we can consume media while also being considerate and aware of how we interact with said media. this is not an issue of not being able to separate reality from fiction, but rather how a person's actions defines how they view and treat sensitive topics and east/south east asian peoples. that being said, do not interact with me if you interact with nassy ( @/ angerify, wellfell, crue11, s4lesman, etc. ). as stated in my DNI (for months), for: .....ongoing romanticization of fictional sexual assaulters, abusers, and fetishization of asians, especially asian mlm. other trivial problematic behavior include involvement with krp, constant vaguing, and blog - watching.
as of aug 2025, i was notified that she'd added me to a dni. ok?
as of aug 26 2025 i have been sent two updates from others who have come across their dni that nassy has been changing periodically, including adding a second person she's managed to track down that has her on a dni ( redacted for privacy )
most recent change (aug 28, 2025):
we've interacted before, so that is a lie. you've went as far as to follow, block my blog, and vague ( all in one day ) in june 2024 because i refused to follow back and wanted nothing to do with you. "for some reason" - say the reason. it's listed. we don't dictate what you should and shouldn't write, we have a problem with your treatment of east and south east asian people. the 9230482309482 screenshots and testimonials aren't lies. your active blog is proof enough. "because they dont get their way" ? what does that even mean? grow up, nassy. if you have this many people coming forward about having issues with you, maybe take some accountability instead of lying.
nassy is on multiple DNIs, to my awareness. she's quite well known in the rpc for being problematic in various aspects, most notably with her portrayals of asian muses and how she handles "dark" content.
we were mutuals back on my vincenzo blog in 2022. we've written and chatted and were mutuals on discord before i removed her in 2024 after realizing we were still mutuals. we were even in a kinnporsche server together that i eventually left due to the server being rife with asian and mlm fetishization, including the romanticization of sexual assault / r.ape / dub.con. i softblocked shortly after and never interacted with them again. i took a break from rp and returned on a male oc blog june 2024, who was also east-asian, and she followed, then promptly unfollowed and blocked within the same day when i didn't follow back. she then proceeded to vague about people not liking fun or taking things too seriously that same day.
nassy writes canonical sexual assaulters and attempted rapists (and arguably, actual rapists given pattern of behavior from these characters). from vega (kinnporsche), to gangjae (my name), to niragi (alice in borderland). these are just the muses i'm familiar with and aware of. ** important: writing these muses aren't necessarily the problem. it's the fact that she glorifies and romanticizes them and never acknowledges these behaviors.
nassy near-exclusively only interacts with east and southeast asian media, specifically if they feature a prominent male cast. she only cares about shipping and romanticizing whatever issues these characters have. ( to clarify, liking to ship isn't the problem. prioritizing shipping and ignoring the depth of characters' issues is the problem, esp considering that many of them tend to be r/pists, misogynistic, and just downright foul ).
liking "dark" media or content also isn't a problem, again, it's all about how someone interacts with it. it is evident with nassy that she only likes the aesthetic of dark content and will sexualize it. with these characters, she's tried to force "fluff" and more light-hearted ship / sexual dynamics with another half of a ship that was sexually assaulted ( and r/aped ) by her character in the show (per a mutual what's dealt with this with her personally). no interest in dissecting the toxicity of her character.
nassy is not east nor south east asian. she has stated a few times that she's west asian and that it's "the same thing" as what east/southeast asians experience. it is not. these are two very different experiences. we could relate to being "othered" and stereotyped in the west, but that is the extent of it.
nassy writes in krp and with other krp blogs. you can "i am not krp!!!!!" all you want but it's krp.
more "trivially", nassy has a stalking issue. she has kept an eye on a mutual of mine who created a blog for the same muse and went as far as to change her rules to mock what my mutual has written in theirs to "contradict" it. she has stalked many mutuals ( and non-mutuals ) that have approached me with their own experiences with her.
i don't keep track of what nassy does other than what i've seen from when we were mutuals and what is sent to me by others later on. i didn't think to take screenshots back in 2022, but a quick look at her blog is telling enough of the type of person she is and if that isn't proof enough, you're also part of the problem.
here's some of the screenshots i've managed to track down from asks i've received, statements from others, etc. it's not extensive. i've censored names and specifics since it's not my story to tell. none of the below are my messages but screenshots from people who have approached me. unfortunately, i never took screenshots of her posts from other blogs ( some now deleted ), nor did i think i would need to since her behavior is obvious as is. every message has come from a different person, btw. for scope of just how many people dealt with her bs.
this was only a couple months ago:
"very weird oc" u mean one that would play out r/ape fantasies? which, again, i acknowledge is something two consenting adults can agree to irl but within rp ... and given the patterns long displayed by nassy. be serious.
and one of the older posts i could find regarding her being west asian while talking about the experiences of east asians, but not the one i was referencing in one of my earlier points.
asians aren't a monolith, and the lived experience of west asians vs east asians are incredibly different, including the portrayal in western media, and reception in the west overall. they are not the same. also funny considering nassy stereotypes and sexualizes her own asian muses but i digress.
