Forever A Work In Progress

every fat person you know for the most part probably has a story like this, of medical neglect. many of the stories i've heard personally are when the complaint or the doctor wasn't related at all, like being told to lose weight at the ear nose and throat doctor or at the dentist. it's straight up just bias. it's such a thing that in the show Shrill it's portrayed, when Aidy Bryant goes to the gynecologist and her doctor suggests she get gastric bypass.

the studies on health and fatness are simply not that black and white and there is basically no research that shows that more than an incredibly tiny minority of people can lose weight and keep it off for more than like 2 years. bodies have set points that they gravitate towards, it's not a personal failure. this also is how the weight loss industry succeeds so well - repeat customers.

some of the harm associated with fatness is also due to weight cycling, which is very hard on your body and is even worse if you get off a GLP1, which according to a recent study causes weight to be regained at a rate that is 4x faster than without taking a GLP1.

you don't have to hate yourself. you don't have to hate other people for their body type either. it makes me so sad to see the thinspo tag going around again in 2026 a lot like it was back in the day.

some resources to learn more here:

https://www.reuters.com/article/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/feeling-fat-may-be-worse-for-you-than-being-fat-idUSTON079061/

Feeders with praise kinks.

Loose myself in touching them, grabbing and kneeding their round heavy belly, biting and sucking at their chest and shoulders to leave the long day behind.

- teasing subby feeders by sitting on their lap, pinning them down with your weight, showing them how their hard work has paid off.

- edging a sub feeder with a vibrator, keeping it on the whole time you're eating, but not allowing them to come until you've finished all your food. keeping them over sensitive and absolutely wrecked.

- showing off to your feeder, giving them a proper strip tease in clothes that definitely fit better a couple pounds ago, watching how horny it makes them.

- refusing to fuck your feeder, telling them they have to get themself off by humping your thigh or belly, watching them fall apart on your body, without ever touching them.

- making your feeder cook you a big meal, watching how horny they get being forced to just sit and watch you eat, shifting their hips and whimpering with the desire to feed you.