caveyspider @caveyspider - Tumblr Blog

i should make an intro post. like as much as it is cool to be mysterious i don't want people to think i'm someone when i'm not

Step into my web...

hi i'm cavey! ^Λ(˙˙•˙w˙•˙˙)Λ^ i'm a TMA spiderfaggotthing and i primarily use it/they pronouns ! i like the internet it's nice. i'm not american in any capacity

i'm polyamorous and Gay and maybe have a weird relationship to romance

some important tags

#soider... - spiders. may occasionally have selfies or selfies of other spiders like me

#dracula flow - for dracula flow posts or posts i think sound like dracula flow

#i'm a huge faggot - thirsting

#shelve it - Important Things To Remember

#cshposting - posting about the band car seat headrest

#poetry - my poems #mypoems

#web of thoughts - longer posts where i indistinctly muse about things

#photography - my pictures #mypics

other things i'm on:

bandcamp (not making music yet but might at some point ! for now you may look at my collection)

discord - same as here

last.fm

oh huh that's about it. damn

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going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

graffiti discourse is so stupid why the hell would I give a shit if people spraypaint their names or do some cool paintings under a bridge

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

sorry didn't realize the bridge has to be plain beige concrete. that was a load bearing plain beige concrete if anyone tags it the whole bridge collapses

autismfox

Graffiti is modern day cave painting

allegedly-human

nothing is more tumblr than having a tumblr sexyman wiki and then warn you to not find some of those men sexy because it's problematic

wanderer-of

This is gender affirming care no I will not explain

#trueeeeee

notahorseindisguise

ive got to be better than this i know i used to be better than this

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hiveswap

Not now, kitten, m- da- m- your parental figure is in the middle of a gender crisis

tboy-trash

straight men enduring 24/7 sexual assault each other in order to not be labeled faggots is honestly the best example of how masculinity operates. the other day before work a coworker fr shoved a finger in another coworker's ass (above pants) as one of their little "ha ha you're gay" jokes. fuck is wrong with them. equal parts disgusted and fascinated by their behaviour.

tboy-trash

of course these people are fucked up and unable to hold healthy relationships grounded in mutual respect! they're constantly assaulting and being assaulted by their friends just to Not Be Gay/Like A Girl!!!

tboy-trash

the biggest reason men refuse to recognize a lot of what they do to women as sexual harassment/assault is bc of their misogyny and wanting to maintain our power over women, 100%. BUT can i just point out that maybe a smaller but not-insignificant reason might also be that they can't even recognize sexual assault when other men do it to them???? i didn't tell that coworker bc he's an asshole, but i have had to tell other guys at work "hey what they're doing to you is terrible and you shouldn't have to put up with it you know" which most of them hadn't ever been told before because """""roughhousing""""" is part of that "boys will be boys" thing that makes everyone ignore our abuse

tboy-trash

"boys will be boys" okay well maybe boys should be shot

teratocrat

digs a surreptitious hole

teratocrat

digs a secretive hole

teratocrat

digs a hidden hole

teratocrat

digs a confidential hole

teratocrat

digs a restricted hole

teratocrat

digs an undisclosed hole

teratocrat

digs a clandestine hole

teratocrat

>_>

<_<

lays a furtive egg

ontologicalevil

my family just invented a new type of neglect

dazeylily

reminder that you cannot call people or things "retarded" around me. we will have a conversation where I explain that I can still tell you the names of 62 people for which I was legally responsible. I will tell you that I loved them

and you will feel like you were being an asshole and wonder why you don't just stop saying it altogether. me too.

dazeylily

if we're friends, you can call me a faggot. there can be a lot of tenderness in that. I got beat up and bullied and just generally treated like a detestable freak by people who called me that word while they did it. hearing it spoken by a loved voice, with clear affection, can be beautiful. it can feel like understanding, forgiveness, absolution, permission, and a thousand other wonderful things. it can be beautiful.

I got called retarded too, but we don't share any special insight into that. it's just a word to us. pick a different one.

dazeylily

a lady with a developmental disability once explained to me that she'd overheard some kids calling each other retarded in the mall we'd visited earlier that day. searching for something to say that might comfort her, I explained that they don't know anything about people like her and so they weren't really talking about her, just being ignorant.

she got angry and said "then they need to pick a different word". and so you need to pick a different word.

don't think this is exclusive to public spaces like the mall or the park or whatever either. she has a tablet and access to the internet, just the same as you do. she can read, write, and make her own decisions. she has a husband.

you don't know anything about her, you need to stop talking about her. pick a different word.

doyoulovethewayzeylily

I'm glad this one is still going around.

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melodies-stereo

im cute and everybody loves me

melodies-stereo

if u reblog this post, the above statement will be about u

k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

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k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

k9t33th

It's always that damned distance

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