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there's so much trans discourse that can really be solved by simply being able to accept that things you find confusing or dysphoria inducing, aren't the same things that bring those feelings to others, yes even those with similar identities/ experiences to you. those might be the very things that makes sense and are affirming for them even if they aren't for you. and maybe the things You find affirming, they wouldn't. but that doesn't mean anything about either of your identities or validness because there's no "right" or "wrong" way to experience your own gender. policing others genders isn't very appealing when you realize that that's exactly what everyone wants to do to All of us, regardless of how "Correct" your experience as a trans person might be. accepting our differences is just as important as accepting our similarities and projecting your own feelings or insecurities onto others in your community only serves to hurt us all

you guys wouldnt believe the day im having alone in my room

lol I am in such a stressed-out blind rage today from insurance bullshit that I wrote up a glossary of health insurance terms (things like deductibles, premiums, and copays) because all the free guides online are unnecessarily complicated and the only way you can squeeze a dime out of these bullshit companies is to understand their overly-complicated policies. give em hell

This is a GREAT guide folks - it’s simple, straightforward, and deals well with the overly complicated alphabet soup of medical insurance. Knowing this stuff can prove REALLY helpful, and the examples used are a great resource. 

hearing someone you love laugh is? easily one of the best things on earth