in omnia paratus

i don’t know who else needs to hear this (apart from myself), but other people’s perceptions of you are not always very objective. especially if they’re strangers. it’s easy to get caught up in the ways people see us and perform our whole lives in order to be seen in a certain way, but i promise you that you know your life better than them. you’ve been with yourself for the longest time & you know how your experiences have felt, where your heart feels the most alive and how much pain you’ve endured. i know it sucks to have your experiences & traits misunderstood or taken away from you, but the way people see us ultimately have more to do with themselves than us. it’s okay if you want to feel validated and loved, okay? just please remember to validate yourself too.

you guys are like i love milfs yes yum milf milf milf but you don’t like children and you can’t wake up before 10am and you don’t know how to drive automatic and you’ve never gone grocery shopping alone and you’re scared to order your hot chocolate at star bucks so how do you expect to help take care of deborah’s preschool kids in between rounds of that cougar pussy

why do ppl think its ok to waste my time

I’m a simple being. I see a book, I want to read it.

I buy the book. I do not read it.

actually you will not enjoy hearing this but you literally have to abandon your self deprecating humor. besides the fact that it can drive people away you literally are only hurting yourself by constantly making jokes that further cement the idea in your head that you are not good enough. I do not care that you think its a good coping mechanism it is absolutely not and you need to start challenging negative thoughts instead of feeding into them.

i am not sorry about this post btw i was right purr

honestly i think we should just start reacting to people without masks like they reacted to socks in monsters inc