Managing Tension in the Sales Process: Make It A Habit
What does it take build a sales team that can create and manage tension constructively in the sales process?
It starts with clear view of what effective sales negotiation and sales execution is all about.
Itâs NOT just about âchallengingâ the customer because you believe the days of ârelationship sellingâ are over. Customers buy for many reasons, some business oriented, but often based on personal relationship and personal need.
And itâs NOT just about looking for collaborative âwin-winâ outcomes rather than promoting a particular solution or point of view. This might lead to agreements that feel good to both partiesâŚbut risk âleaving money on the tableâ in the process.
BayGroup Internationalâs expertise in the area of managing tension in the selling and negotiation process has emerged from more than two decades of research and successful client engagements:
It started with our work helping transform the negotiation approaches of leading companies like Chevron, AT&T, HP, and UPS.
It was augmented by the development and deployment of our proprietary negotiation model for sales (and purchasing) organizations, with the idea of tension management at its foundation.
And it was enhanced by the 1989 launch of our Constructive Contention⢠program in partnership with the Stanford University team that âwrote the bookâ on the subject, Managing on the Edge: How the Smartest Companies Use Conflict to Stay Ahead.
What have we learned over the years about leveraging tension in the selling and negotiation process? Here are six lessons for sales leaders:
Every negotiation includes tension between collaborative relationship and competitive self-interest.
The management of tension is critical not just in final negotiations, but throughout the selling/buying process, often around early Pivotal Agreements, the âleading indicatorsâ of profitable selling.
It is also the source of creativity in negotiations, a key to reaching agreements that satisfy the real needs of both parties.
Those who manage this tension ineffectively fail to achieve the best possible negotiated outcomes, whether they are interacting with customers, suppliers, or colleagues.
The intuitive, habitual response of most negotiators when tension increases it to become too collaborativeâŚor too competitive. This leads to sub-optimal results.
The key competency for any negotiator is the ability to plan for, recognize, and manage the shifting tension in their negotiations, and use appropriate behavioral tools to increase tension when things get too collaborativeâŚor reduce it when things get too competitive.
Itâs harder than it looks. The best approaches to managing tension are counterintuitive for most negotiators. Awareness and knowledge are not enough. Building this competency requires highly experiential training that focuses not just on awareness and skillâŚbut on lasting habit change.