Just watched a trope talk about “the ladie’s man” and the entire time I just was going “turn the trope on its head. Have the person not be looking for romance and enjoy the sex as the one night stands as they are. Aromantic people exist! Make friends with the people they sleep with. Respect their partners and spaces, but not end up with someone because you know what, some people aren’t using sex to fill a void, sometimes it’s just sex and it’s fun.”

me the second I got into a romantic relationship with someone I thought I had a crush on before I knew I was aromantic and instantly regretting it

society: u can’t be happy except romance society: if u so much as smile, it must be romantic

not gonna lie, sometimes it feels exhausting to talk to people who aren’t aro

Hey alloaros should be able to talk about their sexual attraction without being demonized for it bc they don't also experience romantic attraction.

fuck it