Whoops There I Went

It's important to be able to point out flaws in media you genuinely enjoy!!!!!!

A friend of mine used to post thirst traps on main until someone described one such photo as being their "asexual awakening" and I think about this every day

This websites hatemail game is insane

at some point during high school i drew a centaur girl with large breasts because i wanted to draw a character that looked like me, and my biofamily got real upset about it. "why are they so large" because mine are that large. "wouldn't that make it hard for her to run" interesting that you think that but keep trying to make me run. "don't draw things like this, it's morally bad" ok i and my apparently inherently pornographic body will just be over here trying to avoid being looked at

this is not to say porn is bad, tbc. i just wasn't a fan as a teenager of being treated like it was impossible to look at bodies like mine non-sexually. frankly i'm not a fan of it now either lmao. i keep kind of thinking about how so many female protagonists are canonically flat or small-chested girls/women who textually wish they had larger breasts, but i can't remember the last time i encountered a protagonist with large breasts where that fact wasn't meant to be sexual. what is up with that dynamic and how do i destroy it

it's like... in order to be accepted as a woman, the character has to desire the idealized form of The Perfect Woman (or if she's a #feminist, reject and detest that same idealized form, but the focus on it is often still there). but in order to be a non-pornographic protagonist, she can't attain it. the moment you have a large enough chest you don't really get to be a normal character anymore, you have to go to sex world. idk. probably someone better read than me has written some sort of papers on this. idk what search terms to use though

Yeah sex is cool, but have you ever handed off the work equivalent of a live grenade with one second left on the fuse for someone else to deal with?

When I was a teen in the 2010s boys would call each other Gay to say they were too effeminate but now it’s 2026 and we’re “Better Than That” so I just overheard a kid on the bus tell his buddy “you gotta get on T man cause you are NOT passing” 😭😭😭😭😭

“I don’t do politics” is a slap in the face to every community that never got to opt out because their very existence is political.

omg if i was an oracle i would be LYYYYYINGGGG

once you recognize the pattern of black men on spn being killed (half the time immediately!) it’s impossible to unsee it

and yes, this post is absolutely about all the named characters you’re thinking of (jake talley, gordon walker, victor henriksen, rufus, uriel, raphael, etc.). but it’s also about every unnamed extra or minor single episode side character. pay attention and you’ll notice that if a Black man shows up in the monster of the week intro, 90% of the time he’ll be dead by the title card. and if a Black man is introduced halfway through the episode with some other side characters, he’ll be the one sam and dean DON’T manage to save from the monster of the week. it’s through the whole run of the show, too.

You ever think about many peices of media have zero women and thats just perfectly normal but if a peice of media has an all female cast people get... like that? Women should be allowed to kill over this btw

Insensitivity reader to make sure that your characters are ignorant assholes in the ways that make the most sense for the characterization you're trying to achieve