âBeware how you give your heart.â (Jane Austen, Northanger Abbey 190)
James Morland writes this to his sister Catherine in a lettew towards the end of the book. He has been rejected by Isabella and is warning Catherine (who has fallen for Henry Tilney) to avoid the same fate.
This quote can have a lot of impact for Catherine beyond just the one view of her giving her heart to a romantic relationship. One way is that she had given her heart and trust to Isabella as her close friend. Isabella has betrayed her friendship as well by rejecting James for Captain Tilney - what she said she would never do. Catherine now cannot be so trusting going into relationships. Also, Catherine has been careful in the past not to just freely give her heart away. She avoids doing to with John Thorpe, despite the pressure from others. She also gives her heart to a lot of ideas without much thought, like her belief that her world is one large gothic novel. Finally, there is the clear heart that she wants to give away to Henry but now has to deeply consider this choice. Catherine is learning that being in society means guarding her heart.












