SAWA KA NA BA?

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freestyle na lang ako mabuhay these days if mabuhay pa next year edi go if hindi na edi ty

Unconditional love doesn’t mean unconditional tolerance. When you tolerate toxic behaviors, you teach people how to treat you. The opposite of self love is self sabotage. If you refuse to set boundaries out of people pleasing, you are attacking someone — you. A lot of people don’t wanna leave toxic relationships because they are afraid to be alone. But you forget that you have to be alone to know yourself better, to allow yourself to heal. If we choose not to get to know ourselves and refuse to heal, chances are we are gonna be toxic partners and pass the traumas and unending cycles of toxicity.

i want a soft connection. i want to be asked how my day went and if i need anything. i want forehead kisses. i want the back of my hand kissed at red lights. i want to be asked how i’m mentally feeling. i want to hold hands everywhere we go. i want romantic gestures. i want my hair played in at the most unexpected moments. i want silent eye connections that lead to smiles. i want to take random walks.

Unconditional love doesn’t mean unconditional tolerance. When you tolerate toxic behaviors, you teach people how to treat you. The opposite of self love is self sabotage. If you refuse to set boundaries out of people pleasing, you are attacking someone — you. A lot of people don’t wanna leave toxic relationships because they are afraid to be alone. But you forget that you have to be alone to know yourself better, to allow yourself to heal. If we choose not to get to know ourselves and refuse to heal, chances are we are gonna be toxic partners and pass the traumas and unending cycles of toxicity.

ok well im going to build a good future for myself whether i like it or not

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Your nervous system will naturally feel calm around people with pure intentions and authentic energy... trust it.

romanticizing your life is such a powerful tool and it’s a shame that it’s mostly used by people on tiktok to justify the purchase of expensive breakfast smoothies when there are few better ways to force oneself through unpleasant shit than imagining a cinematic backstory for your extremely quotidian suffering

When people make you feel unwanted, don't leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won't. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay. Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. What's meant to be will end up good and what's not - won't. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can't be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don't you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you and more than they deserve.

just wanna look good, focus on myself and mind my business this year. that’s all

U automatically lose my respect if u act diffrent to impress other ppl

big facts

would they do the same for u

Don't allow others to consume you. If they don't call, go to sleep. If they don't message you, put away your phone & have a good day. If they are distant and refuse to tell you what's wrong, go home and do something fun. You live for yourself first. They are secondary.

Reminder for todayyy!

i want someone to look at me & say damn that’s mine & just be so proud to have me

reblog to give somebody a fucking hug because we are all struggling to get through it. solidarity in this tough ass world.