I'm too old for this crap.

He’s doing it again.

Jensen…!

So I’ve messaged by someone who was at the con and said Jensen brought up Danneel several times. A mutual listened to the videos and confirmed. And nearly every time, it was a negative and toxic way. Made me headdesk.

I know the stans will go “But that’s just their humor!”

No.

No.

It’s a red flag! 🚩

And people laugh.

He did the same when he was asked about the OTH reboot at the Countdown premiere. He said that if Danneel ‘asked’ him to be on the reboot, he’d be on it—no choice in the matter. Again, people laughed.

Everyone laughed and went “Yas Kween!”

No autonomy at all for Jensen. Zero. This isn’t cute. This speaks as to why he’s barely home. This speaks to battles over power in an unhealthy marriage.

A marriage isn’t about fights over power. About who gets one over the other. It should never be about that.

But his stories do that over and over again. Math questions and everything else.

Laughing = "throwing a tantrum." 🤣🤣🤣

I’m busy. I have a busy life. I work, I write, I have a career I’m trying to launch. I don’t waste hours upon hours on being a stan like Nina does, who looks for crumbs to justify an obsession that doesn’t exist.

That she scans the antis and does this? Sad. Really sad.

"influential, powerhouse producer." "acting gigs," "wide-ranging talent???????" HELP 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Every part of that is a lie.

Hell, that photo is a lie. She doesn’t even look like that now. This photo is too clean, too… y’know what, I’m not gonna focus on that.

Instead, no. She wasn’t on Countdown. CMP didn’t even produce it. The Winchesters demonstrated that CMP couldn’t be producers—they were severely behind, over budget, had the story so messed up that they couldn’t even keep track of the actual lore…. And then the on-set tragedy.

After that, despite repeated statements of claiming they were trying again, nothing really came to fruition. Not even the One Tree Hill reboot.

Every single claim failed.

Her, a powerhouse? Please. Her acting career was a joke. All she ever did was play herself, which was a backstabbing bitch who used sex and drugs to manipulate people and was materialistic because that’s all that mattered to her. Not loyalty, not love, not friendship.

Yes. I’ll be that mean for half a second.

Because she constantly put down Jensen. She put down Jared. She put down numerous people—strangers and fans alike. She tried to claim credit when it wasn’t hers to claim. She tried to play activist then got bored. She wouldn’t know hard work if it bit her on the ass.

If Elta would buy clothes from the thrift Story instead burning 8k on an atrocious jacket that probably not even a thriftstore would sell...they could give away that money.

This’ll make me a bitch.

He can’t.

He literally cannot. He can’t donate. Not anonymously. Not publicly. He cannot say anything in cons, not publicly, nowhere. Not through his publicist. It’d all be “No comment.”

This is a very tangled lawsuit. I tried to do more research without paying for the documents because Los Angeles County Superior Court makes you pay for copies, unfortunately.

Jensen and Danneel COULD settle without needing the approval of the other defendants, yes, but here’s the biggest tangle: they’re covered by liability insurance. Their insurance company would likely say “Fuck no.” And given Bryan would likely want millions (and I don’t blame him), the Ackles don’t have that kind of money. Even with a networth of what, $14 million? They’d need their insurance to pay for it. And maybe Bryan doesn’t want to settle. Maybe he WANTS a trial!

And no. They can’t donate. Not even anonymously. Here’s why: it’ll come up in discovery. GoFundMe does give the option for your name not to show up on the donor list, but it’ll still be known to GoFundMe. What if it some lawyer wisely asks GoFundMe for discovery? Or subpoenas the Ackles financials? Then it’ll be shown… and it’d be seen as a sign of guilt or liability.

They can’t. They just can’t.

It’s a mess, legally.

Please understand that when it involves the law, it is a damned mess. It’s never as simple as “Just do XYZ.”

Jensen can’t do anything without seeming guilty. Right now, a lot are blaming him even when he wasn’t the one who made that decision to keep filming. It was Showalter who violated union rules. Jensen wasn’t even there. 100 other John Does were included in that lawsuit. Who knows who else was included in that decision?

We’ll hopefully find out.

Also, to be clear, I've been trafficked and abused for most of my life. I'm barely even free now. I very much know what abuse looks like. Making your partner the butt of the joke is really mean, but it isn't life destroying. Also, reminder, we do not know these people. For all we know Jensen might think that's the funniest shit on the planet and him acting like it isn't is part of the joke. We do not have cameras in these peoples houses. Their relationship isn't happy and healthy, that much is obvious, but I really don't think throwing around such a heavy accusation is good for anyone here. If there's video of something like Daneel hitting him or berating him I'd change my opinion, but I've never seen such.

If you think she's abusive, hate her for being abusive. Not because you think she's actually too skinny or whatever. Feel however you want about her body but talking about it in such gross ways perpetuates misogyny.

I am deeply sorry about your experiences, Anon. I’ve watched several documentaries about human trafficking and even spoken to journalists undercover in the field. Words cannot encompass what you’ve been through and no one should ever go through something like that.

That being said, I just want to point out that abuse comes in many forms. My ex was viewed as perfect by everyone, little did they know that at home he gaslighted and devalued me to the point where I ended up wanting to end my life. What I’m trying to say is that abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars, something the scars are internal and they can fester and become highly dangerous to an individual’s mental and physical health. If only Danneel were simply joking, unfortunately, she full on devalues Jensen in from of other people. It may seem harmless but in reality it chips away at someone’s self worth. I have no idea if she abuses him physically( though he did once have a wound he had several excuses for.) but she definitely devalues him. Jensen has stated many times that he must continuously work to impress her, that is not a normal relationship dynamic and walking on eggshells around your partner and never feeling like enough is not a healthy dynamic. Many people think it is, sadly, because they don’t know anything better. I think that, as a celebrity(by proxy thanks to Jensen, without him she would be nothing), Danneel is an example to people and so the behaviour she models is highly important, the same goes for Jensen, he needs to set boundaries. I know Jensen isn’t exactly the perfect partner but no one deserves to be devalued.

Let’s take my example. I am a victim of CSA. There is nothing more horrifying than that. To be a child and have yourself taken advantage of because somebody decides they can. People believed my abuse and I got the help I needed.

My friend, she was a victim of coercive control and child neglect. For years she tried to get help but was constantly pushed back. ‘Others have it worse.’ ‘Oh they were just joking.’ ‘You’re overreacting.’ Those were the kind of statements she lived with until one day her mind completely fractured and she tried to end her own life. When I spoke to her about it and asked why she never told me what happened she said ‘because you were a victim of abuse, I wasn’t.’

I was heartbroken that she saw my abuse as more worthy than hers because it was physical and hers was mental. I have recovered from what happened to me, she hasn’t. She’s lived nearly 40 years with people who have your attitude telling her she wasn’t a victim of abuse. She was, she lost her childhood, teens, 20s and most of her 30s to it and it’s only now she may finally be able to have a life at nearly 40.

Exposing a girl for calling her out that Jensen settled and had her fans attack her. Also her not being there for Jensen after the finale or the Rust tragedy. Telling him to talk to someone else.

Sometimes I read other anons here and it feels like they're pissed that Jensen isn't dating them instead so they're seething and trying to point out all the ways they're better. Which is real, I'd love to be inside that man's ass too, but don't take it out on his wife. Your jealousy isn't her fault, and their divorce will NOT lead to him meeting with you specifically, 20 year old nobody.

Hate Daneel for being a shitty actress with seemingly no morals and everything else she's actually done, not for being a wife, mother, or woman. She's more than just Jensen's wife, she's also a shitty person. Misogyny just ruins the whole thing.

(Not directed to you, just some anons I've seen.)

Yes. Jensen probably has had Botox too, but it’s definitely not to the extent of Danneel.

‘We don’t know the relationship is abusive.’ I think there are enough indicators to infer that Danneel likely is an abusive personality and has probably done what she can to break Jensen down. There are comments she has made in full view of other people that can be considered verbally abusive and she has posted things that shame Jensen for his weight. She also, at some stage, had access to all his social media accounts. That is a huge red flag and normally the market of an abuser.

I don’t know who has ever said she was fat. Skinny, yes, but not fat. I’ve remarked that she’s looking scarily thin in regards that I’m deeply, deeply concerned for her health. As have others.

Her unnecessary cosmetic and plastic surgery? At times, yes. Because I feel she’s had an excess of them, which point to body dysmorphia. She can look vastly different from one month to another and it’s not just because of lighting or professional versus fan photography either. It’s honestly concern.

But the abuse? Nuh uh, anon. That’s as clear as day. Because she’s been doing it for years, and it’s been out there from fan encounters on Twitter—which she tried to wipe clean—to stories not just Jensen has shared but interviews where she’s openly admitted to having downright violent thoughts no one should actually have. (Who daydreams about chopping someone else’s hair off like that?!)

She’s done it in the AD house tour. She’s done it in convention panels. Jared has shared these stories.

Look at it, anon. Where are her friends? Who are they? When she makes comments on social media, who actually responds? Only Misha and we know that’s because he’s a desperate grifter. All the others have openly ignored her.

From Genevieve Padalecki to Meg to god knows who else… they’ve all ignored her.

When she can’t even be there for her husband to support his speech at the school? When she can’t be at the Countdown premiere? When it got canceled? When Vought Rising was announced? When The Boys s5 was premiered?

Where was she?!?

We have PLENTY of reasons to dislike her! None—mark my words, NONE—of it is because we want to fuck Jensen Ackles or because she’s his wife! What kind of marriage is it anyway where she’s nowhere to be seen when he needs her, huh? May I remind you of Rust and her refusal to fucking be there?!

Oh and btw, a lot of us are older than 20. We’re not babies nor children. We’re mature women who know what a healthy marriage is SUPPOSED to look like and this ain’t it.

Not one iota.

As a mutual said, Jensen keeps trying to work Danneel in conventions but it’s never organic. It’s like ever since Ringgate, he’s trying to make sure everyone knows he’s married.

Except we haven’t seen them together since the red carpet of Giant—and that was a very painful appearance. He didn’t even walk with her together. He didn’t hold her arm like he did at s3 of The Boys at Brazil with his female costars.

She wasn’t with him at Montreal. He wasn’t seen with her at the Louden Swain concert despite claims. She wasn’t with him at his speech at the school (and she should’ve been; talk about unsupportive).

She won’t be at the next upcoming One Tree Hill con. In fact, an offer was made to her and she turned it down. Hilarie won’t either. Sophia will be there Sunday only.

Jensen is never with her to any of the charity events in Connecticut despite some of them during his time off.

He mentions doing stuff with the kids—like watching Project Hail Mary with the kids but not with Danneel.

This is not a married couple.

This one definitely separated. Informally, for sure, not legally.

He did a bit for Darklight that made it look like someone was off-camera but careful study by a mutual showed there was no one there in the reflection of his eyes. He was definitely alone.

He can tell all the stories he wants. We can see and hear the difference.

Nice try, Mr. Ackles.

I’ve notice they don’t follow each on social media.

I know Shantel deactivated her social media when she was getting a divorce. That was also kind of unexpected.