Patati et patata...

As in, do any of your memories take place during the 90s (yes, a single memory from 1999 counts).

Hyoga: I need to let go of all these memories and emotions! I have to concentrate and defeat my next enemy, no matter who he his!

At the Artic Sea Pillar

Isaac: Greetings Hyoga, I am Isaac, the one who trained with you in Siberia, the one who was your best friend, not to mention the one that saved your life.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.