Recently Iâve been thinking about the different types of love languages in Omniscient Readerâs Viewpoint, The S-Classes That I Raised, and Lout of the Countâs FamilyâŚ
Not to say that each of the stories describes only one single kind of love language; they are, after all, all novels that focus on Found Family, with many different types of relationships between characters that express their love for each other in as many different ways.
Yet, Iâve noticed how at the core of each of these three stories there is one specific act of love that recurs more than others, and that becomes the true Theme each novel revolves around.
In Lout of the Countâs Family, the main love language is providing food and a home.
âHomeâ is such an important concept in LCF that Cale collects houses like they were pokemon cards. The source of his trauma when he was a child as Kim Roksu was that he was not given sufficient food, and that where he lived was not truly a shelter where he could feel safe, just a place he was trapped in.
And I donât think there are ever more than 2 chapters in a row without a character offering food to others, or asking if theyâre hungry, if theyâve eaten, why havenât you eaten, here have some apple pie!!
Cale uses his newfound money and power to make sure his loved ones are provided for. Thatâs how he adopts bonds with most of his new family.
The first thing Raon does after heâs freed from the prison heâs been trapped in all his life, is to leave food for this hopelessly weak human.
Choi Han, who has lived alone in a dangerous forest for decades, would do anything to protect his home.
The Crown Prince, who has been isolated and untrusting of everyone ever since his mother died, makes sure to always have cookies in his bedroom in case guests âbreak inâ for a visit at any time of the day or the night.
I love you, youâll never be hungry again. I love you, my home is your home.
In The S-Classes That I Raised, the main love language is words.
Yoojinâs powers are literally activated by telling people âI love youâ. Because all he ever wanted was to say âI love youâ to his brother one last time.
Because the tragedy that starts the story happens because Yoohyun loved and protected his hyung in secret for years. Silence creates misunderstandings, it creates distance, it leads to loss.
Loving someone isnât enough, tell them! Reassure them. Remember what they say, because their words are important!!
Ever since the regression, Yoojin always let people know when he loves them and appreciates them. âYouâre perfect, youâre cute, youâre so talented, youâre so handsome, you are loved.â
And as the novel progresses, whenever Yoojin is in pain, or doesnât know what to do, he turns to Sung Hyunje because he needs to be reassured, he needs to know he did well, he needs to hear he is still important to the people he loves.
I love you, please know that I love you! I love you, please tell me you love me back.
And finally, in Omniscient Readerâs Viewpoint, the main love language is time.
Time is one of the greatest sources of horrors in ORV. Eternities upon eternities of suffering, being trapped for ages in the same, hopeless loop, wishing for everything to just stop.
And yet, time is also the greatest gift characters give to each other.
Because the wounds Dokja suffered as a child, and then again and again through his whole lifeâŚ. They need time to heal. They need so much time. They will probably take forever.
So let them take forever.
Despite how much pain and worry he causes his companions by giving up on himself over and over again, his companions never give up on him. And he doesnât understand why!! He doesnât think heâs worth it. But itâs not his choice, itâs theirs. And they will go through as many tries, as much pain, as much time as it takes, before they can finally save him.
I love you, so I will wait fifty years for you. I love you, so I will live through thousands of lifetimes to find you. I love you, so I will read and reread your story for the rest of time, just to keep you alive.