The birbs nest

Name: I use Birbwi Online, but you can also call me Cardinal

Age: Elder (19 lol, was born in 2006)

I consider myself unlabeled gender wise, and pansexual sexually. Open to non-monogamous stuff but I’m single af.

Started HRT April 2024, Had an Orchi August 2025 and am currently prepping to receive Vulvoplasty sometime (hopefully) this year :3

Interests/Fandoms: OneShot, Deltarune, The Pitt, Metal Stuff, Writing Slop, Playing the drums and story based videmo gams

Favorite Characters: Berdly, Alula, Magpie, Dr. Mel King

Favorite Artists/Bands: Bring Me The Horizon, Architects, 156/Silence, Femtanyl, southstar. I pretty much listen to most genres.

currently studying zoology in OH

DMs are allowed if over 18, but if you are under 18 I want to know you first.

Wanted to put my thoughts out in the open after reading the expose on them.

Firstly, fuck Jayyoshi. What they did was horrid, especially since preventing minors from accessing NSFW content on a discoed server is so fucking easy, and their decision to send it when they knew the ages was very suspicious.

Wont lie, as someone who is into kerdly as a concept (and especially t4t kerdly) it hurt seeimg all the exposed stuff come out.

here is to many more years of hockey lesbian slop.

na but seriously, you have been a good person to us despite the whole thing about us sucking sometimes. even during the first year of us returning to gags r/ch🤮🤮🤮 you were a good person to rely on with moderation.

This is a lie, and they are using this to hurt those with disabilities.

The state Medicaid program just issued a 6 month freeze on hiring new providers for DODD programs, which will be a disaster for those currently involved within the system. Many of those who have DODD waivers are LEGAL US CITIZENS who need the help.

Proof of what’s happening: https://dam.assets.ohio.gov/image/upload/medicaid.ohio.gov/Home/Home%20Health/ODM-Statewide_NP_Moratorium.pdf

This affects Neurodivergent people, people with physical disabilities who need someone who can help, and a whole host of other things. Many people in the DODD system are queer as well. We are Non-Binary, and are watching as a system that we are apart of is crashing in front of our eyes.

Obviously the best way is to call the state governor and house reps and tell them to screw off, but in the meantime these are organizations who benefit people with developmental disabilities within Ohio. This is not an all inclusive list, and please feel free to let us know if there are any others (or if one org on this list is harmful - we don’t know many outside of central Ohio)

DASCO - Down Syndrome Organization in Central Ohio: https://www.dsaco.net

Autism Society Ohio - NOT AUTISM SPEAKS RELATED, Assists with Autism.: https://autismohio.org

Ehlers Dandos Society - Assists with EDS in Ohio, but mostly a national organization. Qualifying diagnosis for DODD services: https://www.ehlers-danlos.com

The Arc Ohio - Disablity Advocacy Organization: https://www.thearcofohio.org/advocacy/

Nisonger Center - Primarily for Autism, but helps with all DD people as well. Aspirations is a social/therapy group that we have personal experience with and we loved it. They need funding for financial aid as they cannot take insurance or waivers: https://nisonger.osu.edu/adolescent/adolescent-clinics-services/aspirations-ohio-2/

We have been curious about some rare pairs within the fandom. This is our thoughts

Anything involving Joy Kwon - why the fuck is she soooo ignored by the fandom. She isn’t like ogilvile who is a total asshole (at the beginning of season two) and she probably has some romantic attachment outside of PTMC. Also is probably a freak in bed but shhhhhhh didn’t hear that from us.

Huckledon (Whittaker x Langdon) - is this considered enemies to lovers? Anyways we like this ship. While hucklerobby is a funny thing Langdon and Dennis get absolutely thrown in the wood chipper in season 2 by Robby and the feelings would probably be decreased (tho we do know people who would be good at angst cough cough @its-venusite @chaosharri729)

nobody probably cares tho.

had to private it because we made a shipping discourse thread which… ruffled some feathers of others and couldn’t take the heat when our life outside of tumblr went to shit.

going to keep up the callout post, not because we want to but because holy shit please don’t contact us if you are going to disregard our whole history with MH Conditions

no kingdon shipper i've seen thinks mel's "only choice in life" is to date langdon. unless you're making shit up, which i'm pretty sure you are, please call those people out so we can block them.

and one last thing: your comment reeks of disdain for drug addicts. "the scar of addiction" so what, he's a burden for someone like mel who is too innocent and fragile to date someone like him? THAT'S not an ableist thing to say? she's a grown woman, a doctor, a caretaker, she's not a child. she has shown she can handle a change of plans. she's not YOU, not all autistic people are one and the same.

in the future, please, keep posting your anti-drug addict, ablelist, infantalizing bullshit, it's a free country and you're entitled to your judgmental shitty opinion, but keep it out of the ship tag.

You are assuming things that aren’t true, both with me or about kingdon as a whole.

siggghhhhh

firstly, I removed the ship tag, not because of your anger but because I’m nice and realized the bullshit that I did. calling me, a diagnosed autistic person who has been in more psych wards than a single person has been in ableist reeks of a standard that fucking hurts. Mel fucking crashes out in season 2 because her sister got a boyfriend and she genuinely thought that everything in her life was falling around her, and you deciding to ignore that for the sake of your ship is fucked up. I’m not infantilizing, the shit that you are mentioning about Mel is stuff that I have lived experience with. Unfortunately, I have seen kingdon shippers on tumblr who have said horrid things about other ships and have ableist rhetoric. I’m not “making things up”

Also, your statement regarding me having a distain with drug addiction is not true when I have family members who went through addiction, who funnily enough live in Pennsylvania where the show takes place. It’s hard enough to receive proper treatment, but Langdon has been proven to take medication out of vials for his SUD, which is a major violation of PA medical ethics laws.

Kingdon as a ship can be done right, but people like you who come and tell me to fuck off don’t make me like the ship more, and actually makes me hate it even more! Especially when you are the ableist by discounting my own experiences as an autistic non-binary person in a stem field!

you don’t have lived experience and can see the wrong things about this, I CAN

Just went for my second PT session and everything just… hurt

for context: i have been dealing with chronic nerve pain since 2019. I’ve had basically a years worth of PT with weekly sessions, and nothing has worked. I had doctors who pretty much disregarded my pain, only to not send a damn referral. I was always told it was my posture

that was wrong, why is the right side of my pelvis feels like it’s being ripped out of me every time i lay down? Why does my neck hurt all the time? Why does this all just hurt and it always comes back worse.

I have to go back to the ortho doctor who referred me to PT, and i hope he won’t harm me, but everything just sucks rn.

hope yall have a good time, I’ll just be sleeping off whatever this is

First off, thank you @its-venusite for bringing that post to my attention.

What Mental Health “advocates” don’t get is that the system is broken, and even when you get with every possible system you still face issues.

I was diagnosed with Autism at 2 years old, and immediately I was thrown into so many programs and government departments that were supposed to help me.

the thing is that they didn’t.

They didn’t protect me from physical abuse from my brother or my mom not giving a shit about my family, they didn’t protect me from the chronic discrimination and removal from me obtaining an education, and they certainly did not protect me from people removing my autonomy because I was “suicidal” or “not mentally stable”.

Right now, I am facing discrimination from a provider for my waiver through DODD because they keep going behind my back and talking to people who by law can’t make decisions on my case. I was forced by the State Of Ohio to enroll in their OhioRISE program, which btw they provided no support but I can’t leave because they want an excuse for some fucking reason?

If people truly cared, they would add more protections and give those who are neurodivergent/mad more rights. But apparently no we gotta bomb innocent children.

mad pride <3

Right now, I am undergoing the process of getting approved for Vulvoplasty (GCS Stuff) and I thought “Hey, why not state some advice on how to get this done right?”

For context: I was already approved for an Orchiectomy back in 2025. The process for approval for that surgery and something more intensive like Vulvoplasty is pretty much the same. I am basically approved for the surgery, with the only real barrier being my weight (which I can proudly say has been better!)

NOTE: I am from Ohio, USA, YMMV elsewhere

So, here is my experience with everything.