a warm light.

im begging people to pleaase consider hcing more characters as trans than just the skinny beanpole twinks Please….. not all trans men are like that…….. there are so man fat trans men, buff manly trans men, gnc trans men… etc… u can do so much more than just Twinks™… plus it gives more representation to underrepresented types of trans guys!!! that buff extremely testy guy character? hes trans babbey!!! that smiley fat character? hes ALSO trans, babbey!!!!!!! that guy character who wears his hair in pigtails or wears makeup? he, too, is trans!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the man with all the body hair? MEGA TRANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEYRE ALL TRANS!!!!!

I love planners, highlighters, giant calendars, nice ball point pens, to do lists, & anything else that gives me the illusion that I’m getting my life together

honestly some of y’all want a significant other so badly and can’t understand why you can’t find one, but have no sense of boundaries or healthy expectations of what a relationship is like. in a committed long-term partnership you get left on read, you wait for texts back, and you can forget about each other when you’re busy. sometimes you fall asleep without saying goodnight and sometimes you’re too caught up to text each other before 6pm. that’s how it is. thinking that you can’t be deeply, beautifully in love and still wait more than “1.75 hours” for a text back is such an unhealthy and unreasonable expectation of what love is, and you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t allow the other person to exist on their own apart from you. if you’re projecting your anxieties and insecurities onto a partner who doesn’t even exist yet, then you aren’t ready for one.