts, islands, parties,holiday romances, dancing, dining and pleasure seeking. “Life is for living” is your motto. You’ve cultivated a lifestyle for strictly jet-setting. You strategically plan how to travel and where to travel and how to pay for it.  Your desire to see it all reminds you of how little you are in the grand scheme of things and you yearn for another escape. Your commitment to leisure shows in your disposition and you bring joy and tales everywhere you go.

7. Goddess of wealth

Give her luxury: pearls, rubies, champagne colored clothing, emeralds, Japanese silk and vintage perfume and she will love you. You are  not “money hungry” but a mere cultivator of taste. You remain glamorous and fun-loving, but you’re never one to miss opportunity or to to maximize your profits. Ideas are your strong suit, and you’re convinced that you can sell a peanut to a monkey.

Your motto is “good things come to those who hustle”.

8. Mami Owl

Walking into a situation blindly is not a habit that you do. Your spiritual, peaceful nature is refreshing and you contain an ethereal aura surrounding you. People are often drawn to you as your transcendental vibe is intriguing. You’re a modern day goddess who often makes other feel at peace. Vision boards, mediation,prayer and yoga are all activities that help you focus. Your spirituality translates to every area of your life and you are beautifully well rounded. A glittering, thoughtful polymath.

9. Regal Lioness

Manners and refinement go hand in hand for you.You know your whites from reds and your caviar from your tobiko. People are often remarked by your ability to converse so eloquently and freely and to be able entertain even the most distant of strangers. Your dedication to treating people well, queenly behavior and your charismatic persona lands you opportunities to dine with kings. Freshly manicured nails, gentle alluring voice, wonderful hair and clean cut clothing is your trademark. Femininity is something you maximize for power.

10. Comedian Luxe

Fun, fun, fun is your first,middle & last name. You’re often bamboozled down by those who take their selves too seriously. Your humor often translates itself into a an irresistible charm that many can’t seem to resist. Your wardrobe reflects your colorful personality : bold colors, statement pieces, patterns & attention grabbing items. You live for the moment and consequently, there are few places that you’re not invited to.

So my new SD told me about this on our first date. The app is called Stud or Dudd. It’s SCARY what it pulls up. Addrssses, criminal records, evictions etc. it’s totally free and really helpful. You can look them up by name or phone number. I’ve done this with every number I receive. Super accurate.

Hope this helps

Sbmisstaylor

Let’s explore some of the most common types of cognitive biases that entrench themselves in our lives. Awareness is the best way to beat these biases, so pay careful attention to how they influence you.

1. The decoy effect. This occurs when someone believes they have two options, but you present a third option to make the second one feel more palatable. For example, you visit a car lot to consider two cars, one listed for $30,000 and the other for $40,000. At first, the $40,000 car seems expensive, so the salesman shows you a $65,000 car. Suddenly, the $40,000 car seems reasonable by comparison. This salesman is preying on your decoy bias – the decoy being the $65,000 car that he knows you won’t buy.

2. Affect heuristic. Affect heuristic is the human tendency to base our decisions on our emotions. For example, take a study conducted at Shukutoku University, Japan. Participants judged a disease that killed 1,286 people out of every 10,000 as being more dangerous than one that was 24.14% fatal (despite this representing twice as many deaths). People reacted emotionally to the image of 1,286 people dying, whereas the percentage didn’t arouse the same mental imagery and emotions.

3. Fundamental attribution error. This is the tendency to attribute situational behavior to a person’s fixed personality. For example, people often attribute poor work performance to laziness when there are so many other possible explanations. It could be the individual in question is receiving projects they aren’t passionate about, their rocky home life is carrying over to their work life or they’re burnt out.

4. The ideometer effect. This refers to the fact that our thoughts can make us feel real emotions. This is why actors envision terrible scenarios, such as the death of a loved one, in order to make themselves cry on cue and activities such as cataloging what you’re grateful for can have such a profound, positive impact on your wellbeing.

5. Confirmation bias. Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek out information that supports our pre-existing beliefs. In other words, we form an opinion first and then seek out evidence to back it up, rather than basing our opinions on facts.

6. Conservatism bias. This bias leads people to believe that pre-existing information takes precedence over new information. Don’t be quick to reject something just because it’s radical or different. Great ideas usually are.

7. The ostrich effect. The ostrich effect is aptly named after the fact that ostriches, when scared, literally bury their heads in the ground. This effect describes our tendency to hide from impending problems. We may not physically bury our heads in the ground, but we might as well. For example, if your company is experiencing layoffs, you’re having relationship issues or you receive negative feedback, it’s common to attempt to push all these problems away, rather than to face them head on. This doesn’t work and simply delays the inevitable.

8. Reactance. Reactance is our tendency to react to rules and regulations by exercising our freedom. A prevalent example of this is children with overbearing parents. Tell a teenager to do what you say because you told them so, and they’re very likely to start breaking your rules. Similarly, employees who feel mistreated or “Big Brothered” by their employers are more likely to take longer breaks, extra sick days or even steal from their company.

9. The halo effect. The halo effect occurs when someone creates a strong first impression and that impression sticks. This is extremely noticeable in grading. For example, often teachers grade a student’s first paper, and if it’s good, are prone to continue giving them high marks on future papers even if their performance doesn’t warrant it. The same thing happens at work and in personal relationships.

10. The horn effect. This effect is the exact opposite of the halo effect. When you perform poorly at first, you can easily get pegged as a low-performer even if you work hard enough to disprove that notion.

11. Planning fallacy. Planning fallacy is the tendency to think that we can do things more quickly than we actually can. For procrastinators, this leads to incomplete work, and this makes type-As overpromise and underdeliver.

12. The bandwagon effect. The bandwagon effect is the tendency to do what everyone else is doing. This creates a kind of groupthink, where people run with the first idea that’s put onto the table instead of exploring a variety of options. The bandwagon effect illustrates how we like to make decisions based on what feels good (doing what everyone else is doing), even if they’re poor alternatives

13. Bias blind spot. If you begin to feel that you’ve mastered your biases, keep in mind that you’re most likely experiencing the bias blind spot. This is the tendency to see biases in other people but not in yourself.

Bringing It All Together

1. Decoy Affect:  “We have 2 types of lap dances! 3/100, or 2/60… Or we could do a champagne room for $400/30 mins” makes the 3/100 seem more reasonable, especially if he’s a cheap mf who you dont think will buy a room

2. Affect Heuristic: instead of asking for a $100 tip for a room, or however big your requested tips are, ask for a percentage of what he paid for the service. “Thank you so much for that dance/room! A 20% tip would be so so appreciated ;)”

3. Fundamental attribution error: If you get rejected at first for a dance, before you give up, add some sort of extra incentive. “Are you sure? I give the naughtiest dances in here so you might not get another chance later :(” 

4. The ideometer effect: Think sexy thoughts!! You are fucking stripper, everyone wants to be as sexy as you, every guy in the room wants to fuck you. Confidence is sexy and confidence in yourself will make you more intriguing 

5. Confirmation Bias: Dont fall for the cheap mf in nice clothes with a huge stack of 1s on their table. If they parent spending those right away, you know they’re just trying to manipulate girls into sitting with them.

6. Conservatism Bias: Same thing, unless they are literally spending money on you, don’t think you’ll get anything just cause you sit with them for a long time etc.

7. The Ostrich Affect: When you’re grumpy and you need to take a break, sit out somewhere you can be seen instead of the locker room. That way, you’re more likely to get approached for dances without having to work for it.

8. Reactance: Champagne rooms are super sexy and mysterious to men that haven’t experienced them yet, and a lot of them think they’ll get to fuck you. Find a way of laying out the rules without explicitly telling them that its literally just an expensive extended lap dance. I use the word ‘intimate’ a lot. When they start asking for more in the rooms, Ill tell them they came to the wrong place for escort services.

9. The Halo Affect: You are always being watched!!!! You are being watched when you give lap dances, your expressions on stage are being watched. When you are getting a drink at the bar you are being watched. Use every opportunity to make eye contact with people watching you, give them a sultry smile. When you’re done with what you’re doing go walk over to them and start talking! For me this is the #1 way I sell lap dances

10. The Horn Effect: Same shit, this is just more reason to put an effort into how you present yourself and your body language. I have a resting bitch face and I have to constantly remind myself to put on a little pleasant smile.

11. Planning Fallacy: Don’t just sit in the locker room till 11 pm! If you have the energy to  hustle, do it! Start making money early in the night so you aren’t stressed at 2 am

12. Bandwagon Effect: Talk to everyone!! Not just people getting bottle service, go talk to that weird looking lonely guy in the corner. Even the older couple! You never know.

13. Bias Blind Spot: You are a scammer, in the club, your flaws don’t exist, use them to your advantage.

Hello

I save money by buying stocks right away when I get cash. I don’t wait a month, I buy it day of. That way you lock up your money and you don’t spend it.

I use Robinhood app. It’s free and very easy. You type in the stock name then it ask you how many shares you want to buy. Buy it and forget about it for 20 years. (Disclaimer: I’m not getting a kickback from Robinhood. Use any app you like. I don’t have a promo code or anything.)

I buy stocks that pay dividends like BP, T, VOO, MSFT, BX etc.

I also bought some Google and Amazon stock and made over $150 each share. Now which pair of Louboutins did you buy that went up $150 in few months? You get it?

I’m am not a stock trader or broker. Please consult with a professional. My point is stop buying shoes and buy more stocks. I mean shit, doesn’t have to be stocks. Buy real estate, gold coins, silver coins… anything is better then shopping.

Have your guys take you shopping.

LI-TER-FUCKIN-LY ! Y’all this man responded, “Lol”.

Now, this is where a lot of sugar babies make an mistake. They allow this mans mockery of how much it cost to support their needs/wants sting, they allow themselves to become vulnerable to manipulative and cheap men…

I simply explained to him in the most polite and bitchy tone ever (because ladies sometimes sugar may just in look like salt), “The outfits that you so politely complimented and admired, the makeup, the hair, nails, smooth legs, they all cost. So to maintain your desired image and my lifestyle that you wish to be included in (since you messaged me) you have to support me. In exchange for your support, I shower you in attention, affection, make men envious of you, and offer you an introduction to a diverse culture. I thought that was the kind of man you were, and the interest you had in mind. However I apologize that you cant afford me and my lifestyle and I wish you the best of luck!

See what I did there, “your desired image, make men envious of you, thought that was the kind of man you were, you cant afford me”. Subliminally bruising his ego. Sooo just to try and prove how much of a man he is, now he’ll be competitive, hungry to try prove me wrong. Which he was and immediately he began to retract his statement, and accept my offers. :) people just really want what they cant have…well cant afford.

& since he was acting all funny I will neeed my cash in hand before anythannnng.

This is the email I sent to my POT after the horrible ending to our second date. Thanks for everyone’s support on how I handled it in the moment. Our date was on Saturday, and I haven’t heard from him since so I decided to practice keeping to my standards on him.

I’ve read a lot about how to bring up the allowance with your POT, which we had talked about already. The problem was what must happen all the time- sex before any money was exchanged. For both dates, he didn’t offer cab fair even when I said I’m catching this next bus. So, I tried wording that in the email.

Having been an sb for some time now, I (and many other woman among us) have realized that most websites that mean to connect sugar babies and sugar daddies, such as Seeking Arrangement, What’s Your Price, SDforme, and etc, are filled with some of the most saltiest, nastiest, men on earth. Not to mention, how many splenda’s there are on these websites too. I’ve gone on too many dates with men that are either so rude, so crude, or so bland and I’m sure many of you have too.

Recently though, a friend introduced to .007percent. The .007percent is a new website seeking to connect the ultra rich with the beautiful, which yeah, sounds like every other sb/sd website but it’s actually different. The website only accepts, literally, only the top .007 percent so the men on it aren’t up to playing games like majority of men on SA do. Not only can you meet the sugar daddy of your dreams, but unlike SA you can make sugar baby friends! As a member, you have access to see and contact both genders. You can make wishlists with exclusive items (Sergio Rossi Crystal Sandals, Jimmy Choo Boots, Fendi Bags, massage appointments, bronzing tanning spray, and etc) that, if bought, will be actually delivered to your door/emailed an Ecard (ps, one of the men who contacted me bought me the tan! i went on a date with him a few days ago and posted the details!). I was honestly surprised when I found the website, after a year and a half on SA, sugaring started turning more bleak than glamorous, but  .007percent turned that around!

Having been an sb for some time now, I (and many other woman among us) have realized that most websites that mean to connect sugar babies and sugar daddies, such as Seeking Arrangement, What’s Your Price, SDforme, and etc, are filled with some of the most saltiest, nastiest, men on earth. Not to mention, how many splenda’s there are on these websites too. I’ve gone on too many dates with men that are either so rude, so crude, or so bland and I’m sure many of you have too.

Recently though, a friend introduced to .007percent. The .007percent is a new website seeking to connect the ultra rich with the beautiful, which yeah, sounds like every other sb/sd website but it’s actually different. The website only accepts, literally, only the top .007 percent so the men on it aren’t up to playing games like majority of men on SA do. Not only can you meet the sugar daddy of your dreams, but unlike SA you can make sugar baby friends! As a member, you have access to see and contact both genders. You can make wishlists with exclusive items (Sergio Rossi Crystal Sandals, Jimmy Choo Boots, Fendi Bags, massage appointments, bronzing tanning spray, and etc) that, if bought, will be actually delivered to your door/emailed an Ecard (ps, one of the men who contacted me bought me the tan! i went on a date with him a few days ago and posted the details!). I was honestly surprised when I found the website, after a year and a half on SA, sugaring started turning more bleak than glamorous, but  .007percent turned that around!