I'm back... for now

god the horrible urge to vague post is eating me alive but i must

someone wronged me once

my humours have balanced. I have become mentally normal again

My plans/expectations for how my evening after work was gonna go changed no less than 3 times today due to circumstances beyond my control, so it's actually very cool and impressive that I'm lying next to my unfolded laundry contemplating what to make for dinner and I only cried a tiny bit

Update: I have folded some of the laundry and also cleaned my toilet. The power I wield should be studied

trans men please transition and live and be 10, 15, 20+ years down the line and be the hope and joy and proof that makes other trans men stay alive

you have to kill the fatphobe that lives in your head. you have to

I understand dysmorphia is so hard to deal with, but you have to shut that shit down as soon as it creeps in. It's so important that you do not accept the fatphobia that lives in your head just because you're nice to fat people on the outside. Your life will be so much better and you will be such a better ally to fat people please I am no longer asking you need to kill the fatphobe that lives in your head

It 100% affects the relationship you have with fat people by the way. When you can still wear straight sizes but you're constantly complaining about how big and fat you feel and how terrified you are of people seeing your stomach in public, we fucking notice that. We notice and we are making a note that you are not a safe person to be openly fat around without risking being in the splash zone of your self loathing

the legally blonde mentality isnt just for law students. u can bring that attitude with you into every field of work. be the whimsical force of positive change. wear that neon outfit. snaps for us all.

this post was inspired by my boss telling me she couldnt "take me seriously" in a pair of dinosaur print overalls. sorry i have two degrees and a dope wardrobe. you dont need to take me seriously but You Will Take Me.

My friend really changed once she became a vegetarian 

its like ive never seen herbivore

i sighed so loud my mom asked me if i was okay and she’s two rooms away

Everyone envies me for my shrimp lighter

bro thinks hes got plany off time 💀

it's so crazy how much worse u can make things by not leaving the bed or house or eating food

the thing that bewilders me about a lot of fantasy readers is that they read about settings and plots featuring imperialism, war, and slavery and then call the inclusion of violence, abuse, and sexual exploitation "edgy" and "gratuitous" and it's like what did you think was happening. why were you under the impression that you were going to get a cozy story about fascism or something. far be it from me to criticize anyone for not wanting to read about torture in their spare time, and there are certainly cases where heavy subjects are poorly executed, but is it not equally insulting to sanitize them for a feel-good adventure.. like no one put a gun to your head and forced you to give your fantasy novel an enslaved protagonist. sometimes writing is supposed to make you feel bad

I’m reading The Deviants War: The Homosexual vs The United States of America and the entire point of gay pride as a concept comes from police raids on bars, clubs, public restrooms, etc where gays were humiliated and outed in the newspapers (sometimes with their addresses!) and had careers ruined and lives upended by being associated with perversion and vice squads and all that and they responded by going “no I’m proud” and took that pride to the streets in defiance of the huge mechanism of shame that existed to oppress the gay community into obscurity and so the fact that people are now trying to apply conservative dogma to pride parades to make them “safe for children” or in other words “safe for people with oppressive conservative values” is simply insane

To phrase this more clearly: “public indecency” laws were the primary tool for brutally enforcing gender and sexual conformity, so applying a “public indecency” lens to pride parades of all things is a slap in the face of everyone who ever suffered under gender & sexual oppression and took their anger (and yes their pride!) to the streets. If it makes you uneasy or uncomfortable maybe you’re not on the side you think you are!