Gigglepig FKA Babehog

"if someone confronts me about being a trans person in the wrong bathroom, i'll just expose myself to them" is an incredibly TME thing to say

I’d die on the hill that “stranger danger” is a deeply unhelpful mentality to have. “Ooooh everyone is out to get me they’re all gonna perpetrate harm that’s actually more likely to come from someone I already know. I better never talk to anyone in my community who I don’t already know, just to be safe. I’m sure there are no other biases interwoven with this mentality” like oh my god human traffickers do not just randomly spawn in every parking lot. You don’t have to go solo hitchhiking across the country but you also don’t have to live in fear that every guy on the street is the knife man who’s gonna get you. Like have situational awareness, yeah. But most of the time the guy on the street is not knife man he’s actually just a guy on the street and he’s probably pretty chill, and you’re driving yourself crazy by living in a constant state of unnecessary fear.

Like always safety comes first, especially if you’re in a marginalized group more likely to be targeted by random people around you. But that’s different from stranger danger. I might even say that stranger danger is something that contributes to marginalized groups getting targeted by random people. Which strangers do you find distrust worthy? Why? Does vague distrust justify harmful actions in the name of self defense? Stranger danger draws everyone away from more important issues of safety (underlying bigotries, systemic injustices, abuse in the home, etc) and towards an amorphous boogeyman that has no solution, because it’s not the real cause or culprit.

Drop the name of the drug

(violently jerking the steering wheel) my car swerves like crazy when i do this

Liking men is one of those kinks thats fine if its rp but really unsafe to attempt irl

no matter what's going on in a trans girl's life, you can make it better by tying her up for a couple of hours

what also works is biting and hitting her, too. whatever she's feeling, you can help her feel better by making her feel something else

the downside of making posts is that people respond to them

the rate of blocking is always inferior to the rate of tumblr's asshole production

Last night was a tubi original

i like it when people compliment me. i like it... when people like me. (looks around to make sure nobody is about to shoot me)