the generational gap between me and the people my age who were allowed to watch spongebob

Didn't like it

haters will see you mind control them and be like i do not hate you any more

deriding things as performative is anti third space

im sitting on a patio at my favorite cafe rn and im hand stitching them hem of a dress im working on. and i can see why someone would say im being performative by working on something like this in a public space. but frankly theres no element of that. i just want to work somewhere that isnt my apartment. i want to be in public, i wanna chat with strangers, i wanna see the world. it’s nice to hang out somewhere that isnt my home!

what i mean is when you say people are being performative you discourage them from doing shit they love in public. and thats no way to foster the world we want to see.

haters will see me mind control them and be like wow i do not dislike her anymore

some of them want to amuse you 😺. some of them want to be amused 😸

rummaging for an earl grey teabag like its a cigarette