“Touched by a woman" by Bryzoid
My personal thoughts and growth in loving unconditionally:
1. To get to where my level of patience is at today is through layers of struggles, heartaches and pain in the past. i have been stretched, i have been tested, i am worn out but the greatest character of all is perseverance.
2. I am only for a woman who genuinely cares for my growth as an individual, in career and my mental state of mind. that’s all i need.
3. It’s very important as men to look into the aspect of self-improvement for love. we often follow our instincts and emotions but not grounded on the foundation of how to love with compassion. let your ego down and love humbly.
4. Being with someone you love shouldn’t co-exist with feelings of anxiety, insecurities and uncertainty. communicate and find that breakthrough against those negativity surrounding your relationship. it takes two matured individuals to find peace in living as one entity.
5. I am seduced by her mind, not her body.
6. Regardless of how much you know someone inside out, don’t make it a habit to stop learning about them. use this opportunity to improve your r’ship communication and harvest a greater bond between one another. don’t take anything for granted. to know her is to love her, endlessly.
7. Keep chasing her even though she’s already yours. that’s the only way you’ll be assured to never lose her.
8. This is important because so many people don’t know this. emotional abuse is when someone hurts you and when you express your frustration, they turn it around to something you did to hurt them instead. this is detrimental to ones mental health and the ability to trust others.
9. Always keep in check on your other half. make sure that their heart and mind is in the right place, undisturbed from negativity. the communication of understanding has to be transparent. let the heart speak on uneasiness and manage expectations. provide the love they deserve.
10. Let love be spoken in its purest form instead of money and materialistic things. what enhances love is how you treat and care for someone physically & emotionally— to make them feel safe, comfortable and the ability for them to just be their true self.
amandla