(s)he's boyfriend ⚦ ⚢

okay in the process of writing my last post i went "hm, yanno i don't even know what new shows Cartoon Network is making right now. maybe it's because i've grown out of the period of my life when i was big into western cartoon fandoms?" and i went to go check what Cartoon Network's current schedule is and there's not a single show that started this decade. the newest show on their lineup, Summer Camp Island, started airing in fucking 2018. oh my god this is so bleak. its like all gumball, scooby doo, and regular show they're just reheating the 2010s' leftovers.

Nickelodeon is entirely paw patrol in the morning, spongebob in the afternoon, and then friends and big bang theory at night. shambling corpse.

[Tweet by Gillian Branstetter reads “If enforcing gender norms requires a constant state of surveillance and censorship then they probably aren’t as biological or innate as you think they are]

Did you know that after they switched to blind auditions, major symphony orchestras hired women between 30% to 55% more? Before bringing in “blind auditions” with a screen to conceal the the candidate, women in the top 5 major orchestras made up less than 5% of the musicians performing.

The case of blind auditions for orchestras and how it dramatically changed the gender makeup of orchestras is a very illuminating example of gender bias, and an interesting possible way of countering it.

You can be sexist without knowing it. You can be racist without knowing it. This is not a moral failing; it is a moral imperative to remember that you are fallible, and take steps to limit the damage your squishy ape brain’s foibles can cause.

"you wouldn't want that in real life" yeah i know it's called playing pretend, try to keep up

i think completely pre transition trans people should be able to wear one tiny little pronoun pin and get gendered correctly every time. i think cis people should be transitioning just for the fun of it if they want to. i think you should be able to walk into any pharmacy and just buy hrt. i think that little boys should be able to sit in circles and play with dolls and paint each other's nails and make friendship bracelets. i think that little girls should be able to play with flaming monster trucks and play football and get competitive over video games. i think that arson (he/it/paw) should have paw's identity respected and treated as completely normal. i think that we should normalize neopronouns and weird genders and being weird or unusual in general. you should be able to explain your weird one of a kind xenogender to the least queer person on the planet and they should say "oh that's cool!! haven't heard of that gender before". you should be able to wear a tail in public you should be able to make out with your computer if you want i don't fucking care. i love transgenders i love neurodivergent people i love furries i love everyone outside the norm i love freaks i love nerds i love everyone.

Item: Inappropriate Douglas

I used to have a friend. kind of a dickhead all things considered. we did have our moments of closeness, I even had a crush on him for a time. he made music and liked doing drugs. we had a running joke about how if we invited him over we'd be getting high no matter what we were planning. he was good at convincing people to go along with things. I think he liked feeling the social barriers melt away. when he was high he would sometimes talk about how his own body felt gross and unnatural, how he couldn't look at himself in the mirror some days. when I told him I was trans and that I would change my name, he agreed to call me that now, but he did insist on telling me that if he was talking about me in the past, from a time before I changed my name, he would use my deadname. because you can’t change the past, he said. he was really set on that. you can’t just change the memories people have of you. even if you manage to become someone else, they will remember how you were before. it seemed like he wasn't really talking to me then. at some point, he was a dick one too many times. haven't talked to him since. I hope she figured some things out.

the enlightened pervert can look beyond kink to find meaning. and then get horny about the meaning instead.

honestly humanity fell off when it shifted from drawing and sculpting pussies into everything to drawing dicks everywhere. which happened. idk around 12 000 years ago. been on a downslope imo.

so in case you didn't know, paleolithic representations of genitals are, in the vast, vast, VAST majority, of vulvas. prehistoric humans would say "is anyone going to draw a vagina on this rock wall that sort of has folds?" and not wait for an answer. we have so, so many figurines that have a clear, distinct slit between the legs. there are paleolithic drawings of sexual positions and the clearest part in them is always always the pussy. that one also probably has a lesbian couple which is awesome. I'll post it later if I find it again in my book. paleolithic homo sapiens were obsessed with pussy. and we need to learn from their wisdom. draw pussy on everything, it's your heritage.

my life isnt perfect but at least im not doing a mans laundry