hey

I don’t care about your disorders you should be acting correctly in front of me

I think people have a genuine hatred for victims of abuse and assault. I think nobody wants to consider themselves a victim, because in their mind being a victim is the weakest, lowest, most disgusting thing in the world, and if they have to consider the fact that they might have been abused, assaulted, rape, VICTIMIZED then they are a part of that class of Weak and Low people they so despise. And mayhaps, if society so changed that victims could be treated as normal people, be given space to feel broken and hurt without rushing to move on, we might have SOMETHING of a world where hurt/hurting people aren't considered lower than the people that hurt them.

My child, who spends their entire life being transfered from home to car to school and back, and is not allowed to leave the house or talk to anyone and can only in their wildest dreams imagine a life free from constant surveillance, is very sad. Obviously they're dumb and lazy, like all kids these days.

kind of a tangent but i recently went to a bowling alley with my friend i'm 19 he's 18 and the woman at the door didn't want to let us in because there was a sign saying under-18s needed adult supervision. everything got cleared up and we were able to go bowl, but i'm still so mad about the fact that kids need adult supervision to go to a bowling alley and arcade. like okay maybe young kids should have supervision but what do you mean middle and high schoolers need to hold mommy's hand while they play video games. kids aren't just addicted to their phones because phones are addicting, we're addicted to our phones because there's nothing else to fucking do

I'm sure banning kids from online spaces while simultaneously not ensuring that they have access to offline spaces to socialize in (without having to rely on their parents who already don't have time for them) will help them feel better & less alienated from society.