Anyways to follow up on a post I made a while ago, I've been a trans woman for about a decade now and I haven't played Fallout: New Vegas or own the programmer socks and I don't have a Blahaj. I do have a whale shark plushie but that's because whale sharks are really cool. I've never bought a Bionacle. I do play card games. That's on me I suppose, but I started that before I was trans so I never really saw that as anything other than a funny quirk.
I've never been made to feel lesser as a trans woman for having not had any of those experiences. Meanwhile there's like a million different artists and movies and TV shows you're just kind of expected to be into if you're queer and people will give you weird looks if you don't show interest or don't like them. (By far the weirdest of these is Hocus Pocus). I think if you want to make a point about consumerism in the queer community, you gotta start from the fact that queer community is pretty consumerist. If you're starting from trans women in particular I'm just going to think you're being a prick.
I do think there is a lot of credence to the centering of white imperial core voices when it comes to what is considered "trans culture", but again, that's less of an issue with trans women specifically and more of an issue with like...the internet at large. I'm not really lumping those criticisms in with the above because they're ultimately pretty valid. We gotta be a lot more accepting of the cultural experiences of trans women outside of the imperial core (hell, even just cultural experiences of trans women in the US tbh).












