I would like to invite you to compare the way you treat and think about paraphilias to the way you treat and think about other disorders with me. particularly if you are a member of communities that arenāt as likely to spread stigma surrounding disorders like NPD and ASPD etc like in typical society.
anti paras tend to hold the beliefs of āanti para unless anti contactā in a guilty until proven innocent sense, the conflation of paraphile with predator is so deeply ingrained from decades of social stigma that it provides people with a safety net to acceptably say that we should kill and harm paraphiles.
as someone who has personality disorders, these disorders sometimes compel me or make me desire to harm people. acting upon my desires to hurt people around me would be physically and emotionally traumatic for strangers and even people I care about. why can you rationalise empathy for people like me, when this pertains to BPD, NPD, ASPD, schizophrenia, etc? if someone was to say āanti NPD, except anti abuse onesā why is that unacceptable, but āanti para, except anti contact onesā is acceptable?
do you understand that sexual taboo is affecting the way you treat and think about human beings? do you understand that sex being integrated into the conversation is whatās affecting your mental shift from āperson with a conditionā to āpredatorā as soon as the conversation moves to paraphiles? ānarc abuseā is a condemned term in these communities for conflating a condition with abuser. but conflate āparaphileā with āpredatorā and you very wilfully submit to a decades long psyop that has also been historically used to hurt the gay and trans community.
itās frustrating that I try and keep this blog mogai focussed, but more and more violence and bullying is being incited towards various groups that already suffer from social stigma. you arenāt interested in protecting children if you canāt get over your own internal biasesā who is going to protect the children who are paraphiles? who is going to protect the victims who are paraphiles?
consider your own hypocrisy, dont disregard reason and empathy to soothe your personal discomforts
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