robin/margaret 𝄞

hello im robin (or margaret)

my main interests are opera (mostly lucia di lammermoor, carmen, salome and puccini), feminism, (vintage) shoujosei and yuri, media regarding incestuous abuse, revolutionary girl utena, oniisama e, twin peaks, DC comics, airliners, atla + tlok and much more that you can read about in my strawpage

i'm not really active on tumblr; i'm more of a twitter person (same @ as here) and tumblrites piss me off, but i do occasionally lurk or post here

BYF: please read my strawpage before you follow. i talk about sensitive content like sexual abuse, im a victim of incest so i talk about it a lot, as in spreading awareness, talking about its fictional potrayals and whatever my mind comes up with

DNF: basic stuff, people who are weird towards victims, people who misinterpret or fetishize incest and don't see it as a form of abuse, libfems, lolita 1955 fetishizers, porn industry defenders and pro kink people

(disclaimer: IDGAF about pro/antiship discourse)

mom: my daughter, i will tell you all about my problems, essentially treat you like me personal little therapist, then i will tell you how you and i are intertwined together and how you belong to me and how we will be together forever and how i don't need a man when i have you and have i mentioned that when you refuse to hug or kiss me i will either have a crashout or act like you killed me and as a cherry on top i don't even think that my behavior is different or bad, this is how mothers and daughters should act

she lives practically only with her father who groomed her to be a perfect obedient child solider—a smaller version of himself, the characteristics/signs of enmeshment and emotional incest are like bingo boards to the relationship between ozai and azula. when i rewatch atla i think i will make some sort of a thread about azula from the lense of emotional incestuous abuse.