āBut we loved with a love that was more than love.ā -Edgar Allen Poe
If you were to ask, this would be the one quote I would use to define the connection between Sauron and Galadriel. Everyone is entitled to their own interpretation of a character or a ship and mine is simply one of many.
The word āloveā in it of itself is not straightforward in its definition or the way one experiences it. Love is also a word thatās used in contrast to the word hate. Even then itās said that thereās a thin line between the two. If thatās the case then Sauron and Galadriel certainly have a love/hate relationship. Allow me to paint a further picture,
Galadriel and Sauron are two halves of a whole. Each is a manifestation of the otherās will and desires. Considered outcasts amongst their own people, they still choose their own path despite those that would tell them to do otherwise. It would be those very same paths that would eventually lead them to each other. Meeting at a time of such vulnerability that it allowed for them to let down their walls. Just a little at least.
Sauron in his truest nature is a being who values creation. Taking great pride in his own craftsmanship and ability to recognize the flaws in something. Finding fascination in anotherās work and praising them for it. However, much like how we see an artist with a blank canvas ready to paint, Middle Earth needs to be wiped clean (healed as he puts it) before Sauron believes he can craft something of absolute perfection in its place.
It has already been recognized that Galadriel is someone who wishes to obtain power, but I havenāt really seen it be discussed as to what kind of power she wants to embody. In my opinion, I believe Galadriel at her core is someone who desires to be a fucking force of nature. Saying the iconic quote āYou would have a Queen. Not dark but beautiful and terrible as the dawn. As treacherous as the sea and stronger than the foundations of the Earthā. To me, this is a clear indication that she craves a power possibly comparable to that of The One. What sparked such a desire remains unclear, but I think this unanswered detail might just hold the key as to why Galadriel consistently rejected Sauron.
When they met, the two were simply a nobody to each other. A random elf and man (fallen maia) crossing paths in the middle of the freaking ocean with no land in sight. What need would there be to outright lie? Especially when he couldāve easily killed at any point he wished. Oh, she thinks heās king of the Southlands? Ok, sure, heāll run with it but couldnāt care less. He speaks of a past with unspecified evil deeds, she doesnāt ask for clarification. She proclaims with conviction that they were brought together for a purpose, NOW heās all ears. Galadriel later states that he deceived her, Sauron in response says he told her the truth (from a certain point of view).
Before they got back to Middle Earth Sauron was recreating his origin story and seemed set to just live out his days (for a little while at least), but it would be Galadrielās untamable fire that would relight his spark for creation. Simultaneously, his constant challenging of her direction and choices reawakened her desire to strive for power. When they finally returned to Middle Earth, thatās when the story began to change. Sauron started to see more opportunities to take advantage of and Galadriel believed she had found someone who valued her direction and character. They truly both lifted each other up and ultimately sealed their fates in blood.
Calling them āpartnersā lacks the intensity they have towards each other. Saying itās a āone-sided relationshipā completely ignores the fact that they do indeed share similar feelings, even if theyāre in different tones. Saying that they were āloversā is much too simplistic and soft when thinking of how deeply the betrayal and rejection affected them for centuries to come. Reducing them to just āenemiesā practically leaves out the all brief moments of tenderness that we do see. All of this contributes to the foundation of why I believe them to be two halves of a whole.
She wanted him by her side and he wanted to bind their āsoulsā together. Both desired the company and connection of one another, in way that exceeded beyond what words could describe and knowing that they have no reason to concern themselves about whether the other ālovedā them or not.
In truth, before everything fell apart, I believe Galadriel and Sauron once both shared an understanding that they would pick each other over everyone else to have by their side. Just the two of them rising to greater heights, together.











