Seen a photo of Jensen on instagram in his tagged photos section. The user is julie_eledhwen. She has a lot of photo ops with Jensen over recent cons and is objectively a very beautiful woman. It seems she’s been getting harrassed a bit online as posted about taking a break. People were tagging Danneel in the comments of her recent ops at DLC 7 and scolding the poor girl saying doesn’t she know he has a wife and kids, forcing her to delete certain comments. Reminded me of asks you had recently about another girl deleting her insta due to facing similar backlash.
Do you think these weird parasocial fans realize that it’s highly unlikely Jensen would have an intimate connection with a fan at a con? Firstly, I think he knows the risks of a fan potentially sharing the experience, and secondly, it seems he’s very much in work mode at these events- creating these special moments is kinda the point of the ops. I’m thinking of a viral JenMish duo op at DLC7 too, where the pose he gave the young woman was a smouldering stare and she was very flustered after, with both Jensen and Misha laughing and enjoying her response.
Do you think, as a beautiful person yourself, that people are jealous because the women in these situations are beautiful? Would they still be upset if he was posing this way with less conventionally attractive people? Or is it because the connection seems sincere and they hate the thought of Jeneel being called into question (more than it already is).
Also tagging danneel and comments saying “i feel so bad for his wife” etc… we’ve heard the story about danneel slapping Jensen for speaking kindly to a PA on SPN set (or something similar). Do you think she actually is bothered by this? as she strikes me as someone who is insecure already about her own looks. Or do you reckon she’s so detached from Jensen that she doesn’t care.
Hopefully these parasocial fans don’t result in Jensen taking on less cons. Hes already dealing with colleagues objectifying and sexualising him during panels- even ones where he isn’t present. I get the impression he truly enjoys interacting and making connections with fans, but if he’s gonna have people tagging Danneel and hating on other fans, I wouldn’t blame him for wanting to take a step out of that obsessive world for a bit.
would love to know your thoughts!
Hi, Anon! Thank you for the beautiful ask, I appreciate you taking the time to write it.
Disclaimer: I am going to sound like the most narcissistic person ever!
I had a look at julie_eledhwen’s instagram account and she is indeed a very beautiful woman. She should be proud and she should celebrate the moments she shared with Jensen. Unfortunately, parasocial fans are getting more and more desperate because they can sense something is off in the Ackles marriage. As a beautiful woman, I want people to know that being discriminated against because of looks is a painful experience and that, while most the world thinks we have it easy, the reality is envy is a very real factor and it comes into play. I would like to make it very clear to people that Jensen, though married, is NO ONE’s property and that he should not be treated as an object due to his looks or as a commodity that Danneel owns.
It is not okay, in any Universe, to mob someone for simply sharing a beautiful moment with an actor. Actors live for those moments, that is why they become actors! That woman Julie (Hope I got her name right) is indeed beautiful and she indeed has chemistry with Jensen. Since when is that a bad thing? How dare these people want to make someone less for standing out? I officially celebrate Julie and Jensen’s pictures because they are beautiful! 🥰
You may noticed that attractive women generally tend to befriend other attractive women and that they move in groups. Have you ever wondered why that is? Because only another attractive woman can understand what being at the end of people’s envy is truly like. So they stick together and protect each other. I know this will make me sound like the most narcissistic person on the planet and I am fine with that but just know that being on the other end of people’s envy is not a beautiful experience. From jealous wives, to men who objectify to parasocial fans and everything in between. I will never get why people choose envy over appreciation but sadly they do. Whenever I see a beautiful woman or someone better looking than me I appreciate instead of envy so I will truly never understand how people can be so cruel and want to crush/diminish someone’s light. By the way beauty comes in many forms, someone less attractive may be charismatic or have a way with words, people shine in their unique way is what I’m trying to say and it saddens me that most people are so cruel and envious they feel the need to put out other people’s light. To answer your question, I believe the envious would put absolutely anyone down upon noticing a connection, no matter what their looks.
I think the women commenting about his wife on Julie’s posts would give anything to have Jensen and so their attention towards Danneel is misplaced and fake. I think that, at the core, those women are acting out purely out of envy and possessiveness towards Jensen, who, may I remind everyone again, is no one’s property.
As for Danneel, I have no reason to believe she is any different than her envious Stans. Like attracts like.
Harassing the actor and the person in the photo op should not be the answer to people’s envy. People should be mature enough to acknowledge their emotions without acting out.
I am deeply sorry that Julie’s beautiful experiences are being overshadowed by envy. I hope that she keeps on shining and pays no mind to the parasocial parasites that want to harass her.
To all the girls/women who are getting bullied for having a beautiful photo op: Own your looks and presence and never apologise for the energy you bring because the energy you bring is clearly beautiful, otherwise, you would not be getting a good reaction from Jensen. Let your impact matter more than the envious crowd’s opinions!
Sorry, this is such a long post but some things need to be said.
One last thing, these envious people should really learn to be happy when someone reaches a dream they have, because being happy means being in alignment with that vision. What we appreciate grows, we magnetise it to us. People feel drawn and they don’t know why, appreciation is why.
