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You're being a jerk for going onto someone else's post about requesting to not be gendered and literally making fun of people who want to experience pregnancy while being respected as the gender they are

Not only that but it's not just a matter of being offended. People who are pregnant and aren't women are more likely to have hate crimes committed against them.

As for hate crimes, get off your moral high horse for a minute and think. Nobody is going to stop hate criming trans people just because we stopped gendering pregnancy. You are arguing with a point I never made.

What I'm tryna say is, we can't change how things are seen, especially something as inherent to afab people as childbirth,* especially when it is still so stigmatised for women anyway. I've debated putting this in here because idk if I can word it as carefully as I need to, but a big part of being trans is navigating what is seen as traditionally masculine or feminine. That's what dysphoria and euphoria kinda are?- being seen as masculine or feminine or both or neither as we wish. That requires us to acknowledge what is masculine and feminine. And when so many horrific things are happening to us blaming hate crimes on the fact pregnancy and childbirth r feminine just to try and guilt trip a kid on tumblr is insane.

just because pregnant women are the majority doesn't mean pregnancy needs to be called feminine and needs to be gendered. pregnancy shouldn't be gendered because the "0.1%" (actually 1% if not more) you're talking about is still MILLIONS of people worldwide, we're talking about over 100 MILLION people which is enough to create 10 independent countries with 10M populations (or it can be one HUGE country). you shouldn't think about percentages, think about numbers. not gendering pregnancy is important. regardless who's majority, there are pregnant people who are MALE and INTERSEX, which makes "pregnancy is female thing" incorrect and wrong (also male and female are technically constructed and there's not a single right definition of it. not every "female" is built the same, not every "male" is built the same, and there are literally intersex people coming in over 60 variations), and it actively erases minority and harms us in many ways possible. arguments that ungendered pregnancy "directly contradicts the majority" and "spoiler alert there are people who want their pregnancy gendered" don't work because there were times when white people were the majority in the US and they didn't want their bathrooms to be for all races, they had whites only spaces because they were the majority.

Did you just call me uneducated because I don't think society will change language to cater to trans people when we are literally being killed. Nobody is offended by neutral language. "Pregnancy" and "Childbirth" are already neutral language. That is not what I said. What i said was that you will never be able to transform societal perception of the concept of pregnancy. I know male and intersex people get pregnant, that's... the whole premise of the conversation? That's what I'm talking about? Not changing a language to cater to a minority is not erasure, and while languages change, they do so naturally. But that's not what's happening. Also, for something to be erased it had to exist. Again, most of the language surrounding pregnancy is already gender neutral. That's not what I'm talking about. The idea that everyone should alter how they personally perceive something so conceptual because of a minority is UNREALISTIC. I've yet to see anyone telling me I'm wrong deny that, yet its the core if my argument. I'm not stupid because I'm like 6 years younger than you. Stop being so condescending and talk to me like a person. I know how numbers work I take A level maths. You also put "pregnancy is a female thing" in speech marks as though I said that, which is dishonest.

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You're being a jerk for going onto someone else's post about requesting to not be gendered and literally making fun of people who want to experience pregnancy while being respected as the gender they are

Not only that but it's not just a matter of being offended. People who are pregnant and aren't women are more likely to have hate crimes committed against them.

As for hate crimes, get off your moral high horse for a minute and think. Nobody is going to stop hate criming trans people just because we stopped gendering pregnancy. You are arguing with a point I never made.

What I'm tryna say is, we can't change how things are seen, especially something as inherent to afab people as childbirth,* especially when it is still so stigmatised for women anyway. I've debated putting this in here because idk if I can word it as carefully as I need to, but a big part of being trans is navigating what is seen as traditionally masculine or feminine. That's what dysphoria and euphoria kinda are?- being seen as masculine or feminine or both or neither as we wish. That requires us to acknowledge what is masculine and feminine. And when so many horrific things are happening to us blaming hate crimes on the fact pregnancy and childbirth r feminine just to try and guilt trip a kid on tumblr is insane.