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This blog is formally closed
Sorry it’s taken me so long to make this post. This blog has been highly inactive for a very long time, so I’m shutting it down. Figuratively. The actual blog will remain up. I’ll be closing the ask and submit boxes.
-Mimi
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I’m still not over how many of you just assumed I reblogged the ass gif to this blog on purpose
y’all are a trip sometimes
i got a bunch of messages about that gif ranging from things like “why the fuck did you reblog an ass gif to a blog about avpd?” to “hey friend i’m sure it was an accident but jsyk there’s a booty on the blog”
so uh basically thanks to everyone who was nice about it
-mimi
hey friend you probably didn't mean to post that gif to the avoidantcoyote blog? happens to the best of us :P
frick yeah sorry y’all i blog on my phone mostly and my thumb likes to hit the wrong blog a lot
I only feel suicidal when something bad happens, or when I'm feeling down. Do I need help?
Feeling suicidal in any situation is not good. I'd say it would be wise to seek help if you’re feeling suicidal.
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Can you be committed for suicidal thoughts? If not what would a therapist do if you told them you were having suicidal thoughts? (Also I'm 16, idk if it's different for minors or not)
It depends upon what you say. Stating that you’re experiencing suicidal thoughts in and of itself isn’t enough to get you committed. However, if you have a plan or are actively thinking of a plan, they have the grounds to commit you depending. If you have a plan, you will almost certainly be involuntarily committed. (speaking from personal experience) If you are thinking of ways passively but not seriously, they might not depending on your wording of things.
If you tell a therapist you’re suicidal, their first response will be to ask if you are thinking of acting on them. If it’s passive suicidal ideation (such as death would be nice, I’m sick of living, if I died right now in a bizarre accident i’d be down for that etc.) your therapist likely will not have grounds to do anything immediately other than work on coping skills, get you into a psychiatrist asap, and work on the immediate issues stressing you out to keep you stable,
Another comic about self harm, only a different kind than what most people associate with the term.
not sure how its handled in pharm tech anons current homeland, but would it be possible to apply for another tech job with the chemistry/medical/etc knowledge they already gathered? szpd is causing massive issues with any kind of social interactions for me (avpd being more of an addendum), but as a lab tech i got lucky and now spend 98% of my working hours alone in a small room at the bench. this is a biotech job, but i had the same experience at a med tech (microbiology) job before. (cont.)
(cont.) in the latter field it depends a lot more on the specific lab structures, though. theres also a good chance you sit in a room with 10 super stressed people all day long. (although certain jobs are usually done alone, such as dealing with the rarer illnesses that require separated facilities due to safety regulations. tbc samples for example afaik take a lot of time to work with, but dont really require more than one techs efforts in regular western med labs)
Thanks!
I'm doing my pharmacy tech externship at a hospital & I have to do 120 hrs & it's exhausting. I can't be around ppl this much. I thought that working in a hospital pharmacy would mean limited interaction w/ ppl but I was so wrong. Everyone is nice but its so obvious that I'm an idiot & I have no idea what I'm doing it & I know everyone is thinking it. Every day after my shifts I start crying. I've spent so much money on classes & shit & it feels like I waste bc I'll never be able to do this job
I guarantee you’re being way harder on yourself than need be. I really doubt anyone thinks poorly of you! But if the amount of interaction with people bothers you a whole lot, as it seems to, then maybe this isn’t the right job for you. But also... stick it out. Idk how long you’ve been there, try to let yourself get comfy. There’s an adjustment period with any job.
Thank you so much for making this blog. I only found out about AVPD recently when my therapist diagnosed me with it, and despite me trying to study up on it, I still don't completely understand what it entails. So I'm glad there's a place for me to learn more.
No problem! It's always comforting to have some resources so readily available.
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I have a wonderful friend whom I've known for about four months now, and it's getting to the point where I really need to tell them about my avpd, but I don't know how to start the conversation? I don't want to get all "we need to talk" and terrify them, but I have no idea how else to bring it up. Any tips for talking about avpd with loved ones? Many thanks <3
"Hey friend I have this mental illness called AvPD and I feel like we need to have a conversation about it so you know how it affects me and also our friendship"? Maybe. Just be honest and if they're a good friend they'll be understanding and sweet. If they get weird and shitty about it then they aren't for you after all. Which sucks. But it happens.
Hi, first of all, thank you for this blog. I'm positive I have AvPD and also I've been with depression for like 5 years now. Both are deeply conected, but I assume that the AvPD it's the main cause of the depression. And at the end, both of them are like a whole thing that I hardly can separate. So, my question is... what do you thing I should try to solve first? Maybe if I overcome depression I could get better about my AvPD? Idk where to start...
I mean depression can cause AvPD symptoms and vice versa so it might be kinda pointless to treat it as two separate things. But I'm not a professional so I recommend seeing someone if you can to try to sort it all out.
I took one of my dad's Xanax pills (with permission) before an interview today and I was like "this pill is Magic!!! I will have no anxiety and I will be totally calm and cool and charming" but then once I got there I realized that no, the pill is not Magic, it can lessen my anxiety but it can't make my shitty personality any better and it can't make people like me
Glad you realized psych meds aren't magic fix it beans. Getting better and learning to cope and function requires hard work.
Some stuff about comorbidity.
1. You can have multiple PD’s at a time.
2. You can have a PD with traits of another PD.
3. A lot of personality disorders share symptoms.
4. PD’s can develop as a “coping mechanism” for the other.
5. You can have multiple PD’s even if they contradict each other.
Example of 4 + 5: People with BPD experience emotions intensely, making it very difficult. So it’s possibly to develop SZPD, which is characterized by detachment and restricted emotions.
It’s important to keep #3 in mind. Since a lot of PD’s do share symptoms, you wanna make sure to research them both quite a bit! Here’s some links:
http://psychcentral.com/personality/
http://shitborderlinesdo.tumblr.com/post/114736826839/diagnostic-checklist-masterpost (scroll down to see PD’s)
you have probably been asked this before, but any job suggestions for ppl with AvPD? I'm an adult and I need to take care of myself but I just can't be around people on a daily basis. Half the time I'm around people I feel physical pain all through my neck and jaw and I just can't handle being in a setting with co-workers and customers and clients and all that. :/
Research careers where you’re in a lab all day, back room/stocking type jobs, semi truck driver, work-from-home jobs like sales or medical transcription. There’s a lot out there! I think most jobs are going to have some type of human interaction, but there’s a lot of jobs where it’s minimal.
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friendly reminder that people you ask for advice on here:
- are not perfect
- do not necessarily know what’s best for you
- are fallible human beings just like everyone and have made their fair share of shitty decisions
It’s really helpful to get opinions from people you admire on here but remember to trust yourself too okay? be safe <3 <3 <3
Hello, thanks so much for taking the time to read this! I was wandering, I've know I've had BPD for a while now (over a year) but I came across a post about AVPD which sounds like it fits me aswell, could you possibly explain the comorbility between them and what sort of symptoms would be evident from having both? Thank you so much, I love your blog :)
Here you go: http://shitborderlinesdo.tumblr.com/post/104660101904/is-bpd-similar-to-avpd-dpd
Hope this helps!-Kelsi
