positive north node aspects can be indicative of a very soulful connection because nn aspects can show two people helping each other down the same spiritual path. negative nn aspects can suggest karmic relationships where there is some excess baggage or unresolved issues that need attention
north node conjuncting the vertex can be a very positive indicator of marriage, or at least longterm connection
experiencing sudden romantic flings can be explained by jupiter or mars aspects, particularly positive aspects, but the dynamic going forward can be explained by saturn and mercury aspects
looking at planet rulers on the descendent can indicate an overall energy within the relationship. for example: a 7h gemini and a 7h capricorn = mercury/saturn conjunction.... this can imply a very level-headed dynamic that is very responsible and serious
orbs and asteroids can certainly help explain a specific relationship dynamic, but should only be used with tight degrees, anything ranging from 0 to 10ΒΊ
pluto aspects to the ascendent can suggest a very intense and sexual attraction... double points if the ascendent is ruled by pluto or mars. sometimes negative pluto aspects can imply a very intense or sexual crush that feels restrictive or a bit stalker-ish from the pluto person, whilst positive aspects definitely imply a very strong physical and sexual attraction between both the ascendent person and pluto person
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The Difference Between Longing and Love- Venus Through the Houses
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Venus in the 1st House
Longing sits right beneath your skin. It flinches when someone looks at you, leans forward when attention brushes past, sharpens when you feel yourself reflected. Desire here needs contact to feel alive, a reaction, a spark, a mirror. You shape yourself instinctively, like water taking the form of the glass itβs poured into. Love arrives differently. It doesnβt rush toward the surface. It settles into the body when you stop adjusting your outline, when you let yourself stand there uncorrected. Longing keeps checking whether youβre being seen. Love happens the moment you forget to look.
Venus in the 2nd House
Longing reaches for weight and texture. It wants to feel something solid in its hands, a promise that doesnβt flicker, a touch that lingers, a pleasure that doesnβt disappear when you relax into it. Desire here mistrusts what canβt be held. It hoards reassurance the way the body hoards warmth. Love moves more slowly. It doesnβt announce itself, it accumulates, like soil forming under your feet. You donβt grip it, you lean into it. Longing keeps asking if it will stay. Love proves itself by remaining long enough for your muscles to unclench.
Venus in the 3rd House
Longing lives in motion, in words, glances, shared jokes, the spark of being understood mid-sentence. Desire feeds on exchange, on rhythm, on the electricity of minds touching briefly and moving on. When the conversation slows, longing starts to pace. Love doesnβt need the current to keep running. It sits with you when the room goes quiet, when nothing clever needs to be said. Longing mistakes stimulation for connection. Love stays when the dialogue dissolves and something quieter takes its place.
Venus in the 4th House
Longing feels like homesickness for a place you canβt quite locate. It reaches backward, toward a warmth you keep trying to recreate, the right mood, the right softness, the right feeling of being held by life. Desire here is tender, but itβs always searching. Love doesnβt search. It closes the door and turns off the light. It feels like falling asleep without listening for footsteps, like resting without bracing for change. Longing wants to rebuild the past. Love lets you live inside the present.
Venus in the 5th House
Longing here feels like a mouth full of sugar and no water. Everything is bright, fast, addictive. The heart runs ahead of itself like a child chasing light across a wall, convinced the glow will stay if it moves fast enough. Love is what happens when the light stops moving and nothing collapses. When the room doesnβt need cheering. When joy doesnβt need witnesses. Itβs heavier than longing, slower, almost disappointing at firs, because it doesnβt spike. Longing wants the room to clap. Love stays when the stage is empty and the lights are off.
Venus in the 6th House
Longing feels like living inside a clock. Every tick asks something of you. Every hour needs tending. Love is measured in minutes given, in screws tightened, in cracks sealed before they spread. Desire believes that if you keep the machine running smoothly enough, it wonβt discard you. Love does not live inside the clock. It sits on the floor beside it, back against the wall, letting the seconds fall where they may. It doesnβt reward effort. It doesnβt speed up when you do. Longing keeps time. Love lets it pass.
Venus in the 7th House
Longing feels like standing in front of a mirror that corrects you.
Every time you move, it adjusts the angle. A little less here. A little more there. You learn how to tilt yourself into something agreeable, something recognisable, something that fits the reflection back. Love breaks the mirror. It lets two bodies stand side by side without asking either to line up. It doesnβt need symmetry to stay intact. Longing wants a perfect reflection. Love wants a second presence.
Venus in the 8th House
Longing feels like a locked basement with the light already on. You can see the depth from the top of the stairs. You can feel the pull of it. Desire tells you that love lives down there in the dark, in the pressure, in the place where nothing survives unchanged. Love goes down the stairs with you and leaves the door open. It doesnβt seal you inside the dark. It doesnβt ask you to disappear into it. Longing wants the room to swallow you. Love wants you to come back up.
Venus in the 9th House
Longing feels like standing at an airport gate that never closes.
You fall in love with departures, with destinations imagined, with the promise that something better waits elsewhere. Desire keeps its bags packed, convinced meaning lives just past the horizon. Love misses the flight, and nothing terrible happens. It learns the streets of the city you stayed in. It finds meaning in repetition, not escape. Longing lives in the terminal. Love lives where you landed by accident.
Venus in the 10th House
Longing feels like living in a glass tower. Everything you do is visible from the street below. You learn how to arrange your posture so it reads correctly from a distance, how to move in ways that wonβt be misinterpreted. Desire mistakes elevation for safety, if youβre high enough, admired enough, undeniable enough, then love wonβt disappear. Love does not live in the tower. It lives somewhere lower, where the windows are smaller and no one is watching the door. It doesnβt care how impressive the view is. It cares whether you can sit down without holding your breath. Longing wants to be unassailable. Love wants to be sheltered.
Venus in the 11th House
Longing feels like standing in a wide field at night, surrounded by distant lights. So many signals, so many possibilities. Youβre close enough to feel part of something larger, but never close enough to touch any one source. Desire believes love lives in shared vision, in common dreams, common language, the sense of moving toward the same future. But the field is vast, and the lights donβt warm you. Love doesnβt try to light the whole horizon. It walks you toward one fire and sits down beside it. It doesnβt promise alignment with everything. It promises closeness with something real, heat you can feel on your hands, even if the rest of the field stays dark. Longing wants to belong to the vision. Love stays with what can stay with you.
Venus in the 12th House
Longing feels like water without a container. It spreads, it seeps, it fills whatever shape itβs given and then keeps going. Desire confuses boundlessness with devotion, believes that love should dissolve you, soften you, erase the line between where you end and something else begins. Love builds a shoreline to give water a place to touch. It asks for edges, for form, for the courage to remain someone while loving something deeply. Longing disappears into the ocean. Love learns how to swim and come back to land.
The Difference Between Longing and Love- Venus Through the Houses
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Venus in the 1st House
Longing sits right beneath your skin. It flinches when someone looks at you, leans forward when attention brushes past, sharpens when you feel yourself reflected. Desire here needs contact to feel alive, a reaction, a spark, a mirror. You shape yourself instinctively, like water taking the form of the glass itβs poured into. Love arrives differently. It doesnβt rush toward the surface. It settles into the body when you stop adjusting your outline, when you let yourself stand there uncorrected. Longing keeps checking whether youβre being seen. Love happens the moment you forget to look.
Venus in the 2nd House
Longing reaches for weight and texture. It wants to feel something solid in its hands, a promise that doesnβt flicker, a touch that lingers, a pleasure that doesnβt disappear when you relax into it. Desire here mistrusts what canβt be held. It hoards reassurance the way the body hoards warmth. Love moves more slowly. It doesnβt announce itself, it accumulates, like soil forming under your feet. You donβt grip it, you lean into it. Longing keeps asking if it will stay. Love proves itself by remaining long enough for your muscles to unclench.
Venus in the 3rd House
Longing lives in motion, in words, glances, shared jokes, the spark of being understood mid-sentence. Desire feeds on exchange, on rhythm, on the electricity of minds touching briefly and moving on. When the conversation slows, longing starts to pace. Love doesnβt need the current to keep running. It sits with you when the room goes quiet, when nothing clever needs to be said. Longing mistakes stimulation for connection. Love stays when the dialogue dissolves and something quieter takes its place.
Venus in the 4th House
Longing feels like homesickness for a place you canβt quite locate. It reaches backward, toward a warmth you keep trying to recreate, the right mood, the right softness, the right feeling of being held by life. Desire here is tender, but itβs always searching. Love doesnβt search. It closes the door and turns off the light. It feels like falling asleep without listening for footsteps, like resting without bracing for change. Longing wants to rebuild the past. Love lets you live inside the present.
Venus in the 5th House
Longing here feels like a mouth full of sugar and no water. Everything is bright, fast, addictive. The heart runs ahead of itself like a child chasing light across a wall, convinced the glow will stay if it moves fast enough. Love is what happens when the light stops moving and nothing collapses. When the room doesnβt need cheering. When joy doesnβt need witnesses. Itβs heavier than longing, slower, almost disappointing at firs, because it doesnβt spike. Longing wants the room to clap. Love stays when the stage is empty and the lights are off.
Venus in the 6th House
Longing feels like living inside a clock. Every tick asks something of you. Every hour needs tending. Love is measured in minutes given, in screws tightened, in cracks sealed before they spread. Desire believes that if you keep the machine running smoothly enough, it wonβt discard you. Love does not live inside the clock. It sits on the floor beside it, back against the wall, letting the seconds fall where they may. It doesnβt reward effort. It doesnβt speed up when you do. Longing keeps time. Love lets it pass.
Venus in the 7th House
Longing feels like standing in front of a mirror that corrects you.
Every time you move, it adjusts the angle. A little less here. A little more there. You learn how to tilt yourself into something agreeable, something recognisable, something that fits the reflection back. Love breaks the mirror. It lets two bodies stand side by side without asking either to line up. It doesnβt need symmetry to stay intact. Longing wants a perfect reflection. Love wants a second presence.
Venus in the 8th House
Longing feels like a locked basement with the light already on. You can see the depth from the top of the stairs. You can feel the pull of it. Desire tells you that love lives down there in the dark, in the pressure, in the place where nothing survives unchanged. Love goes down the stairs with you and leaves the door open. It doesnβt seal you inside the dark. It doesnβt ask you to disappear into it. Longing wants the room to swallow you. Love wants you to come back up.
Venus in the 9th House
Longing feels like standing at an airport gate that never closes.
You fall in love with departures, with destinations imagined, with the promise that something better waits elsewhere. Desire keeps its bags packed, convinced meaning lives just past the horizon. Love misses the flight, and nothing terrible happens. It learns the streets of the city you stayed in. It finds meaning in repetition, not escape. Longing lives in the terminal. Love lives where you landed by accident.
Venus in the 10th House
Longing feels like living in a glass tower. Everything you do is visible from the street below. You learn how to arrange your posture so it reads correctly from a distance, how to move in ways that wonβt be misinterpreted. Desire mistakes elevation for safety, if youβre high enough, admired enough, undeniable enough, then love wonβt disappear. Love does not live in the tower. It lives somewhere lower, where the windows are smaller and no one is watching the door. It doesnβt care how impressive the view is. It cares whether you can sit down without holding your breath. Longing wants to be unassailable. Love wants to be sheltered.
Venus in the 11th House
Longing feels like standing in a wide field at night, surrounded by distant lights. So many signals, so many possibilities. Youβre close enough to feel part of something larger, but never close enough to touch any one source. Desire believes love lives in shared vision, in common dreams, common language, the sense of moving toward the same future. But the field is vast, and the lights donβt warm you. Love doesnβt try to light the whole horizon. It walks you toward one fire and sits down beside it. It doesnβt promise alignment with everything. It promises closeness with something real, heat you can feel on your hands, even if the rest of the field stays dark. Longing wants to belong to the vision. Love stays with what can stay with you.
Venus in the 12th House
Longing feels like water without a container. It spreads, it seeps, it fills whatever shape itβs given and then keeps going. Desire confuses boundlessness with devotion, believes that love should dissolve you, soften you, erase the line between where you end and something else begins. Love builds a shoreline to give water a place to touch. It asks for edges, for form, for the courage to remain someone while loving something deeply. Longing disappears into the ocean. Love learns how to swim and come back to land.
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here we go :)
1.Taurus placements really like food, cooking. I mean, we all do, but its a little extra with them.
2.Taurus moons really have a soothing presence and voice, however, they may come as highly opinionated sometimes. They are usually very kind and polite while talking and may like things like art, music, poetry or, reading/ enjoying such things and actively talking about it.
3. 8th house is temporary death while 12th house is what happens after death, that is why it is the last house. Example, 12th house Capricorns may come back to give/receive karma, 12th house Scorpios may learn and complete the soul lessons or karmic contracts.
4. As much as capricorn risings natives like structure and order, they sometimes secretly wanna run away from all and everything, may even struggle with maldaptive daydreaming. I wonder if it has something to do with the Sag 12th house.
5. The birth of a capricorn sun/rising/stellium child can be karmic. In the sense that, they are here to dispose karma to other people, while learn their own. Maybe because the ruler is Saturn. One of the things that can follow is a change/shift in the circumstances of the family.
6. This makes me think, 12th house indeed can show our hidden thoughts or desires. People with Sag risings have scorpio in 12th house, and this can secretly make them want to have some kind of command, control and authority.
7. Speaking of NN in solar return, I read someone reblogging my post saying they believe NN can also represent the lessons you learn and grow from, I instead believe its more of a karmic/soul lesson/fated thing, that rather tranforms/grows your soul and you may go through a huge shift in your perspective and some life-changing experiences concerning that area of life. Something that we are moving into, and will affect us from that point onwards, like a new theme unlocking.
Chiron, on the other hand, is different. No one wonder chiron is actually call the wounded healer, something that hurts and then heals.
example, nn in 1st house can mean you will go through major themes and experiences that will make you focus more on yourself and finding your identity and purpose and this should affect your further years. more of a spiritual growth
chiron in the 1st house can instead mean you will go through experiences that will make you question yourself, some kind of identity crisis, that will further lead to you believing and finding your true self. more of a personal growth.
i hope i made sense. moreover, astrology interpretations are very personal :) and you dont have to agree with anything i said if it doesnt feel right.
8. libra moon imo is one of the best moon placement to have. they are able to present their emotions pretty nicely and in order and that makes sense somehow. This is also a placement for a hopeless romantic tho lmao.
9. Libra MC people may always look confused. Somehow even struggling to chose between a pastry and a cake lmao.
10. I think women with Virgo+ Scorpio placements are the ones that can make the best lie detectors/detectives/real baddies. They may also enjoy dark psychology/ true crime stories/thriller.
11. Men with Venus in Saggitarius may like spiritual/religious women.
12. I think people with Venus-Asc aspects may always/eventually find beauty and confidence in their appearance and themselves, and that is very amazing imo.
13. Women with Pluto-Asc aspects may like dominance in some shape or form and may have a really good self control and hold of themselves.
14. People who have Uranus Retrogade in their chart may somehow struggle with breaking electrical appliances/gadgets often? Like it will just break somehow?
15. Having asteroid industria at 28 degrees can show you have a potential to earn huge money through your career.
16. Wherever Jupiter lies in your chart, is where you can expect divine protection. Jupiter in 10th house? Protection from people with malicious intents/a bad public image. Jupiter in 6th house? Protection from accidents and diseases. Jupiter in 12th house? protection from hidden enemies/backstabbing. Jupiter in 11th house? Protection from fake friends/people.
17. I have often seen people say you should marry your 7th house sign but i would disagree again. The 7th house/DC is more about the qualities we admire in other people, and what do we look for while forming ANY relationship with others and this does not always have to mean that you would get along with them romantically.
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your ascendent/descendent makes 2 of the 4 important cusps of your birth chart, with the ascendent being the first cusp in your birth chart and the descendent being the third. the two cusps lay horizontally within the day (1-6) and night (7-12) time halves of the chart.
the ascendent, in some interpretations, is the impression or false personality you give off to others. in other interpretations it's the real you, or the personality you aim to embody within this lifetime. the ascendent is the most relevant point of your chart in determining your overall chart energy (found through your chart ruler, or the planet of the ascendent's sign); the overall chart energy can further describe your perception towards life, the self, and most importantly, your attitude towards internal change/transformation and what values you hold that guide you throughout your life.
the ascendent is also a critical element in your identity: how you build it and how you further develop it as life goes on.
where the descendent concerns itself with its relationships with others, the ascendent is a personalised and internalised placement, focusing on the innermost internal processes, or the relationship you have with yourself.
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aries ascendent (libra descendent) β
aries is ruled by mars, so having an aries ascendent means your chart ruler is mars; therefore the energy of mars is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of mars is associated with competition, aggression, ambition, drive, and sex or lust.
those with an aries ascendent may have a head-on attitude in life where they prioritise risk and change rather than introspection or observation. there's a real go-getter attitude here that rarely sits around and waits. natives with this placement may come off as intense or abrasive to others, even if they feel very shy or introverted themselves. if you have this placement, you may have a very strong approach to life; you have a strong urgency to do and accomplish things. there's a real fire in your belly for going after something that not only pertains to your identity but also your intuitive impulses. the energy of mars is a highly disruptive and fiery sign, usually leading itself with the help of its intuition rather than logic or strategy. the energy of mars is unafraid of competing with others to achieve a desired result and, in fact, with the presence of a strong mars in a chart, it is actually encouraged to take more chances than to avoid them.
in negative interpretations the energy of aries or mars are seen as frustrated or temperamental people with little patience or compassion for others. this may be only partly true, as there's indeed an impatience when it comes to the feelings of wanting to do or achieve something new. the concept of impatience or callousness comes from the straightforward, impulsive, and efficient energy of mars being misinterpreted as something disruptive or angry. whilst it's true there may be temperamental problems present, it is not always the case those with this placement have no patience whatsoever. the strong leadership quality with this mars placement is self-reliant and independently guided, meaning there is little to no reliance on others.
the energy of mars and aries are associated with ego, purpose, and identity, as the first house becomes ruled by aries and mars; the first house is the house of self: identity, accomplishments, self-actualisation, and purpose. there's a real thirst and drive to building and understanding the self on a deeply innate level. there's a real drive to utilise all talents, skills, or knowledge to become the best self. there's a strong need for an ego or purpose, too; fire signs are ego and purpose oriented, meaning how they go through life is through following their intuition to achieve the desired level for self-actualisation. furthermore, the need for a purpose further intensifies the reason for doing things, as without a purpose, there is an empty or faithless feeling that manifests through burn out, ignorance, and loss of identity or the self. if an aries ascendent refuses to listen to their intuition and their inner motivations, they become misdirected, purposeless, and have no sense of ego, self, or an identity to relate to, therefore becoming nobody at all.
if our ascendent is who we truly aspire to be, then having an aries ascendent means aspiring to be somebody confident, independent, self-reliant, and truly nomadic. there's a strong leadership quality here, and a powerful drive to use it in achieving personal desires. if this placement is found in a chart that suggests a more introverted or shy personality, it could suggest an internal impulse to become fiercely independent and alone; it could also suggest wanting to own themselves rather than becoming subject to the opinion or existence of others.
if you have this placement, you may feel you do not want to compromise with others as it diminishes your sense of self or confidence. there may be a real selfish quality here, and in placement where this is negatively aspected, can create somebody truly temperamental and non-compromising. if positively aspected, can suggest somebody knows themselves really well; they understand themselves inside and out, and guide themselves through life through their intuition and big dreams.
taurus ascendent (scorpio descendent) β
taurus is ruled by venus, so having a taurus ascendent means your chart is ruled by venus; therefore the energy of venus is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of venus is associated with peace and harmony, balance, luxury, values, self-worth, and sexuality.
those with a taurus ascendent may have a very methodical or nonchalant attitude to life where they prioritise harmony and consistency over risk or drastic change. the general energy here is stability and luxury; luxury in routine, values, self-worth, as well as material luxuries such as nice clothing, food, or other possessions. the sign of taurus is usually depicted as a very slow moving and patient sign with little interest in rebellion, change, or inefficiency. it's why the sign of taurus is usually also depicted as a very intuitive and sensational sign, focusing on the physical matters rather than the psychic or spiritual. having a venus ascendent means there's a focus on how to establish harmony and peace in your life, and you may be very concerned with the presence or existence of others alongside your own. there's a real interpersonal talent here where you get along with others and seek for comfort and validation from others, too.
the basic impulse of a taurus ascendent is to become ambitious and financially or materially successful. generally, a taurus ascendent cannot feel whole or happy until they can wrap themselves with the physical proof of their material success. routine and security are important, and these natives do not enjoy stepping out of their comfort zone. if you have a taurus ascendent, you may feel very rigid or stubborn in your way, and understanding yourself often feels difficult because of your fixed ways and fixed perceptions on your identity and values. negatively aspected venus or taurus can suggest being overly greedy or consumptive, and if this is present in the ascendent, can definitely suggest somebody lacks knowledge on who they are or what they want; they lack the concrete and most fundamental values of their identity, and thus seem to compensate this lack with material things.
whilst this chart ruler promises a more harmonious and open approach to things, it can oftentimes prove to be a highly volatile placement. venus is one of the weaker signs in this house, because the first house is the house of aries, and venus experiences its detriment in aries or the first house. issues arise when there is too much focus on the external, particularly in relationships, where the self is neglected and attention is put on the existence of others. other people seem to be the source of validation rather than the self's own values and integrity. having this ascendent may mean you find yourself prioritising your values or inner worth more than you think you should. there's a constant feeling that yearns for security and safety, and if the inner self lacks confidence or security in the self, you may literally sell yourself for security because of your agonising anxiousness that convinces you you're better with materials or money or you'll lose all control in your life otherwise.
generally, there's a very patient and strategic energy with this placement, and things are not taken in very easily. you may be quite reserved or open to communication and engagement with others but it may take a while for you to become emotionally vulnerable or available. self-reliant and self-sufficient, you know how to provide for yourself and make yourself happy. the general personality here is cool and easygoing, only angry when truly pushed.
positive aspects to this placement can be a good relationship with society, or wanting a high societal standing, discipline, and a strong work ethic. can also suggest being very in touch with the self; identity, values, integrity. negative aspected can suggest laziness or over-indulgence. can also suggest stinginess or greediness.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody in this lifetime, having taurus ascendant may mean you want to approach life in a methodical and strategic way. there's a strong standard you hold yourself to, especially when it comes to relationships with others. in general, there's a need to establish a more dignified and respected self here. confidence and optimism in your worth and capabilities are crucial. you may also have a financial or material perspective on life. lastly, you may want to enjoy life on a materialistic or sensual level, experiencing life to the best of its ability or quality.
if you have taurus ascendent, you may feel as though patience and growth are your key virtues, as you recognise the value of waiting and building your dream life and person. you wish to establish security and safety in your life, which is why you feel hesitant towards rapid change or transformation. there needs to be a more spiritual element to you, too, to truly harness how your emotions and intuition may play a role in your successes.
gemini ascendent (sagittarius descendent) β
gemini is ruled by mercury, so having a gemini ascendent means your chart is ruled by mercury; therefore the energy is mercury is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of mercury is associated with communication, logic, knowledge, and friendship.
questioning everything and everyone is natural to this placement, and these natives are equally adept at questioning themselves, therefore natives with this placement have a high degree of self-awareness and understanding. there's a strongly independent streak in this person: physical independence, yes, but more so a mental and intellectual independence, where the thought processes, opinions, beliefs, they have are their own. so, there needs to be a solid level of mental and intellectual autonomy to feel truly fulfilled, happy, and to have a stronger sense of identity and the self.
the purpose of life and existing is to learn and converse, whether it be through engaging with others or through traveling. there's certainly a need to broaden the mind and to learn, and much of this learning will be through other people. it may be common then, to attract people who not only broaden the mind for more spiritual or faithful themes or topics but also topics surrounding the meaning of life, much of what the sign of gemini does not concern itself with, as the sign of gemini looks more towards general truth and mental stimulation, rather than the deeper meaning of life.
there may be two types of gemini ascendents you may relate to. one is the chatty and bubble gemini ascendent that looks for the company of others. you may engage and interact with others to learn how others function, live, their beliefs, opinions, and so on. mental stimulation is a crucial thing here, as this placement is very intellect and mental oriented, rather than physical, competitive, or whatever. so, there may be a possibility of nervousness here if you feel too restless or feel as though your mind is lacking the stimulation or activity it needs. boredom can manifest as a result of not engaging with others or following through more creative or spontaneous opportunities that allow you to feel alive and more purposeful in life.
the other type is the intellectual and calm type; the one who does not speak or show much, but is deeply philosophical. if you are this type, you may project a cool demeanour towards others; less changeable or less cheerful, though equally curious and interested in the finer details of things.
the planet of mercury is concerned with communication, logic, and travel, as well as neighbours and siblings, so you may find yourself experiencing early childhood where you lack mental or intellectual autonomy and have only begun developing it later in life. in the context of siblings or neighbours, you may be pulled to having many relationships with others, or a large network that allows you to express yourself. freedom of speech and communication is important to you.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody in this lifetime, you may, as a gemini ascendent, look at life as a game to learn and grow mentally and intellectually. concerned with skills, intelligence, and what you can learn, you approach things coolly and openly, open for discussion or debate. there's an open energy to learning new things or pursuing new opportunities for the sake of growing and knowing more about the self. being an aware and analytical sign can help when turning inward to assess the more intricate qualities to your nature, becoming aware of your weaker and stronger qualities.
if you have a gemini ascendent, then you may find yourself wanting to build your identity through other people or through internal analysis. whilst emotional matters may not be important to you, you rather prioritise the condition of your mental wellbeing, and your intellectual integrity.
cancer ascendent (capricorn descendent) β
cancer is ruled by the moon, so having a cancer ascendent means your chart is ruled by the moon; therefore the energy of the moon is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of the moon is associated with emotional vulnerability, the psyche, karmic debts, maternity, or childhood.
the stereotypical interpretive keywords for the cancer ascendent is compassion, devotion, family, intuition, children, women, and femininity. this placement is a highly introspective placement, focusing on the internal emotional processes rather than the logical mind or the physical body. if you have this placement, you may feel things are experienced on a psychic/intuitive level and most of the experiences you grow through cause an emotional stirrup from deep within you. there's a fierce tendency to protect what's valued and loved, so maybe you feel very protective over your friends and family or over your own self. to maintain emotional autonomy is crucial here, as it's easy for you to become codependent or reliant on others for emotional satisfaction if you lack a concrete understanding of your own self. if you lack an emotional identity to relate to, you may compensate this lack by looking for satisfaction or security in places you should not be looking.
in general, you follow life on an intuitive or psychic level, regularly experiencing gut feelings for whatever may be happening around you. this can be seen in the working world as this sign can be ferociously ambitious for societal authority or responsibility. it's common to see cancer signs becoming prominent leaders through the use of their empathy and compassion. along with their empathy to others, being protective and considerate for the needs of others only improves their reputation for being worthy leaders. it may also be the case they are ambitious for their partners.
working with women or children may be an interesting observation here, or at least engaging with them or experiencing important lessons through women or children. these experiences enable you to connect with your intuitive and emotional self and to learn and grow through emotional vulnerability and emotional merging.
whilst there is a strong need to understand the self through psychic and emotional growth and development, it's important for the cancer ascendent to develop a home they may retreat to βΒ literally or figuratively. without this fundamental thing in your life, you may be prone to moodiness if you do not feel some sort of (emotional) safety or security.
this placement can be very emotionally susceptible to others, and the presence of other planets may make this placement more suspicious or insecure. this is already an overly emotional placement but if other planets sit here, saturn for example, or maybe chiron, then there may be great difficulty in accessing the emotional self due to fear of vulnerability or change. it's funny because emotional vulnerability is the crucial element of this sign yet in some aspects it can cause the native to shut down their emotions altogether.
if our ascendent is who we truly wish to be, having a cancer ascendent can suggest wanting to understand the self (identity, ego) on an emotional and psychic level. the need to build a small, loving, and devotional community is an extension of the loving and empathetic capabilities of the sign of cancer. your purpose comes from the need to serve and protect others, too. acknowledging the self and the self's underlying emotional, spiritual, or psychic issues or compulsions are necessary to clean out the poor or weak qualities of the self to prevent moodiness or shifts in energy.
if you have cancer as your ascendent, you may feel inclined to live a more introspective and quiet lifestyle. you keep to yourself and most importantly you recognise the value in keeping your personal life and goals private from others.
leo ascendent (aquarius descendent) β
leo is ruled by the sun, so having a leo ascendent means your chart is ruled by the sun; therefore the energy of the sun is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of the sun is associated with self-expression, ego, purpose, drive, ambition, success, and self-actualisation.
the sign of leo is notoriously interpreted as a confident, self-loving, egotistical, and self-absorbed sign. it may be safe to assume having a leo ascendent means having an outlook or perspective on life surrounding the themes of becoming confident and the most expressive self at whatever cost necessary. this ascendent is ruled by a fixed sign and the scorching sun, so the chart, being under the rulership of the sun, is put on display, and all qualities of the personality seem to become available to the public eye.
all fire signs are concerned with the ego, identity, and purpose, and this sign is no different. if you have a leo ascendent, you may feel the purpose of life and the key theme to your identity is the idea of creativity and self-expression. without expressing the self, and the self's opinions, beliefs, opinions, creativity, spiritual beliefs, and so on, there is no reason to live or to exist, because there is no communication from the soul. this isn't a shy placement and is actually quite liked and popular amongst others. there's loads to like here, especially because your energy may be very open, contagious, and quite happy. there's a casual relationship to everybody because you believe in the value of freedom and independence. there can be a bossy or pompous streak within you, as your desire to succeed is very strong, and you may become quite manipulative towards others when it comes to achieving what you want.
when this ascendent is negatively aspected, there may come huge control and self-confidence issues, which cost the native huge blows to their creativity and big ideas. having control issues comes from the want to be well-liked by everybody and to achieve a popular or dominant position amongst others. it may suggest greed, jealousy, or compulsion. becoming quite concerned with status can cost them valuable relationships in the pursuit of fame, attention, and whatnot.
there can be a great inner strength found within this placement because being the fixed sign of leo introduces an unwavering faith of the self and an ambitious nature that is driven to achieve things from the ego. the ego is what establishes what matters and what does not, and thus you may follow suit. however, fire signs are concerned with their most impulsive feelings and thoughts, as they are highly aware of their innermost needs from life. they use their intuition in everything they do, and oftentimes they generate their success from letting their intuition guide them throughout their life. still, if you have this ascendent, you may be quite ego-driven, but this is what helps you persevere and achieve things you never thought possible. being driven by the ego can be misinterpreted as arrogance, callousness, selfishness, or a blatant lack of consideration for others, or maybe a very vain way to approach things, but the desire to succeed and achieve things is not a new concept... to want to be the best, the most important, or the most respected out of the room, is not an uncommon quality found anywhere else in the zodiac...
relationships can be important to this placement also, as there comes a focus with expressing the self through others. it's not enough to be on your own but to live through others and establish a network of people you may call your loved ones. having loved ones is crucial because this is where you may express your best self, your devotional qualities, and all the generosity you have to offer. to give is what defines you.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody in this lifetime, then having a leo ascendent may mean you want to live a life free from societal control when it comes to expressing yourself. you want to be the most authentic version of yourself, living life to how you want to live it, and establishing a concrete identity and ego through working on your confidence, self-esteem, and creative self-expression. there needs to be respect on your name, as well as dominance and authority wherever you are. you wish not to be controlled by anyone else βΒ you wish to keep your own autonomy
if you have a leo ascendent, then you may be the type to look for authority or admiration in your life. having strong organisational skills allows you to observe and modify your life according to how you require it to be.
virgo ascendent (pisces descendent) β
virgo is ruled by mercury, so having virgo ascendent means your chart is ruled by mercury; therefore the energy of mercury is presented very strongly in the chart as a whole. the energy of mercury is associated with logic, communication, education, intelligence, travel, and friendship.
virgo ascendents can be misinterpreted in many different ways, but what I have seen from virgo ascendents are two types of personalities, perhaps one more negatively aspected than the prior. in one interpretation I see the virgo ascendent as being overly disciplined, responsible, cautious, suspicious, compulsive, overly perfect and clean, worrisome, nagging, and quite anxious. maybe if this placement is aspected negatively it suggests somebody prone to anxiety or nervousness or somebody who finds it difficult to be open or optimistic. there seems to be a vehement negativity or pessimism with this placement; manipulative, maybe. the other personality is the cool and collected one; the one that observes and watches, the one that keeps to themselves. if you have virgo ascendent, you may feel you are a mix of the two, or maybe one of the two types.
in more negative aspects or interpretations, this placement can be highly hypocritical or critical. whether it be to themselves or others, there is a very detail-oriented approach to things and things are meticulously pulled apart to understand it. people are disassembled and scrutinised and judged and criticised for being imperfect. much of these behaviours actually come from having a low self-esteem or inner worth, which jeopardises future opportunities for growth or relationships with others.
generally, there's an inquisitive yet introspective energy with this ascendent because the focus turns inward on key themes such as discipline, responsibility, communication, intelligence, and the other lesser glamorous processes of the brain. the sign of virgo is interpreted as a very friendly and curious sign that is naturally open to serving others. it can be a humanitarian type of character that looks for the more broader integration with society. reputation and societal standing are important here, so you, if you have virgo ascendent, may feel as though you have an important role or place in society you must fulfil.
productivity seems to be a huge motivator for purpose and identity, and oftentimes there's a strong readiness for responsibility and a strong desire to be productive. this is what gives life meaning. work becomes a justification for existence rather than a means of living and being. as mercury becomes the overall chart ruler there's a logical approach to everything and anything, meaning things become more logical-ised or seen as contributing or not contributing to something more meaningful or purposeful.
in general, having a virgo ascendent means having a very inquisitive, curious, observant, and communicative nature with others. there's an openness to learn and to grow, especially in the realms of career or hobbies and skills. the need to master the self is strong, so there may be a pull towards opportunities that challenge the self.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody in this lifetime, then having a virgo ascendent may suggest you want to lead a life that's more logical, detail-oriented, critical, and honest. critical thinking is a natural talent of yours, and this helps in a lot of situations where your intellect or wisdom is needed. travel may be of interest to you, also.
if you have a virgo ascendent, you may feel compelled to live life on a healthy or spiritual wavelength, especially because your descendent is in pisces. there's a need to balance both the physical and spiritual body to achieve full self-actualisation and higher confidence.
libra ascendent (aries descendent) β
libra is ruled by venus, so having a libra ascendent means your chart is ruled by venus; therefore the energy of venus is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of venus is associated with peace and harmony, balance, luxury, values, self-worth, and sexuality.
the sign of libra is symbolised by the scales, and having a libra ascendent may mean trying to live life like a balanced scale. libra's opposite is aries, the sign of initiation, leadership, and action, and the two balance one another where libra prefers diplomacy, teamwork, and communication, and aries autonomy, freedom, and independent self-expression. how the two interact and engage with others is stark, as aries prefer working alone, and libra prefers working with others. thus the libra ascendent, feeling compelled to establish a balance in life, looks for balance through other people and opportunities where communication and networking are possible. if you have this ascendent, you may feel as though you need another energy in order to feel whole and complete. there's a strong urge to communicate and mingle with others because of an innate need to not only express the imaginative and curious personality but also to learn how others function. with all air signs is a need to observe others and learn how others operate, whether alone or with other people. there's a strong need to understand the self here, but through other people; thus this placement can shift its focus from the self onto others, suddenly becoming quite people-oriented, rather than concerned with the self's needs and identity.
in some scenarios the existence of others is justification of personal identity enough. you cannot develop an identity through your own initiation or reflection but through the help of other people. this isn't necessarily a bad thing, but there is indeed a hugely cooperative energy that enjoys working with others and looking for new skills and perspectives to learn. the only issue is when the reliance on others become natural and you find yourself depending on others for your thoughts, opinions, or moods. I've seen this is oftentimes a very immature trait to have, as maturing and becoming older means prioritising harmony and balance within the self. as you grow older you become more harmonised and balanced within yourself, and balance can be sought out in different ways, whether through better, more personal routines or habits, through work or a career that is suitable for you, or a group of friends that truly understand you.
in terms of personality, a libra ascendent is naturally graceful and charming, having a distaste for anything coarse or harsh. having a gentle and open personality is perfect for attracting others who may be lured in by the gentleness or kindness of the ascendent. if you have this ascendent, you may find yourself going through life not with the intention of being action-oriented, competitive, or callous, but with the intention of grace, humility, and cooperation with others.
how you look is important to you, as you feel how you look to others is how they form their first and lasting impression of you. you hate looking bad to others, especially when you know you're having a bad day. the general energy here is to look good to feel good, as your sense of identity can be quite vain or superficial. even if you don't understand yourself well enough you still feel compelled to dress to how you believe you feel or look. the identity and self, however, are found through establishing internal balance and alignment with the spiritual and physical self, which is typically achieved over time and in adulthood.
your sexuality may be important to you. being ruled by venus there's a strong need to understand the sexual self and to express the sexual self to others. if this ascendent is highly and positively aspected it can suggest being comfortable in your femininity or sexuality and thus exuding a very charming, romantic, or sexual energy to others. the grace you carry with you is what draws people in. there may be a pull to express the romantic or sexual self and thus you may find yourself experiencing many relationships that come and go yet teach you very valuable lessons about yourself. or it can be as simple as having many friends and having a natural talent for networking with others and building long-lasting and devotional relationships with others.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody and become, having a libra ascendent may mean you want to establish peace and balance in your life. there's the urgency to live a smooth-sailing and comfortable life where your social needs and personal needs are met and aligned. without this guarantee, you lose focus and your sense of self is lost. you also want to communicate and engage with others, in whatever form that may be, because you want to learn about yourself through learning about others. there needs to be a circulation of mental stimulation within you β your intuition calls for the attention of others because many of your life opportunities and lessons come from them.
if you have this ascendent, you may feel you cannot compete with others or establish a strong backbone towards others. instead, you prefer keep the balance by avoiding confrontation, conflict, or tough dynamics.
scorpio ascendent (taurus descendent) β
scorpio is ruled by pluto and mars, so having a scorpio ascendent means your chart is ruled by pluto and mars; therefore the energy of pluto and mars is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of these two planets is associated with competition, sexuality, drive, ambition, control, transformation, and the psyche.
the scorpio ascendent is famously interpreted as a secretive, mysterious, private, and intense sign. the presence of pluto and mars certainly intensifies the personality of the native into something more psychic, abrasive, and emotional. to others, a scorpio ascendent may come off as somebody quiet, observant, or intense, oftentimes choosing to be independent and alone rather than with others. there's a really restrictive personality here, as they may be closed off to others and very selective with who they engage with. control and authority are huge themes here, as in this lifetime, they come in with the attitude of wanting to control themselves and the world around them. this attitude results in this mysterious and secretive personality, where, to others, they are quite introverted with little to say; though inside, are an emotional wreck, and always feeling the pressure of the outside world, especially as they feel they are continuously being perceived or judged by others.
the need for control and authority come from the need for power and consumption, as the sign of scorpio is quite symbolic of spiritual and internal change, intuition, transformation, and consumption of power. there may be a myriad of lessons with this ascendent revolving around key themes of identity, purpose, and spirituality. if you have this ascendent, you may feel on edge or tense quite often as you go through life wherein you seem to attract opportunities that teach you important life lessons through pain and betrayal. these opportunities further enable you to retreat and remain alone, as you feel you are better being self-sufficient in your own energy and company. this way, if you are alone, you can truly harness your ambitions and use them in a way more personal to you. being vindictive can be an issue here, too; you may do things out of revenge because there is an internalised fear or anger towards the world, as though life is continuously hurting you rather than serving you. if revenge is not your thing, then fairness is βΒ you value justice and retribution, and oftentimes the end justify the means. having a tender heart is a key quality of this sign, but it is masked with feelings of anger, resentment, or cynicism.
as the ascendent is concerned with purpose and ego, having a scorpio ascendent can mean you go through life with the purpose of understanding the world and others on a deep and innate level. there's an urge to continually purge yourself, in whatever way that may mean, whether it be your bad habits, way of living, friends, mentality, or spiritual beliefs. there's a compulsive need to acquire control over yourself and others to finally manipulate things into how you want them to be. you experience frequent waves of change and challenges that force you to lose control or power. depressing themes may surround your early environment such as neglect or witnessing trouble firsthand. seeing the worst in people is a key theme for this placement βΒ you typically attract those who compel you to heal from within, or want your ability to purge and heal them by forcing them to embrace the parts of themselves they refuse to see.
this sign is interpreted as having an obsessive and driven martian and plutonic energy combined leadership powers with autocratic tendencies. being independent and alone and being the one in control is a form of guaranteeing emotional security, and it's through emotional security does a scorpio ascendent feel the most comfortable and safe. being controlled to managed by others is a huge no-no, as feelings of being perceived as something lesser than powerful or strong can drive feelings of anger or inadequacy. confidence issues are common with this placement, too, as knowing all faults of the self become a reason for doubting the self rather than empowering the self.
pluto's influence may be akin to having "skeletons in the closet", or in this case, in identity, soul, and ego; thus this placement is thoroughly focused on how the worst in ourselves must be revealed and worked through. deeply intuitive and imaginative, you go through life listening to your intuition and spiritual impulses. this is where you may generate your ambitious and determined self in acquiring what you desire. it can be in any theme of your life, but it typically takes a great set of challenges to get to where you want to be, as you are forced to drop your guard and engage with others for the sake of excelling yourself. this can be a highly manipulative and a lying placement.
if our ascendent is who we wish to be in this lifetime, or what we wish to embody, then having a scorpio ascendent may mean you wish to go through life prioritising your spiritual identity and connection to the self. the spiritual reason for doing things is important, and your intrusive nature may complement the need to let go of old things and continually purge and transform. the need to see things for how they really are, to know the ins and outs of things, and to be unapologetic about being the self are important. there is a total openness to darkness because it's through suffering or pain do you realise the true value of life and being human.
if you have ascendent in the sign of scorpio, then you may feel compelled to live a mysterious and restrictive lifestyle to others. being perceived or known gets under your skin, and thus you prefer to keep things very superficial or level to keep things under control. you want to manipulate the opinion or perception of others, and it's only through somebody that offers you safety, security, reliability, and loyalty, do you finally let your guard down and become emotionally and sexually open.
sagittarius ascendent (gemini descendent) β
sagittarius is ruled by jupiter, so having a sagittarius ascendent means your chart is ruled by jupiter; therefore the energy of jupiter is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of jupiter is associated with competition, higher knowledge, the law, spirituality or religion, and travel.
the sign of sagittarius is often interpreted as the lucky gambler or risk-taker in astrology due to its carefree attitude towards people, experiences, and life as a whole. life is seen as a journey of lessons and growth rather than something to be feared. consequently, having a sagittarius ascendent may suggest a larger-than-life attitude, embracing a more casual, optimistic, and open-minded personality. to others, the sagittarius ascendent may come off as highly self-confident and idealistic. to others, you may have ideas and dreams that seem hard to reach; but you, being so delusional and convinced of your capabilities and talents, seem to always make them a reality. there's a real driven quality here, as there's a fire to achieving things with meaning or purpose.
all fire signs are concerned with the ego, identity, and purpose, and the sagittarius ascendent is no different. purpose and identity is found through the acquisition of new experiences whether it be through traveling, meeting and engaging with others (foreigners), and learning about different cultures, ways of living, perspectives, and whatnot. this is where the spiritual code of ethics comes from, as you live by spiritual values or virtues that give life meaning. there's always a deeper significance or purpose to things, even if you cannot see it, and you're convinced everything happens for a reason. in a way, you feel divinely guided in your life, and you seek to constantly evolve your spiritual mind and your ego and identity.
when the sagittarius ascendent becomes negatively aspected, it may be seen as the gambler with no sense of responsibility or accountability. everything becomes a game of chance and there's a delusional streak that believes the self is god-like or invincible and cannot fail. oftentimes there's an inflation of the own ego where it's believed the self is far superior than everybody else. this can be seen particularly in educational matters, where education is seen as leverage, and having a strong opinion or knowledge on things = being correct. if somebody disagrees, they are wrong and stupid. the inability to ground the self and cooperate with others becomes a challenge as this placement becomes overly self-absorbed.
similarly to the other fire ascendents, having a sagittarius ascendent may make you feel compelled to learn and understand more about yourself and others. wanting to connect with others and with life stems from an innate feeling of wanting to understand the self. by establishing a solid connection with the self, you may begin letting your intuition speak to you and guide you through life. everything becomes a spiritual endeavour; it's a pursuit of true values, virtues, and ethics to you, and all of these values or beliefs you establish with yourself are brought into every relationship or experience you have. the mission of self-actualisation becomes something more than just becoming your best self but becoming the most intelligent, aware, and improved self in the realms of knowledge, spirituality, in emotional affairs, and in the physical body. everything works as one balanced and divinely guided system rather than a function created by nature for the sake of survival.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody, then having a sagittarius ascendent may mean you strive to become somebody open-minded, genuine, spiritually driven, balanced, intelligent, and nomadic. there's a real independent spirit here β your pursuit for life is fuelled through the desire to understand how the world works and how everything connects together. having strong interpersonal skills is important to you as it helps you navigate the world and others. having strong leadership qualities also helps you lead and guide others to a higher and aligned goal or shared desire.
when a sagittarius ascendent lacks spiritual integrity or values, there may come a lack of purpose or reason for existing. when there is no higher meaning or set of rules to live by, there is no reason for anything at all to exist, and thus life becomes an aimless wander. it's important, then, for a sagittarius ascendent to establish a concrete set of beliefs to live by and share with others. if you have this placement, you may feel it's important for you to have a higher faith or belief in something to feel inspired, productive, and with purpose.
capricorn ascendent (cancer descendent) β
capricorn is ruled by saturn, so having a capricorn ascendent means your chart is ruled by capricorn; therefore the energy of capricorn is presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of saturn is associated with hard work, resilience, limitation, responsibility, and social status.
a readiness for responsibility is a common theme with this placement, so having a capricorn ascendent may mean you go through life with a heavy feeling of responsibility and restriction. the most crucial issue with this placement is self-confidence and self-doubt; the drive of purpose, ego, and truly understanding the self (first house) can be humbled and levelled by the need to turn cool and composed, but also very reserved and shallow (saturn). thus one moment they can climb mountains, and the next day they don't feel worthy enough of leaving the house. if you have this ascendent, you may be quite confident in some areas, such as work, though very shy or inadequate in other areas, such as your personal understanding of yourself or your relationships with others, and how you show up in these relationships. the restrictive nature of saturn in undervaluing your abilities, worth, and strength can cause you to not only sell yourself for what's safe and stable, but to become overly sensitive and emotional to others, leading to a scattered and imbalanced personality or character. the purpose of life is to work and work, according to you, and you must begin learning to embrace more spiritual and emotional sides of your life; how you listen to your intuition, how to balance your spiritual and emotional wellbeing, and so on. emotional tension or worry can truly crystallise your worser qualities into something more obsessive and compulsive, causing you a total imbalance of the self, and no confidence, faith, or purpose within you.
capricorn ascendents may be seen as socially awkward or generally shy people, and, depending on the maturity and age of the person, a person with this ascendent may only get more comfortable in their skin when they are older and more financially secure, as this control over finances is what validates their ego or purpose. as a capricorn ascendent, you may have gone through significant childhood or compulsive fears surrounding your worth or inadequacy, and it's now in life where you feel you must compensate for all the lost faith and self-belief you have experienced. with experiencing turbulent dynamics from young (and even in the present day) you know how to adapt, camouflaging your shortcomings especially when needing to socialise to achieve status and success.
there's a strong need for respect and authority wherever you go, so using others as a stepping stone is an uncommon tendency here, especially because your sense of responsibility, your work ethic, and your willingness to persevere through difficulty for the sake of reward regularly goes unnoticed.
this is a placement whose time and energy must be invested for family, friends, and work. it's a highly focused and rigid sign, oftentimes going for what really matters rather than the whimsical or fun-loving things, and even possibly spirituality or religion. it's only when others are let in, does a capricorn rising truly show their emotional, compassionate, and generous energy.
the saturnian energy of this placement may have delayed your identity or sense of fulfilment growing up, and you may only feel as though you can experience your identity now, and what it takes to develop it, maintain it, glamorise it, to succeed it, and so on. saturn can highlight where we may have experienced hardship or difficult in our lives, so having saturn as the chart ruler may have provided a lot of hardship, delay, and neglect in many areas of your life, which consequently may have delayed the development of your innermost values, abilities, qualities, perceptions, and internal belief system. you may have found or lost yourself through the pressure of responsibility and security, neglecting other areas of your life for the sake of consistency or stability.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody, then having a capricorn ascendent may manifest as wanting to be responsible and ambitious, determined, and humble. there's a strong need to achieve and succeed in all areas of life, though conserving the most energy and time and re-investing them into things that truly matter. introverted and shy, you may find yourself quite secretive or reserved to others, especially because you want to skew the perceptions or opinions of others. control issues may be common, but these must be controlled into something more purposeful and intentional, rather than compulsive. the need for respect and authority comes from within you, and it's important you persevere through the hardest parts of life with the use of your internal and external resources, and some more spiritual values and guidance.
if you have this placement, you may feel compelled to follow in your fixed ways and to follow a status quo established for you growing up. your sense of responsibility is admirable, though you may experience people in your lifetime that teach you the value of trust, emotional vulnerability, and fun (cancer descendent). also, the value of leaning to your gut intuition and becoming more personal and less professional with those you term your family.
aquarius ascendent (leo descendent) β
aquarius is ruled by uranus and saturn, so having an aquarius ascendent means your chart is ruled by uranus and saturn; therefore the energy of these two planets are presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of these two planets is hard work, resilience, rebellion, limitation, and social status.
because aquarius is ruled by both uranus and saturn, having an aquarius ascendent can be best described as enigmatic, as there's a huge wavering difficulty in experiencing emotional coolness and an independent nature alongside a more empathetic and compassionate perspective of the world. there's an eagerness for knowing and understanding the self thoroughly, but natives with this sign make it deliberate difficult to be seen or understood by others. relationships, then, can become quite difficult, as their tendency to flee in a moment's notice can be misinterpreted as being sporadic or fickle. as with all air signs, there's a strong knowing in how others operate and interact with the world, and it's through interacting with everybody does the aquarius ascendent not only learn about the world as a whole, but also how they function and operate on a more internal, and more intimate level with themselves and others.
being a fixed sign, they can be very stubborn and rigid in their ways, especially because this placement is very concerned with being different and their most authentic selves. if you have this placement, you may feel you stick out like a sore thumb alongside others because of your beliefs, experiences, or because of your understanding of your identity. you have an impulsive need to understand the ins and outs of yourself and how you may further excel and integrate your mind with others. this self-concerned attitude can prove detrimental when the issues of intimate relationships show up, as both uranus and saturn control what comes in and what comes out of your orbit. the fierce need for independence is strong, and you may struggle with feeling lonely or misunderstood wherever you are, even if you do have a supportive network around you.
being so concerned with others can suggest you have a largely humanitarian quality about you. there's a pull to understanding the true suffering and grief of others because you want to show others the freedom of expression, speech, and knowledge. a positively aspected aquarius ascendent will look to others to learn and grow; a negatively aspected aquarius ascendent will obsessively establish their dominance, authority, and presence to further establish their uniqueness and difference, especially because, according to their purpose and identity, they were born to show progressive and more contemporary values to others.
in the context of our identity, ego, and purpose, having an aquarius ascendent may differentiate you from others because your version of ego and purpose revolves around the themes of nonconformity and being unconventional to show others the freedom of personal expression rather than the status quo. you were born to be different and born to walk life at a different pace to others. your purpose is to follow a different path from others, unlocking the highest level of self-actualisation and self-knowing from the engagement with others and life opportunities in general.
if our ascendent is who we wish to embody, then having an aquarius ascendent can suggest having a more careless attitude towards life and doing things for the sake of experience and knowledge. learning through others enables you to learn about yourself, so you may feel compelled to travel and engage with people from all kinds of backgrounds. taking risk is your thing, especially if you know there's reward through it. if you feel limited or restricted you definitely have a feeling of wanting to rebel or free yourself from it all. it's why you may have experienced delays to your autonomy when you were younger and now feel compelled to protect your independence and freedom at whatever means necessary.
if you have this placement, then you may feel a strong set of beliefs surrounding limitation and restriction around the self, and how, through freeing the self from conventional or societal expectations, we may find our most happiest and luckiest selves. you may find yourself not compromising with others to cost you the security of your independence; you're selective with who you let in, and those you let in have their boundaries and comfort zones expanded thanks to you.
pisces ascendent (virgo descendent) β
pisces is ruled by neptune and jupiter, so having a pisces ascendent means your chart is ruled by jupiter and neptune; therefore the energy of these two planets are presented very strongly in your chart as a whole. the energy of these two planets is luck, spirituality or religion, the psyche, healing and transformation, and higher intelligence.
neptune is interpreted as a male sign (poseidon), though ombodies very feminine traits and a feminine face. neptune is concerned with outer and otherworldly knowing; the connection to the divine and intuitive. those with pisces ascendent are deeply connected to their intuition, inner knowing, and their imagination. they live through their imagination and instinct and follow life according to their deeper, more subtle impulses. if you have pisces as your ascendent, you may feel very sensitive and compassionate towards others; your empathy comes naturally, and you constantly feel urged to know yourself on a deeper, more spiritual level.
where material success or relationships are important for others, spiritual connection and the imagination are important for this ascendent. there's oftentimes pressure or a guilt to do more or to know more, and those with this ascendent can feel pressured to provide their gifts and service to others. it can be very other-oriented rather than self-oriented if the balance between self-service and others is misaligned.
you may feel deeply intuitive and understanding of others; psychic, even. life may go through difficult periods for you where you are constantly going through some sort of spiritual transformation. many of these transformations can involve lessons surrounding boundaries, where you are urged to not only respect the boundaries or others, but also to establish boundaries yourself. the tendency to over-do things to achieve some sort of redemption or achievement from within can cause you to bend over backwards to those who have no issue using you as a stepping stone until it's too late. it may only be in retrospect you realise you were denying your intuitive messages because you were concerned with the guilt you have in not helping or serving others.
pisces is also ruled by jupiter, thus pisces is concerned with the higher, more spiritual knowledge and dynamics of how people operate. there is a faithful yet spiritually expansive energy with this placement that yearns for meaning or completion out of life. redemption, retribution, and cleansing are relevant keywords, too, and you, if you have this ascendent, may feel as though you need to prove yourself to someone or something. there's a lucky energy here with taking chances and risks in the name of faith.
sometimes this ascendent can suffer from near death experiences or loss in life. these experiences begin pertaining to identity, becoming crucial lessons for the meaning of loss and grief for these ascendents.
if the ascendent is who we wish to be, then having a pisces ascendent may mean you want to live life through a quiet, introspective, and spiritual character. your intuition is important to you, as well as your personal space and imagination. highly emotionally and spiritually intelligent, you may feel prompted to work with others as a way to redeem your talents or gifts or to prove yourself to a higher being or purpose. you want to live life according to your spiritual self, and your identity is thus based on how connected or aligned you are to your spiritual values and psychic abilities.
if you have this placement, you may wish to live life with little to no competition with others, more imaginative and intuitive, and very hermit-like. you may not be hugely fiery or action-oriented, but you are very determined to understand yourself and almost use yourself as a spiritual vessel for others.
2026 is gonna be a very social year ruled by the Sun. I heard that even the houses where Sun is more introvert (4th, 6th, 8th, 12th house) can experience to be in the spotlight, can happen to be a glowup for them
If The Sun rules your 7th house/Sun in the 7th house itself is a good year for relationships. Partners can come and go. Life can feel more fulfilled. You can meet 'the one'
7th house lord in the 4th house can attract partners who are very attached to family. Family oriented partners, in some cases want to build a family early
Aries/Scorpio/Capricorn/Leo in the 7th house I've seen this in some charts, they are attracted to powerful/influential people. Can be a power couple once they meet their partners
If your chart ruler is aspecting Lilith, especially conjunction this can often give an effect of 'Lilith in the 1st embodiment' but to an extent. Still matters what your chart ruler(s) is aspecting
Pisces/Taurus/Libra in the 7th house cusp can attract so many hopeless romantics. These signs in the 7th house act like an explosion of love and passion.
Juno in the earth houses 2nd/6th/10th houses can attract grounding partners, hardworking partners, in a relationship they can do good finically because they know how to manage money.
Juno sitting empty in a chart, there is so something so special about it. Can indicate relationship can feel pure/refreshing. Not so much stressing (sitting empty means in an empty house/without aspects)
Men with Pluto - Moon aspects tend to be very possessive deep down. Like they won't show it and hide it until they explode and throw all that anger out
Venus in harsh aspects with Chiron/Juno be like 'I'm so sick of that same old love'. Is the line that can defy most of these natives relationships (until they meet a healthy one)
I consider Juno and Eros asteroids the best in form of relationships/lovers/people you attract/marriage/partners type and so on
I believe if Eros had a place/house to call it home would probably be in the 5th/7th house or in Taurus/Libra/Pisces because these signs are heavy related with Venus (Aphrodite) which was the mother of Eros in mythology but idk for sure
Eros closely making contact with the Moon gave some of the purest love, since Moon is ones person most sensitive point. Eros blends it all with love
Eros in Sagittarius/9th house or at 9Β° 21Β° can find love in foreign lands/foreign lover/traveling with the lover/you can get along with their family
Eros in Leo/5th house or at 5Β° 17Β° 29Β° can attract partners who often are very passionate and have big personalities. You can share the same hobbies and possibly meet at a public event
Eros in Aries/1st house or at 1Β° 13Β° 25Β° can indicate that relationship play a big role in the natives life, at some point revolving around their relationships/partners. Attaches easily yet doesn't wanna seem too desperate in early stage
From what I've been searching I firmly believe that Eros and South Node aspects (can matter if they're in the same house or close on the cusp), indicate love in a past life who couldn't be fulfilled/found especially in harsher aspects (I say this because I believe Eros is a MAIN ASTEROID stronger than others)
Mars in aspects with Uranus can have sudden/random bursts of energy. Like they can be tired all day and suddenly get an energy boost. It can also indicate your body needs a lot of movement and stimulation in order to function properly
Moon in the 3rd/11th house are good at making fast connections with others, that's their charm, these people usually can end up to have lots of friends due to their social persona. Moon in these houses makes the native very curious and outgoing
People don't talk enough about the 8th house lords, they're super underrated. Especially 8th house ruler in the 8th house itself where it basically says that the native has a natural magnetism towards people, hard to forget
8th house lord in the 11th house is another underatted placement, with the lord here it basically tells that you are the magnetic piece in the group/the one who shines in the crowd
8th house lord in the 1st house is a good indicator for having magnetic look/personality usually people feel uncomfortable when others stare at them for too much. Keep it in the distance
Neptune aspecting the MC usually can indicate idolizing with a specific career or path life. Can indicate you dream to be big. Big dreams. Manifestations. Admiration
Uranus aspecting MC can act the opposite. You never know what to expect. Sudden changes can happen in your career/pathlife. You may get attention randomly then isolation, sudden fame
Aquarius Venus / Gemini Venus let's say that..with these natives you'll never run out of conversations, late night talksγγγγ the bests. They value lots of quality time
If you want to know what opinion someone have of you or the expression that you give them then just look at your rising sign and see which house that signs falls in their chart. What planets there are and where the lord of your rising sign is sitting in their chart what planets it is conjunct, square or opposite. This applies to both Vedic and tropical. You can also see how you see them if you look at their rising and where it falls in your chart.
For ex- my friend's husband is a saggitarous ascendent and his asc falls into her 5th house. She have Ketu or south node there in the early degrees of her 5th house and earlier she used to neglect him as if she use you to treat him as someone she doesn't want or she knows who he is or was not attracted to or said his physical features were not her type at all, never saw him that way. "been there done that" energy they knew each other from childhood and she said that he was never my type early on in my life but then later on she started seeing him with the 5th house energy wanted to date him, love him, have children with him, finds him very creative etc etc. She also said that if he would've proposed her earlier (like wanted to date in teenage) then she would've denied and nothing would've ever happened. Because Ketu being in early degrees she was seeing her through Ketu lens. You can read your chart like this as well. Like if Ketu were in later degrees of her house she would've loved him saw him as dating material but then their relationship would've ended up shrinking or in a more positive manifestation of they could've become a monk or left each other because of spiritual reasons. If Ketu was in middle of her house then she would've been attracted to him then relationship would've shrinked up and then they would've met again or would've ended up together. Or atleast she would've seen him in this order. She also used to say she's very much into enemies to lovers trope and yes her soul was guiding her to him with all this.
1st house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 1st house then they see you as a reflection of themselves. You physically look like them or embody their personality. They view you as an extension of their own path and purpose.
β2nd house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 2nd house then they see you as family. They view you as someone they want to share meals with or explore new foods with. They focus on your face and voice. They see you as an asset to their wealth and savings.
β3rd house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 3rd house then they see you as a younger sibling or a neighbor. They view you as someone to gossip, text, and communicate with constantly. They see you as a companion for short trips and hobbies.
β4th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 4th house then they see you as a mother figure. They view you as someone who belongs in their home and domestic life. They see you as someone to share property, land, or vehicles with.
β5th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 5th house then they see you as a romantic interest or someone to have children with. They view you as creative and intelligent. They see you as someone to have fun, play sports, or speculate with.
β6th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 6th house then they see you as someone helpful who fits into their daily routine. They view you as someone to help them when they are sick or dealing with conflicts. They might also see you as a rival or someone they need to compete against.
β7th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 7th house then they see you as a spouse or legal partner. They view you as marriage material. They see you as an equal who is capable of entering into binding contracts and trade with them.
β8th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 8th house then they see you as mysterious and intense. They view you as someone involved with their secrets, joint assets, or inheritance. They see you as a transformative force or someone connected to the occult.
β9th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 9th house then they see you as a father figure, teacher, or guru. They view you as a guide for higher learning and religion. They see you as someone to travel long distances or go on pilgrimages with.
β10th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 10th house then they see you as an authority figure or a boss. They view you as someone with high status and public recognition. They see you as strictly professional or someone who impacts their career and reputation.
β11th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 11th house then they see you as an elder sibling or a part of their social network. They view you as a friend who supports their gains and profits. They see you as someone who helps them fulfill their hopes and wishes.
β12th house: if your rising sign or lord of rising sign falls into their 12th house then they see you as a foreigner or someone from a distant land. They view you as someone connected to their dreams, sleep, and private pleasures. They might see you as someone they are isolated with or share a spiritual bond with.
This is how they see you if these planets falls into the houses they have your rising sign in ir aspects the lord of your rising.
Sun: if your Sun falls into their house then you bring your soul and ego to that area. You view that house as a place where you want to be a leader or a king. You might burn the significations of that house or create separation because of your high standards. You act like a father figure or an authority regarding those matters.
βMoon: if your Moon falls into their house then you bring your mind and emotions to that area. You view that house as a source of comfort and nourishment. You want to care for that area of their life like a mother. You fluctuate in your behavior there and might be moody or seeking food and water through them.
βMars: if your Mars falls into their house then you bring your energy and aggression to that area. You view that house as a battlefield or a place to conquer. You might fight with them over those matters or act like a protector and soldier. You treat that area with the logic of an engineer or the impulsiveness of a sibling.
βMercury: if your Mercury falls into their house then you bring your speech and intelligence to that area. You view that house as a place to do business, trade, or play games. You want to communicate constantly about those topics. You treat that area with the friendly and practical energy of a maternal uncle or a flexible peer.
βJupiter: if your Jupiter falls into their house then you bring your wisdom and expansion to that area. You view that house as a place to teach and preach. You act like a Guru or a counselor regarding those matters. If they are female you might present yourself as a husband figure through that house. You bring luck, fat, and growth there.
βVenus: if your Venus falls into their house then you bring your love and luxury to that area. You view that house as a place of pleasure and validation. You want to gain vehicles, gems, or sensual happiness through that area. If they are male you might present yourself as a wife figure through that house.
βSaturn: if your Saturn falls into their house then you bring your discipline and delays to that area. You view that house as a burden or a responsibility you must carry. You might make them work hard in that area or treat them like a servant. You bring a sense of coldness, reality, and longevity to those matters.
βRahu (North Node): if your Rahu falls into their house then you bring obsession and hunger to that area. You view that house as something you must consume and experience intensely. You might break social norms or act like a foreigner in that area of their life. You bring illusion, smoke, and a desire to expand beyond boundaries there.
βKetu (South Node): if your Ketu falls into their house then you bring detachment and spirituality to that area. You view that house as something you have already experienced and want to let go of. You might act confused, critical, or like a monk regarding those matters. You tend to negate or shrink the material results of that house.
Scorpio moons can be so secretive about the most unimportant things haha like the type of music they listen to or their middle name. They are actually easily embarrassed but wonβt ever admit that.
March Aries are way more serious and hot headed than April Aries I notice. April Aries are a lot more laid back and jolly, I notice the March Aries tend to rub ppl the wrong way sometimes.
An underdeveloped moon in Aquarius can be a very neglectful friend at times. They have a really big need to space and if youβre someone who wants to always be around your bestie then they are not the ones for you. The types to ghost you for 3 months than text you βheyβ like nothingπ.
Mars in the 8th house people can become very easily jealous. Especially with the people they love/care about. They do not like sharing the ppl that love. Also can be jealous if others come off as more βsuccessfulβ as them. (Mostly if underdeveloped not all are this way).
Being ruled by Venus can give you a very pretty/perfect smile. They tend to smile a lot as well because it makes them look more attractive. But I never met a Venus ruled person that didnβt have a magnetic/adorable smile.
Being born on the 6th, 15th or 24th can make someone become very dependent on their partner/spouse. Can lead to codependency if not careful. Also very magnetic individuals and can attract literally anyone.
Mars in Scorpios can be extremely opinionated and have a lot of controversial beliefs that can rub people the wrong way at times. These people are also really good at rage baiting others haha. (Mars in the 8th house natives are also good at rage baiting and enjoy the reactions they receive).
Beware of Scorpio suns that donβt have any friends or close friends. They can be walking red flags.
Taurus mars women have the most beautifully sculpted bodies, usually pretty thick (In all the right places) and can have an hourglass figure. Especially if they have a VENUS IN LIBRA cuz wowπ.
Two cancer suns in a relationship together are actually a really amazing match. Iβve seen them last for a very long time. The type of couples to grow old together π₯Ή I also notice cancer suns can be in long term relationships with Taurus suns as well.
Mercury in Pisces/12th house natives can have a really hard time verbally expressing themselves. Many view them as not being smart because of this but that is very far from the truth, they understand things in such an abstract way that most of the times canβt be put into words. They usually have very genius ideas that they canβt express.
Leo moons that are underdeveloped love to make any conversation about themselves. They will turn a conversation about you and make it about them somehow. Would make terrible therapists. (Donβt kill me leo moons plz ik yall arenβt all like thatπ).
Mars trine/sextile Venus are some of the most charming people that youβll ever meet. You ever just meet those people who are effortlessly attractive?? Like they can just be doing something mundane like sipping coffee or reading a book and youβre just like βππππβ. What makes them so attractive is they really donβt do too much to be noticed compared to the harder aspects (conjunction, square, opposite) they just are naturally magnetic by being themselves. Sexy without even trying and flirt so good.. itβs not to harsh or super awkward itβs so subtle. Very lucky placement.
Jupiter on the ascendant can be like a good luck charm in your life. Even if things are looking rough in life it gifts you with such a positive outlook that even the βbad timesβ can still be fun for them. Natural manifestors as well! Everything just seems to always go their way.
Best Venus houses are 1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th & 11th. Usually blessed the native with a very attractive features and abundance in life. The 1st house is kinda a no brained just makes you naturally beautiful and charming & makes it easy to attract a beautiful partner. The 2nd and 7th house are in its home in Venus making it very comfortable and lucky in those houses, the 2nd house gives a beautiful face and an abundance of wealth, they can be big money magnets and attract a pretty luxurious life. Can also gain a lot of wealth through marriage, their partner just loves spending money on them or vice versa. Big sugar baby placement & 7th house blesses you with a beautiful partner and harmonious love life (can gain wealth from partner as well. The 4th represents a healthy and beautiful family and emotional state. Also a beautiful home as well. And the 11th house rules hopes and wishes meaning you can be natural manifestors and attract the things you desire without much effort, I also notice they can have a very big friend group and can be pretty popular.
Weakest Venus houses are in the 6th, 8th, 10th and 12th. I notice 6th house Venus natives can be big workaholics and can pick their work over love interests which isnβt a bad thing but Venus is a very lovey planet. They can be a bit late bloomers when it comes to relationships as well and couldβve felt not βattractiveβ or βsexy enough in their earlier years, also can have a lot of anxiety around dating. Being sexy in general feels a bit awkward to them when younger. However they have a great ability to find a partner at their jobs and usually take pretty good care of their health (if not afflicted). The 8th house is very intense for the soft light hearted Venus. Iβve seen a lot of situationship issues with 8th house Venusβs. Have a tendency to attract stalkers and people who can be a little to possessive or obsessed with them or vice versa. They get a lot of hate from other women I notice out of jealousy mostly. Can have a very provocative vibe and can be βsl*t shamedβ a lot even if theyβre virgins smh. Love is very black or white with them. The 10th hose is similar to the 6th house in a way that they can choose their career over finding a partner. Tend to be very obsessed with their public image causing them to feel the need to be perfect which can drain them. Usually gets married a lot later in life because of Saturns influence. Lastly, the 12th house Venus can love the idea of love compared to actually being in a committed relationship. Although they can be hopeless romantics they have a hard time facing the fact that people have flaws and wonβt be exactly like the image they projected in their heads. If you donβt live up to their fantasy ideal they can become very disappointed. They will view their partner as a soulmate at first then lose interest when they donβt meet their incredibly high standards. Can also romanticize/attract people with mental illness or people with a prison recordβ¦ usually because of their savior complex. (Donβt be discouraged if you have these houses as your Venus you can still attract good things and love like anyone else these houses just tend to go thru a little bit more obstacles).
Venus in Aries women can come off really strong when they like someone. This can intimidate people who have more lowkey signs like Taurus or Cancer. It will be very obvious when they like you lol. I also notice they can be really turned on when others fight over them, they arenβt ruled by the god of war for no reason π. They can have more than one crush at a time too (especially if in the 5th house).
Underdeveloped Libra moon women are they type to sleep with their best friendβs boyfriend.
Libra placements I notice tend to get in committed relationships with people they really donβt like that much??? Like Iβve seen a lot just kinda date to date and most of the time they really arenβt truly in love. I feel like thatβs why it can be easy for them to flirt with others while in a relationship. I notice they actually take a long time to fall truly in love. They just really crave romantic attention & I met a lot who think itβs βembarrassing β ig to be single for too long, makes them look undesirable.
Pisces risings are usually very quiet and reserved. (Unless other placements say otherwise). But mostly I see that most people donβt even realize they are around. That kid in class that you just recently noticed but has been in the same school/classes with you for yearsπ very good at making themselves unnoticeable. Some prefer it that way.
Saturn in the 8th house natives can be really awkward during deep intimacy or sex. They could be interested in sex a little later than most in certain cases or be insecure about their bodies. I had a friend who has this placement and she tells me she has a pretty low sex drive and usually has sex with their partner once a month. Which I think is kinda wild but heyπ€·π½ββοΈ. Usually have some trauma around being intimate or vulnerable that makes them avoid it or limit it.
A lot of Taurus risings can be amazing at modeling. They are naturally photogenic & clothes just look so beautiful on them like ughhh.ππ€§
Taurus moons tend to be very private people. Unless theyβre comfortable around you they usually wonβt talk much about themselves or give anything personal away. Usually tend to keep up small talk to avoid talking deeply about themselves (kinda similar to Scorpio moons). For example; Zendaya is a Taurus moon and we really donβt know much about her compared to other celebrities she never posts tik tok videos or gives away anything really juicy. These people are the definition on Demureπ
Scorpio suns with an Aquarius moon can be quite the odd balls. They are usually a complete enigma and you are a rare gem if they let you into their little worlds. They have a tendency to disappear A LOT. Theyβre the types to move to those deserted islands with just one house on it LMFAO if uk what I mean. The masters of ghosting people.
People with Gemini and Virgo in their big three are the definitions of βambrivertβ.
People with moon in the 3rd house tend to be very close with their siblings and cousins. Are the types they tell are their secrets to first in the family.
Happy Halloween everyone π please make sure everyone stays safe when going out ππ
Hey love! Sometime ago you did love language headcanon for Seventeen, can you do it for Ateez as well?
Ateez Love Language
Hongjoong
Giving: If he likes someone he will give them his time. He is someone busy, the fact he would put yo first before his work, shows how he feels for you
Receiving: He needs to feel touch, love, snuggles and hugs, kisses and even physical context to feel loved
Seonghwa
Giving: He has the tendency to keep attention to details and when he really cares for someone he will offer them gifts and precious things to show his life
Receiving: He wants people to make things for him. By doing acts of service on his behalf he feels loved and happy
Yeosang
Giving: he is a men of few words. When he cares for someone, he is very vocal about it. He compliments the person, he gives affirmation words and I love yous that are natural
Receiving: Just like Seonghwa, he needs someone that will actually show it with actions that they love and care for him. By giving him services or doing things he asks for he feels cared
San
Giving: San is very physical when he loves. Kisses, snuggles and hugs are his favorite. he shows his love through physical touch and emotional connection
Receiving: Like most of the boys, he prefers people that shows their love through actions than through words. Give and do things for him, these little attentions make him happy
Yunho
Giving: Like San, Yunho is a man of physical love, he shows his emotions through sex usually or through kisses and just deep connection. If he isn't being physical, he doesn't like the person.
Receiving: He gets all flustered and giggly if the person actually offers him gifts every now and then. The attention warms his heart, he likes to think that the person thought of him by seeing an object
Mingi
Giving: He too likes to show his love through kisses and soft touches. He likes to always have his hands on the person he cares for
Receiving: The person spends his days with him, dates, they go out , they cook together. Quality time is extremely important and he wants the person to put him first
Wooyoung
Giving: He is a lazy bud, but when he loves someone he will do all the actions in the world. he gets extra nice, he gets them all their stuff done before they can even notice
Receiving: he loves to hear the people being honest with their emotions. Wooyoung feels loved when the person voices it directly to him
Jungho
Giving: Like Hongjoong, if he really likes someone he will do whatever is possible to spend as much time with them as he can. he hates being apart from the ones he cares
Receiving: He needs to feel love through physical touch. Either it's in an intimate way or just soft kisses and hugs, hands holding. These actions make his heart warmer
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Pros: A loyal boyfriend that won't cheat on you and who would seek emotional connection and intensity. Cheerful and organized, has his head on his shoulders
Cons: Can be extremely jealous and revengeful. Also has big mood swings that can be complicated to deal with. Over controlling.
Mingi
Pros: Bright and cheerful that will bring you much positivity in your life. Very analytical he can always find solutions for your troubles and help you see things with another eye. Cuddly.
Cons: Tendency to have emotional manipulation and play the victim. Can be petty and destructive when under pressure, stress or negative emotions
San
Pros: Another one that wouldn't cheat, who's very genours with his heart and loyal. Family oriented and always puts his partners needs before his own
Cons: Can be very possessive and jealous and sometimes even egoist and self centered. Impatient and narcissistic.
Seonghwa
Pros: The type of boyfriend that will make you see things you have never seen in your life, and make you feel things you have never felt. Unpredictable and passionate.
Cons: Will manipulante you when he feels like the victim. Can also be someone very moody and pessimist. Can have tendencies to cheat.
Wooyoung
Pros: Very seductive, emotionally attached to you and family oriented. Will tease you, kiss you and his sociable side brights fun into the relationship
Cons: Will flirt with other person and he is very conscious of his own actions. He too will be tempted to manipulate you emotionally speaking and gives up easily on things.
Yeosang
Pros: Family oriented and loyal to the ones he love. Heart warming and generous, will always be present for you no matter what happens
Cons: Can be extremely narcissistic and emotionally manipulative towards you in order to get what he wants. Dramatic, plays the victim and hard to read his true emotions
Yunho
Pros: Stable and sensual he will always keep your feet on earth and won't let you fall. Intense and jovial, versatile you never be bored.
Cons: Yunho can be very possessive, jealous, stubborn, old grudges and superficial. Might lie to you and flirt with other persons.
Jungho
Pros: Loyal and intense, he will love you with all his heart. Dreamy, he will always put you above everyone.
Cons: Overly sensitive, will cry and take everything by heart, like he Is too susceptible. Very jealous and possessive, will be revengeful.
Hello, Can you do SVT twin flamesπ₯, thank you and have a good dayπ
Note: take this reading with a grain of salt and most importantly have fun β€οΈ
Seventeen Twin Flames
S.Coups:
Itβs interesting because right of the bat with the energy, I am almost certain that they are foreigner. They are average height, with brown hair and small sharp green eyes. They are someone very smart and actually they study/work on the law field. Iβve no idea if they will ever met but they are someone very sure of themselves
Jeonghan:
Jeonghan got such a cute twin flame because they are someone with a children soul, someone that loves to laugh and loves to have fun . Theres slightly innocent vibes from them. They have long brown hair and dark eyes and a small face. An earth sigh that radiates like the sun
Joshua:
A wholesome Gemini for him. Their air energy is strong despite an Earth rising. They are small and have a rather tan skin and big dark eyes. Long and skinny arms and legs. They are the type to be very quite, not to talk much but they can be really crazy and talkative when they trust the people around them
Jun:
Jun got someone that works in the industry but not necessarily an idol, I get more of an acting energy. Anything they are a water sign with Earth rising. They are small, have brown hair and dark eyes. They are someone that work so much and that are very attached to their family and that does all of this to help them financially
Hoshi:
Our Tiger got a water sign for his twin flame and actually they are someone that is from their past (probably an old friend). They have a very clear skin and small dark eyes and natural rosy cheeks. They are small in height and a bit clumsy. But very strong willed and they work hard to reach their goals
Wonwoo:
(I love this boy so much) his twin flame is someone tall with a rather tan like skin and sharp dark eyes and hair, thereβs Asian energy too. They have also a big smile and they are a fire sign. They arenβt afraid to speak up their mind and to fight for what they believe . They are someone that struggle with their mental health.
Woozi:
Okay so his twin flame is someone pretty clever. They work in the industry but they arenβt an idol. They are tall with long dark brown hair and eyes and a very beautiful shaped nose. They also taller than him by a few centimetres. They are a Pisces. The good thing is that Woozi knows them and I strongly believe that he already has his eyes set on them
DK:
This boy got a Scorpio as his twin flame. They are an idol as well and they are someone that suffered a lot of bullying when children because of their looks. But today they are just so gorgeous. Average tall heigh, with long hair which is blond at the moment. Small dark eyes. They really have a visual vibe. Also I can almost confirm that they are currently dating based on the energy that the reading has
Mingyu:
Mingyu got a twin flame that is small in height and has very big sharp eyes that people find beautiful since their colour is quite unique (greyish type). They have dark hair and they are more of a loner type of people that secretly love affection. An Earth sign. This is a person that travels around the world and who had a strong belief and religion
The8:
Definitely a Sagittarius. They are someone small with big dark eyes and a gentle smile, and beautiful skin. They actually care a lot for their apparence and they take good care of themselves. I feel like they have both met each other, however this person βran awayβ from Minghao, probably because they werenβt able to deal with the whole situation when they actually adapt so well. Minghao was definitely someone that shook them up
SeungKwan:
He too got an idol for his twin flame ! They are an Air sign. They are small and have big eyes and a rond cute face. Currently had short light hair. They were curvy when younger and they are someone with a very strong will. They definitely know each other but none of them have tried to contact the other yet
Vernon:
His twin flame is definitely a Chinese rooted person. They are more for the curvy side and they are just like little cuddly bears. They are small dark eyes and a gentle smile. Very shy and almost innocent, which is a big contrast with their fire sign but thatβs because they have an Earth rising
Dino:
Finally our baby ! Dinoβs twin flame is also a water sign for sure, like thereβs a lot of that energy and I feel like they are on the industry but they arenβt quite well known yet. They have very big gleamy eyes and a big smile and gentle aura. They have beautiful skin and are small in height !
Note: Iβve made sure to cover as much Aspects as I could to give a very general reading. Remember that I DO take this very seriously, however take it with a grain of salt. Readings canβt touch right on spot when the energy of the person that is being read isnβt present.
Anyway hope this will help you learning more about your idol, and please remember to take things lightly. Iβve used 4 decks for this reading : The Dark Fairy Tarot, The Animal Oracle, The Astrology Of The Dark Moon Oracle and The Paths Of Awakening Oracle
-> date: 23 Mars 2020
Changkyun (I.M) From Monsta X
Current Mood/Energy :
With everything that have been happening lately in the Monbebe world I was excited to see what this reading had in store for Changkyun. However is energy is all over the place, thereβs a lot of excitement linked with heavy stress. He feels stressed for sure. Plus it seems that he has been having this stubborn feeling for long now. He is trying to get to a conclusion with his team members but I still see a lot of lack of harmony. They are working very hard toward a goal but Changkyun is more focused on trying not to worry about old past mistakes and disappointments
Current Love Life :
Our Changkyun is single ever since the last person he was seeing disappointed him greatly. I definitely see a lot of pain and grief, it was a violent breakup even tho they werenβt « officiallyΒ Β» together. He is still trying to over come this. There isnβt any feelings attached to this person, but itβs more of a ego thing, I truly think Changkyun had expections and that this person only played with his feelings (probably cheated on him). Thus right now he is healing still, and focusing on self development even if he knows that he will need time to recover. He is analysing and fixing whatβs broken.
Current Career :
To what concerns his career Changkyun his starting a whole new period , he is working hard to put in practice his projects and what I think incredible is that he is also taking care of himself at the same time not letting emotional issues intervene. He knows that he has some unrealistic expectations with this new comeback but still he is opening for the best and he is trying to be mindful. Also they are definitely keeping something hiding from monbebes. Anyway he is thankful to what he has today and he feels grateful for all the experiences he had. He is a hard working boy .
Current Health :
Emotionally speaking Changkyun is rather quiet about what he feels and what he thinks. He rather work in the shadows. Currently he isnβt on his best emotionally (as Iβve said thereβs stress and excitement linked to work as well has his heart that he is fixing ). He is slightly not on his strongest form however we all know that he Is strong and not alone. Thus he only needs to focus on healing his psychic . For his physical condition he is healthy, just has to watch out for his abdomen and chest.
The Spiritual Message :
Itβs just amazing how even the spiritual messages are all linked with his emotional being at the moment and how his spiritual guides are trying to let him know that he has cried enough and now is the time to let his negative emotions being washed away so healing can enter his heart. Changkyun needs to know that his ideal will come when rjebrigjt time sets. Let go and let the magic of the world fix things
πͺ¦ Moon conjunct Pluto is a love with a depth that is both terrifying and fulfilling. It binds emotions with a raw, overwhelming, unbearable intensity and losing one another can feel like literal death, a wound that never heals. One personβs sadness, joy, or longing is felt by the other on a soul-level. This is a connection where both can feel the unspoken layers and hidden wounds, yet still choose each other over and over as if life itself bends towards this bond.
π₯ Venus or Mars conjunct Pluto is a love that can devour you whole. Desire and devotion blend together so tightly that separation, even temporary, carries an ache of loss. Attraction is magnetic and nearly inescapable, even a glance or word can feel like life or death. This relationship demands everything: radical honesty, vulnerability, and surrender. It can be electric, terrifying, or both at once.
πͺ¦ Saturn aspects to Moon or Venus anchor love across time, resulting in a "til death" loyalty in both people. Saturn may feel heavy at times, but it still carries meaning in these relationships. The boundaries are not there to trap either person, they protect what is real by teaching strength and long-term perspective. It gives a feeling that the relationship is a lifelong vow, whether spoken or not. The kind of relationships that shapes who you become and can survive things others would collapse under.
π₯ North and South Node connections point to a possibly fated, soul-level recognition. There is a sense that the meeting was always meant to happen, that one person holds lessons or some unfinished journey from the otherβs past life. The pull can be subtle or unmistakably intense: even small interactions feel like they have a meaningful purpose for both. These relationships often trigger profound personal and mutual growth, but they rarely feel easy and can take a lifetime to heal from if it ends tragically.
πͺ¦ 12th House overlays create a hidden, almost spiritual love. This is the type of bond that feels preordained by the cosmos, resonating on the unconscious and ineffable layers of life. Even when the lovers are apart, the other is present in dreams, thought, memory, or intuition. Separation feels like a mourning, like a shadow that has been cast onto the soul. Love here is quiet but all-consuming, a feeling that devotion itself is sacred, whispered in silence, and eternal.
π₯ 8th House overlays or 8H planetary contacts deepen love to a level where vulnerability, desire, and soul work are inseparable. The relationship mirrors the tragic intensity of Courtoisβ scene in this art piece: passion, grief, and devotion are fused. Every glance, touch, and word lingers, carrying the weight of eternity. The absence of the other feels like a hole in your heart, love like this does not stay on the surface. This is a love that completely transforms both people through surrender, trust, and the confrontation of shared mortality.
Die Gartenlaube (1885) / The burial of Atala. by Gustave-Claude-Γtienne Courtois
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'A little less conversation and a little more touch my body'
Mars aspecting Pluto/Neptune natives can be obsessed with others people's intensity. They meet deep people who change them forever
Air Dominants usually feel the frequency in a room where people don't get along with them. Most air dominants can feel when ppl share the same humour/vibe as them. You may feel like you don't belong in a room where ppl are not that social
I don't think you can heal your Chiron placement. But it usually shows how you can adapt to the pain and how to cope with it. Because Chiron represents wounds which all of us have. But won't show when we heal. By the way a prominent Chiron in a chart can be super scary when it comes to pain and insecurities
When Mercury goes retrograde in harsh signs like Pisces or Sagittarius, communication/arguing/fighting can become more intense. You can feel like isolating from people who hurt you verbally or not. And you might feel restricted from talking about certain topics/things. We are actually going through a period of Retrograde Mercury in Sagittarius rn
Neptune on the 1st, 6th, 8th or 12th house acts kinda crazy sometimes because you can find yourself disassociating in situations where you feel anxious/nervous. For example school or something similar, you're disassociating during school time and when you arrive home you think "What really happened during this time?"
Praying for everyone who has their 4th/8th/12th house Pluto/Saturn or them rulling this house because you must not have it easy at all. These placements indicate a strong toxic/ restrictive household
Saturn in a chart can indicate anxiety and shows that you might get over it as you grow older. For example someone with Saturn in the 5th or 7th house might experience lots of anxiety on relationships/partners topic early in life but might be more open to those in their adult ages. You won't overthink that much about your partner later in life. Saturn in the 6th or 10th house can indicate anxiety around jobs/working and even health or the way you're perceived by others early in life, while when you're older you won't care as much, as you get more experienced in life and won't struggle that much
If Mercury rules your 5th, 7th, 8th house you can get turned on by other people's voices and find being attractive to them. Ariana knows it the best when she says " A little less conversation and a little more touch on my body"
Having someone's south node in your 1st house ex: You're a Libra rising and your ex had a Libra south node right on your ascendant. Can show their identity resolves a lot around you. Can be painful when its going through a detachment phase
Moon or Mercury aspecting ascendant usually gives a soft skin to the native or a skin that ages more slowly
If you lack Mars aspects in a chart you can be a lazy native, Mars is all about movement, motion, moving fast, when it sits empty or less aspected can act the opposite
Fire Venus x Air Ascendant is such a chill combo to have in your chart, like Sagittarius Venus x Gemini Rising??? so chill. This fire x air combo makes the native so open-minded and flirty in life
Water Mercury x Earth Rising...this is a beautiful combo in someone's chart, this can indicate someone who's soft spoken and more grounding
Having Capricorn/Taurus Ascendant in the composite chart can indicate people see you as strong/mature and serious couple. Loyalty plays a major role in the relationship (composite chart is when you combine your chart with their x chart and then a new chart is born xx, is for relationships)
Scorpio/Sagittarius Risings in the composite chart are the "freaky couple" definition. Couples with these risings usually observe that they are matching in bed but not in other things. Like high sexual comparability but not so much for others things
Jupiter in the 5Β° 17Β° 29Β° 11Β° 23Β° degrees can have a good/liked personality. They can easily bond with others and people perceive them as friendly
Having JUPITER DK in either D1 or D9 chart can be a hidden blessing because the spouse will open a new side of you. They can expand your relationship a lot. You can feel like you grow better with them
Having MOON DK in either D1 or D9 chart can be a beautiful placement for those who are into more emotional/softer type of partners? This indicates lots of nurturing happening in the relationship and the spouse can be too
Having a Virgo or Gemini Moon in your D9 chart is a cute placement, often this indicates good communication and understanding of each other in the relationship. People don't get it but overthinking/anxiety/stress starts in a relationship bc of lack of community...it won't happen here.
Pisces Moon in your D9 chart can indicate a spouse/partner who's looking for someone deeply in love. Is usually a very deep placement for romantic people but the relationship can change you as a couple as years go on, becoming more mature
Aries Moon in the D9 chart can indicate that feelings may come so rushed and passionate to you as a couple. The spouse/partner can express their feelings in a passionate yet inpatient way, with this placement too you can feel like things move so fast in the couple
Usually we don't look at the aspects in the D9 chart, they don't matter as much...the planets and houses tell everything. So if you have harsh aspects in your D9 chart don't overthink them...(Oop forgot to mention that sometimes conjunctions matter though)
I don't know if everyone considers this...but some vedic astrologers might also wanna look at Chiron and Lilith in the d9 chart even though people don't talk about it (it opens another complex layer in the relationship so probably that's why and maybe not everyone is into it idk sometimes I forget about them too)
Sorry for being inactive ππ«ΆπΌ here is a new post to start this November!! Take care yall! π«ΆπΌπ«ΆπΌπ«ΆπΌ
Notesβ‘ these are all purely MY observations as an astrologer using other charts / readings I've done previously. You can thank my pattern recognition for some of the observations I make, this is meant to be taken as entertainment and not so serious.
Neptune 1H
People project who they wish they were & their unhealed emotions onto you. I feel like having Neptune here is sort of like a wild card. You also have a very piscian-like look to you that I think a lot of people like to project negativity on to you about. For instance, you might be seen as stuck up or bitchy simply because people feel threatened by how you look physically, or by how you are physically perceived. people can project some twisted fantasies onto you as well because you give off a very dreamy energy. Be careful with how you present yourself to others because you are the kind of person that your first impression will be one that you have to βlive up toβ with these people forever. make sure that you have a strong sense of identity because others will try to tear you down.
Neptune 2H
People project all of their insecurities onto you. With the 2H representing your self-esteem as well as your finances, your assets, the things that you personally ownβ¦people will project their insecurities about these things on to you. If you make more money than them, they will project by making comments or downplaying how you will come about all the money or resources you have. If they feel like you are displaying too much confidence, they will make βjokesβ about your personal insecurities to lower your self-esteem. They will poke fun at what you like, how you dress, how you decorate your home etc. This is all their ways of how they project their own fears of inadequacy. You can tell people I projecting because they take cheap shots at you or attack your looks or things you can't change about yourself.
Neptune 3H
People project onto you by misunderstanding you. This is complex because when people project, they never fully grasp, listen, or comprehend what you are saying but instead here what they want to hear. Your dreamy, elusive way of communicating can confuse people, leading them to assume the worst or twist your words to fit their own projections. I feel like people also project gossip on to you, or they project the ways that they talk about you. For instance, you can have a friend who gossips about you behind your back but then tries to constantly say that you are doing that even if you aren't. People also project their intellectual insecurities onto you, they project their creative insecurities on to you. They might feel stupid around you so they try to make you look dumb.
Neptune 4H
People like to project their own negative experiences on to you, but specifically in the realm of home life, family, stability etc. when people look at you, they feel nostalgic, and they do not always know why. This can stir up a lot of feelings in a person, and honestly, when they see that you either come from a very tight-knit family, OR, you've created your own loving family, people project the insecure ways they feel about this onto you. For instance, if you get your first home with your newlywed spouse, are you announce a home renovation or a pregnancy, people will downplay these big life changes to make themselves feel better but really it's just that they are insecure about not having these things. I've also noticed that when people can't tear you down about your cozy life, they try to make you look emotionally volatile. They will say that you are a horrible nasty person even if you are wildly loved lol.
Neptune 5H
Ooof β you are the embodient of somebody's muse, and because of this, people project a lot on to you. People will project their need for validation onto you a lot, and this could be regarding love, attention, creativity etc. people could feel like you are very elusive about your dating life or your creative endeavors and this leaves them to sort of fill in the blanks about your life, rather than them just asking. So this is the placement that can bring a lot of lies into somebody's life. You also make people feel very seen and appreciated which could lead to them projecting their desire to want to know you. This causes A LOT of romantic illusion in your life because you might find that your dating partners think of you as their twin flame or soulmate after like first couple of dates!
Neptune 6H
People project there insecurities, and delusions about how disorganized their life is on to you. When people see you do well, they feel insecure about how out of control they feel when it comes to their everyday lives or handling their everyday tasks. People might project their own inabilities to emotionally regulate themselves on to you, so for instance, they might romanticize you as a healer or a βfixerβ in their lives, but when you can't live up to that very unrealistic expectation, they get upset at you and put you down instead of recognizing that they are disappointed in themselves. This is a tough placement because it's like people project their own lack of discipline and self-control onto you simply because you have it together and they don't.
Neptune 7H
People often see what they want to see in you which could be like seeing you as the ideal partner, lover, business partner, friend etc. and when you evidently do not live up to these expectations, they want to demoralize and villainize you. For instance, you are either the perfect lover or you're absolutely terrible, the worst partner ever etc. I've also noticed that people who struggle with boundaries or clarity might accuse you of being dishonest, disloyal or confusing. A lot of mental games are played here, and I find that this is the placement where when people accuse you of something, it's most likely because they are doing that thing themselves. You attract a lot of people who do not know themselves so they try to find themselves through having a relationship with you. When they are inevitably let down, they project feelings of inadequacy instead of accepting you for who you are.
Neptune 8H
Ugh, people project some gross things on to you. People project some of their darker fantasies on to you or they assume that you are this very sexual person even if you aren't. People can project their own twisted sexual preferences onto you unfortunately. Others tend to project their guilt, shame, and other hidden insecurities onto you because your energy might naturally bring out what they suppress. Some people might assume you are being manipulative or secretive, or might say that you are being manipulative when you aren't, when the truth is that they are the ones with manipulative intentions and hidden agendas. People often project their unrelated guilt onto you or pull you into their unresolved pain. They tend to take their hurt out on you because the 8th house deals with whatβs shared, and what they end up sharing with you is usually their own grief. It is important to make sure that you can distinguish what is energetically yours and what isn't. Lots of spiritual and psychic attacks happens with this placement due to a lack of energetic boundaries.
Neptune 9H
People project discomfort about your spiritual knowledge on to you. For instance, they might see you as a know-it-all because you are very well educated, globally informed, spiritually in tune etc. They feel threatened by a certain level of freedom you obtain so they project their insecurities by trying to discredit you. Projections look like insults to your work, insults to your education, second-guessing you etc. I feel that people like to project their own educational and spiritual shortcomings on to you because they don't understand you. You're naturally very guru & mentor-like, and you attract people seeking guidance. The problem is that they will later project resentment onto you when you no longer grant them access to your knowledge or help.
Neptune 10H
People project their insecurities about your public image. They tend to idolize you, your image and what you do for a living, but the truth is that they see what they want to see and not who you truly are. Your work and your authority or public recognition is a constant trigger to others who project onto you. They might feel like you are too lazy or too unconventional to have the profession you have, but this is really them projecting their own insecurities when it comes to their own discipline. It's so weird because people project some weird characteristic archetypes on to you that don't even represent who you are. For instance, people see you as more of a symbol than as a person so they might label you as a βvillianβ in their story, constantly out to get them even if that's not the case. Or maybe they are very inspired by you to the point where they start copying you and make you their βmuseβ. It's a strange idealization of who you are that isn't even really who you are, and when you don't live up to this, they attack you publicly.
Neptune 11H
People can romanticize their connection to you to the extreme often projecting their own insecurities within connections, friend dynamics or any dynamic in general. You tend to attract insecure friends that often cling to you and and move too fast like calling you there best friend too soon or their soulmates etc. often, these people are seeking a sense of belonging but they struggle with boundaries and sometimes you struggle with reinforcing them. They often project their ideals of friendship and connection on to you but it's always skewed and kind of messed up because their ideas are either unrealistic, or just not who you are. People will start projecting negativity onto you once they realize they cannot mold you into who they want you to be in the friend group. People often project their fears of being alone on to you by making you feel like you have to be around all the time in order for them or other people to have a good time. It's like you are used as an energy source for your friend group.
Neptune 12H
People often project their own hidden illusions, emotions, and wounds onto you. You are not somebody that is easy to really pin down energetically, you are always up in the air and moving. This leads to people filling in the blankets about you, often with assumptions and projections of their own fears. Because Neptune in this house dissolves boundaries, people tend to project their unconscious guilt and shame on you. This is because you often attract people who need deep healing but might not even recognize it themselves. You are a vault for people who live with their shadow but are too afraid to recognize it. Unhealed people often mistake your compassion for permission to emotionally unload on you, and when you set boundaries, you are often blamed for things that are clearly not your fault. Vague accusations happen when they can't pinpoint your energy.
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