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In science, we have a saying. All models are wrong, but some are useful. That’s how I see the love languages framework. It is inherently flawed, but some of its concepts are useful. Communicate with your partner what makes you feel loved and understand what makes them feel loved. Understand how your partner shows love. There is immense value in that. But don’t over-index on which one of the five you are. That part doesn’t matter.

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I loved just how massive my double belly and moobs showed off in this archival pic from the fall of 2021 when I was in the 310 pound range. Just loads and loads of belly fat I was lugging around!

Once forgotten 1920’s erotic art by an anonymous Czech artist (or so the story goes), this and 32 other stunning watercolors were rediscovered and released in 1974 by an obscure London publishing house under the title “Kugelrunda“… they speak volumes about body positivity as the women featured clearly appear quite comfortable with their bodies and using them to bring pleasure to themselves and their partners.