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Mostly radfem aligned / Dworkinist.

Was part of the trans community for maybe around a decade. Tried desperately to fight the misogyny from within. Have now given up.

Very sensitive currently due to my experiences in the trans community combined with medical trauma I’m dealing with so please be nice to me. I may be full of rage but I’m also a little guy.

I lean mostly trans-exclusionary these days but don’t have issues with other people holding out hope for the trans community to get less awful to women. Happy to respect your pronouns and identities and be pals as long as you’re cool with me being fed up with the trans community.

I am trying to be chill these days and maintain solidarity and friendships despite ideological differences. Still be raging out sometimes though. Just depends.

Controversial amongst the radfems:

-My special interests include makeup. Love it. I have tags like “anti beauty” filtered so if you’re using those I won’t see any of your makeup criticism and thus won’t yell at you if it’s shitty.

-I’m ace and 100% inclusionist. A lot of radfems spew entirely inaccurate bigoted nonsense about us and it’s not ok. I shouldn’t have to endure vile bullshit about my sexuality to be part of a community of women who want to fight misogyny. And I do mean 100% inclusionist. I’m an ace who likes to have sex (i.e., to have people sexually pleasure me; I am NOT referring to intercourse) because I have a high libido, regardless of attraction - we’re real and valid. Demisexuals (which I’m not personally) are also real and valid. I added “exclusionist” to my filtered tags so you can use that if you want to be an ass about asexuality and still be pals.

-Policing individual women’s choices and mocking them over it is misogyny. It’s one thing to talk about fucked up expectations placed on women; it’s another thing entirely to make an individual woman your punching bag because you think the clothes she wears are too sexy or whatever the fuck. Miss me with that shit.