if you're going to shit on a ship, maybe don't put it in the tag?? the anti tag is there for a reason.
no kingdon shipper i've seen thinks mel's "only choice in life" is to date langdon. unless you're making shit up, which i'm pretty sure you are, please call those people out so we can block them.
and one last thing: your comment reeks of disdain for drug addicts. "the scar of addiction" so what, he's a burden for someone like mel who is too innocent and fragile to date someone like him? THAT'S not an ableist thing to say? she's a grown woman, a doctor, a caretaker, she's not a child. she has shown she can handle a change of plans. she's not YOU, not all autistic people are one and the same.
in the future, please, keep posting your anti-drug addict, ablelist, infantalizing bullshit, it's a free country and you're entitled to your judgmental shitty opinion, but keep it out of the ship tag.
You are assuming things that arenāt true, both with me or about kingdon as a whole.
firstly, I removed the ship tag, not because of your anger but because Iām nice and realized the bullshit that I did.
calling me, a diagnosed autistic person who has been in more psych wards than a single person has been in ableist reeks of a standard that fucking hurts. Mel fucking crashes out in season 2 because her sister got a boyfriend and she genuinely thought that everything in her life was falling around her, and you deciding to ignore that for the sake of your ship is fucked up. Iām not infantilizing, the shit that you are mentioning about Mel is stuff that I have lived experience with. Unfortunately, I have seen kingdon shippers on tumblr who have said horrid things about other ships and have ableist rhetoric. Iām not āmaking things upā
Also, your statement regarding me having a distain with drug addiction is not true when I have family members who went through addiction, who funnily enough live in Pennsylvania where the show takes place. Itās hard enough to receive proper treatment, but Langdon has been proven to take medication out of vials for his SUD, which is a major violation of PA medical ethics laws.
Kingdon as a ship can be done right, but people like you who come and tell me to fuck off donāt make me like the ship more, and actually makes me hate it even more! Especially when you are the ableist by discounting my own experiences as an autistic non-binary person in a stem field!
you donāt have lived experience and can see the wrong things about this, I CAN
P.S: if you are going to call me out at least spell ableist correctly at the end.