Advice

How do we describe being imperfect cause last I checked their is no real clear cut definition when trying to put this to a human being. So I say to hell with perfection because being imperfect means many things some good others bad, the best I find about being imperfect means there is always room for improving in any area you find imperfect. Just take it to the best you can don’t try and make yourself out to be this ultimate perfect person cause you will just waste your life to this idea of perfection and miss all the small much more plentiful moments that make life worth living and occasionally you find these huge moments that just leave you with a sense of pride for the rest of the day because you made yourself the best of your imperfections and didn’t solely focus to this idea. Perfection means never making mistakes but that’s the thing we have our greatest moments in these defeats we see what went wrong and how to fix it or how to strive and improve 

I read a post not sure if it was meant to be taken as a troll or not but it had me thinking. Some people think being a pacifist means you are either weak or a coward. I believe in the definition but even I know that a belief will not protect me against a punch. That does not mean however that if I choose to not fight you that I am weak and you are strong I merely wish to end things in a more peaceful way and keep things calm. If life could be answered by brute force alone then the world would be a much more scary place. The very meaning of survival of the fittest would be law in such a world. But we did not evolve in our way of life just by fighting war after war most of history was shaped by these events but after the fighting had stopped people would focus on philosophy and other major pursuits of life. But I digress because a person who believe in pacifism does not mean that will just stand there and take the beating, in fact they might just be stronger then you and don’t want to hurt you anymore then they have to if fist were to fly

Just because you are walking away from a challenge does not mean you have given up on it no, it could just mean that you are taking a break and learning from the mistakes made while attempting it

Ok well I have hit a 10 follower mark party! For the people who decided <0v0> my friends called me penguin so that is a penguin giving the people who want a hug...a hug...I can’t word

Let me ask you a question does the suit make the hero or does the hero make the suit? Now let me say this, just because you don’t wear a suit, uniform or costume does that mean you can’t be a hero? Of course not you can still be a hero with just the clothes on your back the word is hard pressed on how we define what being a hero is but to me the word hero means someone who is willing to take the bigger sacrifices for others such as their well being or happiness but that does not mean you have to take all sacrfices that come your way only the ones you are willing to take and if they are just too big then don’t take them at all there has to be a line drawn somewhere but my biggest thing about being a hero is just being there for those who really need the help. Show the world that there are still people out in life that are like Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr even going back to Abraham Lincoln. They all stood for something great I’m not saying or asking to be like these people but they are role models as to what heroes can do when they try with all that they can and persevere through all opposition

Some people are jerks always trying to get their way or just not budging on a point or topic this could be because they are an ass and just want to make you frustrated but don’t confuse it with someone who is just thick headed and doesn’t see your view this could cause unnecessary altercations and words not meant being said between people this is especially dangerous among groups of friends. So next time you are having an argument don’t think they are just trying to make you frustrated it could just be they don’t see things in your perspective

Some comments I saw on that video truly pissed me off people saying that he lies due to how his speech changes on a dime or calling him a pussy telling him to man up I have on thing to say to that and it is PISS OFF!!! People can vent and let out all of that stress and become calm right after I do that sometimes myself it will take me like 10 to 20 seconds of evening my breathing and calming myself down and as for the whole gender stereo type that guys are suppose to be strong or that guys are the ones who are always the abuser that is so not true also I truly believe that a guy is strong when they can tell the world that they were abused by someone, anyone no matter the gender abuse happens like he says so don’t just say you’re a guy man up. Look at it like this take the perspective of the victim you could have a great relation like he said then all of a sudden your lover lashes out and you don’t understand why they say it won’t happen again and it does later down the road an endless and fucked up cycle. This was one thing we studied in psychology class people fall into these relations because they believe they did something wrong or that they are worthless but he was one of the few who managed to pick themselves up and get the hell out of that cycle of pain if you struggle with such a thing please GET HELP I don’t know the facts or figures but it is safe to assume that the number we have in our facts is covering little to what the actual number is in real life reach out to others friends family co-workers someone who can and will help you. Talk to me if you want I will listen most importantly know that you are not alone and people will stand by you 

If you don’t want to get hit in the feels or you don’t like the thought of relationship abuse then don’t watch this video but if you can or think you can then I implore you spread the message 

If there is one thing I like to do it is make ripples not so much big splashes mainly cause I don’t like being the center of attention at least not face to face anyway don’t be afraid to make your own ripples just don’t step on other people’s toes if you plan on doing so because as the saying goes ripples can make waves later in life 

For some strange reason people are actually following this Thanks is all I can say for now

Have you ever noticed how many different ways people cope with the many stresses of life or not even stress but sadness and depression but some people don’t always have an easy time coping with the feelings they have and that can lead to their downfall letting it consume them, if you notice this in someone you know then try and help them out in any way you can but if you think that even you can’t help them it might be best to try and inform someone of a higher level they can’t and you can’t take things on especially if you have no really way of letting these bad feelings out in a healthy and free flowing way that keeps you and the others around you out of harm experiment when you go through something say getting angry just letting thoughts through my head seems to work but if something sad happened I just inform my friends that things are going bad and them letting me know they will stick by me tends to help but in any case just try and find the ways to deal with what we call life otherwise things can only keep going down instead of having it’s ups and downs

Well another person has decided to follow me so I must be doing something right! But in all seriousness as I grow older I’m starting to look back on my past experiences some good some bad doesn’t really matter to me anymore if they were bad because it’s in the past and if they were good I want to try and do something similar in the future all of that is centered around progress. As you mature and figure things out you might reflect a little and you might not like or like what you saw back then and now I thought myself an idiot back when I was still in just elementary school still kind of am but getting better all it takes is a little determination, luck and discipline and you can make yourself better in ways you thought were impossible before

“Don’t be afraid to fight for what you think is right even if others think it’s wrong, that’s because no one can tell you what is right or wrong if you follow your morals.” -Martinez 2015

That’s is just a little about me you would know other aspects of my life if you got to know me like I’m sure many other people would if they got to know who you truly are yes some people might use you but don’t let it scare you away because the next person you meet might be your new best friend

I just want to warn people my next door neighbors were scammed pretty badly but they managed to catch onto it and are repairing damages but what if we didn’t catch it they would be in a world of hell if things turn fishy just back away from it and don’t look back