To never forget

The concept of this blog is to show that there is more than one way to be feminine. I think femininity is about embracing every parts of yourself . it’s  accepting the fact that you are always more than one things. You can be brave and afraid , strong and weak and that femininity come in pair with masculinity. 

“Male and female represent the two sides of the great dualism. But in fact they are perpetually passing into one another. there is no wholly masculine man and no purely feminine woman” Margaret Fuller

Growing up into a family of five boys, femininity was never something to worry about - I mean I didn’t know what it was- I wasn’t nor girlish nor a tomboy, I simply was both. I remember wearing a dress with bear print on it for a class picture when I was in elementary school and at the time spend days at home wearing my brothers clothes. My fav disney character was never a princess it was a warrior, Mulan. 

I don’t remember exactly when I started to lose confidence about myself. I guess it was when i started to care about boys, you know that one middle school crush that you can’t seem to get rid of your head, the first butterflies in your stomach. I reckon thinking does HE find me cute ? May be I should try to wear that. Okay we just found out when everything fucked up. I mean who cares what he thinks, a guy who likes you will find you cute no matter what you wear and how you look.