the ghost has no home

according to this chart i was a trans child (and am still trans apparently), i wanted to highlight the last two criteria because those symptoms are very prominent in victims of csa and i detest treating warning signs of sexual trauma that i and so many other girls experience as simply ‘gender dysphoria’

The most recent scoping review on BDSM (Brown et al., 2020), claims there is nothing sexist about it while also stating the majority of dominants/sadists are men.

abused person venting: i hate abusers and hope they all die

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/d1f826bdfda48692

birth rates on a steady decline. more and more women are abstaining from sex with men. the whole political spectrum gets anxious when women call pregnancy “body horror.” the right and traditionalists want to get rid of abortion and no fault divorce and voting rights so women become little more than sex slaves. the left and queers are ramping up their usual pro-rape advocacy against women, measuring women’s morality by how much sexual access they provide to marginalized men. everyone wants women to be infinitely rape-able.

“The witch-burnings did not take place during the “Dark Ages,” as we commonly suppose. They occurred between the fifteenth and eighteenth centuries– precisely during and following the Renaissance, that glorious period when, as we are taught, “men’s” minds were being freed from bleakness and superstition. While Michelangelo was sculpting and Shakespeare writing, the witches were burning. The whole secular “Enlightenment,” in fact, the male professions of doctor, lawyer, judge, artist, all rose from the ashes of the destroyed women’s culture. Renaissance men were celebrating naked female beauty in their art, while women’s bodies were being tortured and burned by the hundreds of thousands all around them.”

“it’s okay for girls to be feminine” as if anyone in the history of humanity has ever told them it’s not, meanwhile butches and tomboys are a critically endangered species. girl, the reason you feel bad about being feminine is because you’re a girl, not because you’re feminine. men as a social class will hate you and everything they associate with women, because they hate women. but rest assured, women are still expected to perform femininity, because women performing femininity caters to men. that is what it is designed for. that is its social purpose to reinforce the gender hierarchy and men as the top social class. femininity is built on women’s ability to endlessly serve men with their labor, particularly menial and undesirable household tasks, emotional labor, and sexual labor. men see femininity as beneath them and worthy of mockery because it’s meant to cater to them. of course they see it as beneath them, they designed it that way. but if women don’t perform femininity the way they want, they mock it, because the whole point of femininity is to cater to men. that includes putting women down to ‘keep them in their place’, even women reinforcing the status quo.